Has your boyfriend been unfaithful to you? Infidelity can leave couples feeling insecure, hurt and can make it difficult to trust each other again. Sometimes, the damage can carry into a new relationship if a break up occurs. Handle a cheating boyfriend 의해 following these steps.:
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that 당신 can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What 조언 would 당신 give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do 당신 believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how 당신 feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If 당신 feel 당신 need to know why he cheated on 당신 to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean 당신 condone, agree with 또는 accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology 또는 promises never to cheat on 당신 again. Be realistic. Do 당신 honestly believe this was a one-time event, 또는 do your instincts tell 당신 that he'll probably cheat on 당신 again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if 당신 would be better off with him 또는 without him. Can 당신 continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether 당신 stay with him 또는 not, forgive him for his actions so 당신 can heal and move on with your life.
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that 당신 can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What 조언 would 당신 give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do 당신 believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how 당신 feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If 당신 feel 당신 need to know why he cheated on 당신 to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean 당신 condone, agree with 또는 accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology 또는 promises never to cheat on 당신 again. Be realistic. Do 당신 honestly believe this was a one-time event, 또는 do your instincts tell 당신 that he'll probably cheat on 당신 again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if 당신 would be better off with him 또는 without him. Can 당신 continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether 당신 stay with him 또는 not, forgive him for his actions so 당신 can heal and move on with your life.
