조언 Article: Ithink that im bi. i dont know pls help me

Ithink that im bi. i dont know pls help me

posted by trisha136

im a girl and i have 13 years. i have been bestfriend with this particular girl for about a year. we have been through a lot because of me like there was a time i didnt want to be close with her anymore and i hurted her a lot 의해 that but than like after a week everything turmed back to normal. i was always a shy girl and im the last summer we didnt go out so much together i wish we did but i was shy because if we where going out we would be just us (just 2 girls together) and i thought that when people will see us just the 2 of us they would thing that we are together and i didnt want that at all (i never told she this)but now after the summer we went out like 5 times 또는 더 많이 (because of school) and we went alone and like i didnt care that much with the fact that we where alone. 의해 the way since the last year(2015) i had only 2 primary crushes (boys) that i thought that i felt something form them i now i sure that i didnt felt anything they where just nice guys. when im with her i feel so happy and a little bit shy toobut i feel something not strange but like something i dont know if it just a best friend feeling 또는 something more. we chat all the time and im really happy about that and sometimes when we are talking/chatting she could make me sad in 1 sec because sometime she say " i wouldnt care if something happen to me " 또는 when she thinks that shes ugly that realy annoys me! but when she says that xi loves me(as best friend) i really appreciate itand that makes me happy, so happy and makes me feel specail this particular week i have been imaginating this perfect live living together and being together everytime im imagine something like that i feel so so so happy and sometimes every tears fell down. we like have this dream together that someday we will live together in an appartment (as best friends) and its preety cooli mean it would be so awsome. i have been searching about falling in 사랑 with your best friend girl to girl and i found it interesting. if i am bi it would be so so hard to tellling it to others mostly my mom my dad and my bestfriend. i dont know what they thing about LGBT my mom and dad. i have 3 brother but im the only girl and my mom loves me so much im so different from my brothers ( in a good way) in like mommys girl and i thing that if im really bi and i tell them they wouldnt accept me and they will have some health problems because of me and i dont want that at all!! i 사랑 my parents so much and if something happens to then because of me i would never forgive my self. i need some help pls i dont know what to do i dont know who i am anymore and should i tell my best friend on what i feel ????

glelsey First, it's probably worth mentioning that at your age your hormones can do all kinds of things. I wouldn't rush into anything just yet, because this could be a one-time crush, and it might pass. But sometimes, people as young as you find out that they are bi. There's nothing wrong with being bi (as I'm sure you know), but it's good to be prepared. If you're not yet sure whether you are bi, you might want to try speaking to other people who are bisexual, find out how they figured out their orientation, and how they told their friends and family. Here are a couple more clubs here on Fanpop that might help you with this: [url=http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/lgbt]The general LGBT club.[/url] [url=http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/bisexuality]A club just for bisexuals.[/url] But if you would rather talk to your best friend and/or your parents about this as soon as possible, then I think you should say, "I think I might be bi," or, "I don't know but I could be bi." Different people choose to go about these things in different ways, and I don't know which you would prefer. You might want to do more research first, or you might want to just tell friends and family straight away. Try to relax and think about which you think would be better for you personally. From what you've said, I get the impression that you might be better off chatting to other bisexual people first on the internet, but it's your choice. If you do choose to chat with other bisexual people, hopefully the links I provided will help you. One other thing: if you tell your best friend, it's probably best to first tell her that you think you are bisexual [i]before[/i] telling her about your feelings towards her. Let her take this in before you tell her how you feel about her. Good luck! :)

gleeklainegirl Tnks so much i really appreciate your help first i think that im going to talk to bisexual people as you suggested thanks so so much xx