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 Drinks can be spiked in two 초
Drinks can be spiked in two seconds
Inspired 의해 Cinders soapbox on this spot. This is to show 당신 why though.

I hail from Ireland- the unofficial drinking capital of the world. Therefore, most of my socialising centres around the pub, and the club.

Its not that I am a massive drinker, 당신 know, the kind that tries to suck up alcohol from the carpet following a spill, but I do drink. And I do go out.Which is why I know first hand the dangers of leaving a drink unattended.

It doesn't matter what 당신 are drinking, be it whiskey 또는 water,NEVER EVER LEAVE IT UNATTENDED.

Its really common to spike a drink with a Mickey Finn in Ireland,...
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When I was just six months old, my parents, who work for the State Department, moved to Washington DC to do their periodic check-in with Big Brother. They lived in a town called Reston, Virginia, which had plenty of swimming pools, one within walking distance of our house.

My brother, Steve, was about five years old at the time, and loved the water. So, it happened, did our neighbor's son, Mac. Mac was about a 년 older than Steve, and the two took to each other immediately. Steve even joined the swim team with Mac, and was over at his house often.

Eventually, though, my parents' job called...
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*sighs* So..lately, I'm starting to think 또는 maybe realize that I am bisexual; I'm attracted 의해 both boys and girls.

After thinking about it, there have been signs of this since I was at a young age, like around five years of age, but I never put these clues together until now....

Well...like I said, it all started at five. For some strange reason, a lot of the little kids in my kindergarten class already started having crushes on one another. There were little girls telling each other so-and-so likes 당신 and giggling about it, and there were boys who basically did the same thing. I can even...
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So, these past couple months, I've picked up a few things. My story in a nutshell: I sat behind my crush in class, didn't start liking him until the last 월 또는 so of school, didn't get too many chances to talk to him due to the teacher's way of running the class, and I spent those last few weeks desperately trying to befriend him.

Anyways, here are some things I've learned from the whole experience.

1. Don't EVER pass up an opportunity to talk to ANYONE you're sitting near in class (doesn't matter if it's high school, college, work, whatever), and don't EVER take a conversation for granted....
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 Coffee beans
Coffee beans
This is an 이메일 that my mother received and I thought that I'd share it with all of you.

A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first pot she placed carrots, in the 초 she placed eggs, and in the last...
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posted by 2annayjacob
BOY SEES GIRL,GIRL LEARNS ABOUT BOY, BOY AND GIRL FALL IN LOVE, BOY IS SWEET TO GIRL, GIRL NOTICES A PUPPY-LIKE QUALITY ABOUT BOY. BOY GOES OUT WITH GIRLS, OTHER GIRLS, GIRL MAKES BOY FALL FOR HER AGAIN, BOY BREAKS UP WITH OTHER GIRLS, ALWAYS.
ONE 일 GIRL SEES BOY, BUT SHE DOESN'T RECOGNIZE BOY, BOY IS DRESSED LIKE A GIRL..GIRL FALLS DOWN A HOLE, BOY HEARS GIRL TALKING SHIT ABOUT HIM, GIRL DOESN'T KNOW, BOY IS DEVASTATED, FOLLOWS GIRL DOWN THE HOLE. BOY TURNS TO DRUGS, GIRL TURNS TO COMMON, FUKING SENCE, AND NOW, GIRL KNOWS BOY HEAR. BOY TURNS TO JAY, GIRL GETS DEPRESSED. BOY DOESN'T RETURN...
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posted by IsabellaAzuria
I was born
though i shouldn't be
I should have died
I would have died
but i didn't

It would have been better for me to die
and leave this world behind me
it's full of liars and fear

I nearly died twice
Why didn't I?
I would feel so much better now

I would never have been betrayed
by three guys
I would never have seen my mom
lying on the floor and trying to kill herself
I would never have heard my parents
having huge arguments everyday
I would never have known what it's like
to live without money
I would never have been the daydreamer
everybody makes fun of

But then I thought god would have mercy
he sent me one...
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posted by Cinders
I wrote this a while ago, and since it seems to be nothing but a series of advice, I figured... what the hell? I think I was listening to LeAnne Womack's "I Hope 당신 Dance" at the time because that's what it sounds like.

When 당신 look up at the sky, don't do it just to see if it's raining
When 당신 find it is raining, don't run indoors and hide
When 당신 get your hopes too high, don't say you're overrated
When 당신 walk down 의해 a river, don't be afraid to get your feet wet
When your 불, 화재 goes out, don't blame it on the wind
When 당신 watch the sunset, don't think the 일 is over
When 당신 reach out to...
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Skip to end for a brief overview

I'm a 15 년 old girl and I've been struggling with this for a couple years I've read so many 기사 about figuring out if your biography and taken a countless number of those stupid tests on the internet that are supposed to tell 당신 if 당신 gay straight bi 또는 anything in between and I just can't work it out so this is my last resort so I geuss I'll start at the beginning ..... when I was in 년 7 I was a bit of a loner I'd just moved school and I hated it there anyway towards the end of 년 7 I made 프렌즈 with this girl well call her sasha so anyway sasha...
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I .... just can't feel anything ... I am Always Complained about that ... I'm Passing through much things now:

Reason1:- my country is living in a war , some say it's because of America and other countries that want to take ours (syria) and others say it's for freedom and because of of the president and his violence (haven't actually been sure of any so I can't judge) , anyway , just 구글 Syria 또는 look in YouTube to see what I am talking about , this situation destroyed my biggest childhood dream to win the computer contest of my country then the one of the world , but because of the current...
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 My 가장 좋아하는 drink of the moment.
My favorite drink of the moment.
First of all, let me say that alcohol is one of the finer pleasures in life. Hell, I always have a bottle of Bailey's on hand somewhere in my house. But I've been thinking about responsible drinking lately, and how a lot of people, especially younger folks like me, think they know what that means, but... don't, at least, not really.

Now, 당신 may think, "Responsible drinking tips from a nineteen-year-old American?" Well, yeah, I see where that might come off kind of amusing, but I've actually had a lot of experience with alcohol. So really I'm 더 많이 like a nineteen-year-old Belgian when it comes...
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I'm female. I have had girl crushes before, but I usually have boy crushes. I have had daydreams about being with girls I like, and I sometimes fantasize my first 키스 being with a girl. Most 퀴즈 I take say I'm bisexual. Me and my friend, who is a girl, almost kissed back in first grade but I decided that I couldn't do it. My 프렌즈 and family are very homophobic and I am also a Christian. I will never tell my family about these feelings because they would disown me if I did. Same with my friends. I also feel like I'm not a good Christian 또는 that I will go to Hell because I think I might be bisexual. I also think that I might be forming a crush on a girl now. What do I do guys?!
ok, this all started when my mum and i decided to watch a romantic comedy (not gonna mention the title), but before that she gave me "THE TALK" which i didnt happen to like. i kept my feelings to myself until i was playing truth 또는 dare with my friends, one of my 프렌즈 asked: "Roisín, truth... *creepy voice* 또는 dare?" "definately truth." "hmm... what do 당신 think about:
1. having a boyfriend?
2. first kisses?
3. 또는 a husband?"
i had to be honest so i said, "i dont want to have any!" they stared at me for a moment then asked, " whats wrong with it?" i was thinking, THE BRASS NECK OF HER! "i just...
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posted by Shelly_McShelly
Just a moment in this lifetime,
Just a tragedy ahead.
Not knowing where each turn will lead,
Within 초 we might be dead.

Live each 일 to the fullest,
Do not stop to wonder why.
Do everything your 심장 deisres,
In dreams, rech for the sky.

Surprises at every stop sign,
With its share of wrong ways and dead-ends.
Statistics dont help 당신 with the future,
They only tell 당신 where you've been.

With so many people amoung us,
There are no certainties.
And all it takes is just one person,
To reroute history.

Don't waste one single moment,
How very precious that they are.
What seems a long way off,
Is really not that far.


물오리, 청록 Henderson.
posted by AXLRgirl2420
I know that no one knows me here. But I just have a lot to say n' I need to tell it to someone. Anyone, really.

I'm 13, first off. I don't have much experience in this world, but I've learned a lot. There's been so much that's happened over the years that lead up to this moment.

In 5th grade, I was antagonized for being different, like everyone else. But I was like the main target. It hurt really bad n' I started to drift away 더 많이 n' more. Then...well...something happened during that year, but I won't say. It brings back too many bad memories.

Anyway, 6th grade didn't start out that bad. I...
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posted by angelwings2055
So I have this guy friend. His name is will not be mentioned but his code name is Dr.Spazz ok?
So Dr.Spazz used to be SUPER nice to me and I started liking him. I don't anymore because he's been a jerk to me lately. I have had a rough few months due to my grandfather dying. He was nice to me for a bit then was a jerk again. I started being a jerk right back. And then my good friend, she will be named as the pegasister, told me he called me nice. Even though I have been nothing but a jerk to him he called me nice?!?! I was shocked! Then I told my best friend, who will be named as the dog whisperer. I told her and she thought I started liking Dr.Spazz again. Which I don't! She knows now but he called me nice and I feel like a TOTAL jerk now. What should I do even though we never talk about stuff like this?
posted by Shakailicious
저기요 everyone! I have recently joined this site because I read an 기사 on a similar topic. This girl wrote about her inner fears that she might be bisexual, she said that she absolutely isn't against the gay community she is just unsure of what her sexuality might bring her (like me).
I have a somewhat similar situation concerning my sexual orientation, I 'think' that I am bisexual. As a kid I never had huge crushes on neither boys nor girls. True, the first guy that I liked was in kindergarten, after him I had only 2 'relevant' boy crushes (crushes that lasted somewhat long). However in the...
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Travelling to different countries in Asia this 년 with my girlfriend and I’m considering if I should just book with a travel agency rather than making arrangements on my own. We’re both thinking about going to Singapore, Vietnam, Malaysia, Thailand, and Cambodia. I’ve seen Multiple city singles tours packages which are rather affordable. It already includes flight tickets, a 4-star accommodation for the whole trip, city tour in each country, and all-day meals. Should I just get this kind of package?
I’m honestly getting sick and tired of listening to my best friend who is constantly bragging about how a foreign surfer dude was hitting on her at the beach. During her visit to Australia, she was at that famous 바닷가, 비치 and apparently this “tall and muscular hunk” approached her and asked if she was single. They exchanged numbers but a few days after that, she flew back here. Since her arrival, she never heard from him again. I wish I could 헤로인 her in the face with the truth that there was never going to be anything between them ‘cause one, they’re in a long distance situation and two, she doesn’t even know his name!
Sorry for the rant, I just really needed to get this off my chest. But if 당신 guys have any suggestions and 조언 for me regarding this, that would be awesome. Thanks a bunch.
My good friend was convinced to 가입하기 this weird event thing called an a romance tour (i think it’s called?). He’s too shy to go alone so he’s asking me to accompany him. He said that he’ll take care of my expenses since he’s kind of excited about attending one. But in my opinion, this doesn't really seem like something I would consider spending money on. There are a couple of things that make me want to go, since it’s travelling to an international country, and hey, I might actually meet someone there. Is it a big waste of time and money 또는 should i just go for the hell of it? I got nothing better to do anyway.