Some of the old ways of dating could be use an upgrade. Welcome 2014 with these new and improved rules!
For most of us, the best--and usually our first--source of our dating 조언 is our family. We rely on the experiences and wise words of Mom, Sister, and in some cases even Grandmother, for the do's and don'ts of boys and relationships. But as years pass by, it might be time to rule out some of Mom's and Grandma's old (and old-fashioned) rules on dating and come up with reasonable guidelines that appeal to 더 많이 modern minds.
The Old Way:
~Date only boys who belong to your 원, 동그라미 of friends.
The New Way:
~While there is some comfort in going out with guys you've known since grade school, remember that the whole point is dating is to get to know new people. The spirit of the new decade is overcoming boundaries, and a great way to take part in it is 의해 dating outside your usual "type" 또는 group. For instance, just because you're a computer geek, it doesn't mean that 당신 can't go out with a cute 농구 player. All it takes is a little confident. If Troy and Gabriella from High School Musical 또는 Rachel and Finn from Glee were able to do it, why can't you?
The Old Way:
~Wait 의해 the phone for him to call to ask 당신 out.
The New Way:
~The old saying, "Never call a boy first", may have been right during your grandmother's time, but with all the ways of communication available now, it seems silly not to drop him any hints that you're interested. Text him, chat him over Yahoo Messenger, leave a message on his 페이스북 Wall, 또는 mention him on Twitter. 당신 don't have to ask him out straight up if you're not comfortable with it, but it's okay to remind him that you're around if he wants to hang out.
The Old Way:
~Ask him to pick 당신 up from your house.
The New Way:
~Sure, there's still some merit to having a guy show up at your doorstep, then drop 당신 off after the 날짜 for a possible Hollywood-style goodnight kiss. But there's also no reason why 당신 can't meet him at a public place, like the restaurant where 당신 plan to have 공식 만찬, 저녁 식사 또는 the bowling alley where 당신 intended to hang out. Arriving and leaving on your own saves time---and it helps 당신 avoid an awkward drive 집 if the 날짜 goes sour.
The Old Way:
~Just have a 공식 만찬, 저녁 식사 and watch movie.
The New Way:
~It's not the 50's anymore---dating doesn't have to mean 공식 만찬, 저녁 식사 and movie all the time. Though it's great to share a meal and see a cool flick, there are tons of other fun activities 당신 can do together without spending too much like playing at the park, bowling, ice skating and many more. 당신 can even bring some mutual 프렌즈 along to avoid any uncomfortable first-date experience moments. 덮개, 랩 up the 일 (or night) at a quiet coffee 샵 so 당신 can grab a bite, talk about your adventures together, and get to know each other in peace.
The Old Way:
~Sit pretty and let him make all the decisions.
The New Way:
~The days when girls were not much 더 많이 than decoration for the 공식 만찬, 저녁 식사 표, 테이블 are long gone. Most of the guys like girls who think for themselves, and who can churn out 더 많이 than just, "Anywhere 당신 want, it's up to you" in response to the question, "So, where do 당신 want to go?" Feel free to suggest a restaurant 당신 사랑 또는 an activity 당신 find interesting. Your 날짜 will appreciate your sharing the pressure of decision-making and will respect 당신 더 많이 for it.
The Old Way:
~Turn away all his compliments so 당신 won't seem too eager 또는 mayabang.
The New Way:
~One of the most common compliments among guys is that girl's can't seem to take a compliment. There's no need for 당신 to bring yourself down 또는 tell him, "You're just saying that." Accept his praise with grace! Nine times out of 10, he's telling the truth and 당신 know it. A simple "Thank you" will show that you're confident and comfortable with your self---plus, he'll appreciate being thanked for noticing how nice 당신 look in your dress 또는 how much pretty 당신 are.
The Old Way:
~Introduce your 날짜 to your parents first.
The New Way:
~While your parents' opinions definitely matter, putting your guy in the hot 좌석 too soon exerts unnecessary pressure on the relationship. A guy who doesn't know 당신 that well may not yet be ready for your Mom's loaded statements and your Dad's underhanded threats. It's best to wait for things to become serious before bringing him 집 to your family. It also helps 당신 avoid all the awkward 질문 when things end before they can truly begin.
The Old Way:
~Expect fireworks and romance on a one-on-one date.
The New Way:
~These days, there's a huge difference between a friendly date and a date-date. A guy won't break out the flowers, chocolates, and sweet gestures right away. Chances are, he'll call it "hanging out" and fall a few notches sort of The Perfect Gentleman In Your Head. The modern girl knows not to expect too much from a single date---and knows that chemistry and attraction can never be forced.
The Classics:
While some rules evolved overtime, there are still etched in the stone.
1.Be your self:
~Put your best foot forward, but make sure 당신 stay true to who 당신 are. Never lie to impress.
2.Be on time:
~We know 당신 want to be fashionably late, but keeping him waiting any longer than 15 분 is just a plain rude.
3.Wear an appropriate amount of makeup:
~It's a date, not a 할로윈 party! Simplicity is the key.
4.Don't spend the 날짜 texting, tweeting, 또는 Facebooking:
~Focus your attention on your 날짜 and leave the social networking for later!
5.Avoid talking about other boys:
~He especially doesn't want to hear about how much 당신 misses your ex 또는 how cute 또는 handsome your classmate 또는 neighbor is.
6.Be a good listener:
~It's okay to talk about yourself, but make sure to ask him 질문 and listen to his stories as well.
7.Don't nag:
~He'll appreciate if 당신 call 또는 text a few days after the 날짜 to thank him and say 당신 had fun, but don't harass him the 다음 week 또는 panic if he doesn't respond immediately.
8.Don't lead him on:
~If 당신 realize you're not as interested in him as 당신 thought, politely let him know when he asks 당신 out again. It may upset him at first, but he'll surely appreciate your honestly in the long run.
(Big idea)
Another problem thats spreading on Fanpop. The problem is that people keep reporting people for dumb reasons. For example my friend some people reported her because she didnt agree with them and thats wrong. Like what happened to ''We are a big 팬팝 family''?. That doesnt even matter anymore does it ? Just when somebody makes 당신 mad 또는 doesnt agree with your point of view 당신 just 신고 them and thats just a whole bunch of bullshit. Like for real handle reporting responsibly if someone makes 당신 mad keep going on with life if someone doesnt agree with your view point just accept dont 신고 thm. Because we are a big family and we dont 신고 또는 block family we care and show 사랑 for them and YES we all argue its natural but just to 신고 someone is taking it too far
PLZ STOP IT!!
whos w/ me?
사랑 all around
-Jordan
Another problem thats spreading on Fanpop. The problem is that people keep reporting people for dumb reasons. For example my friend some people reported her because she didnt agree with them and thats wrong. Like what happened to ''We are a big 팬팝 family''?. That doesnt even matter anymore does it ? Just when somebody makes 당신 mad 또는 doesnt agree with your point of view 당신 just 신고 them and thats just a whole bunch of bullshit. Like for real handle reporting responsibly if someone makes 당신 mad keep going on with life if someone doesnt agree with your view point just accept dont 신고 thm. Because we are a big family and we dont 신고 또는 block family we care and show 사랑 for them and YES we all argue its natural but just to 신고 someone is taking it too far
PLZ STOP IT!!
whos w/ me?
사랑 all around
-Jordan
"Hello, is this the FBI?" "Yes, what do 당신 want?" "I'm calling to 신고 my neighbor Billy Bob Smith! He is hidingmarijuana inside his firewood." "Thank 당신 very much for the call, sir." The 다음 day, the FBI agents descend on Billy Bob's house. They searchthe shed where the firewood is kept. Using axes, they bust open everypiece of wood, butfind no marijuana. They swore at Billy Bob and left. The phone rings at Billy Bob's house. Hey, Billy Bob! Did the FBI come?" "Yeah!" "Did they chop your firewood?" "Yep." "Happy Birthday, Buddy!"
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16. 당신 totally forgot I was only supposed to tell 당신 ten facts.
2. You're wondering why you're even 읽기 this.
4. 당신 didn't notice that I misspelled you're on #1
5. And you're checking back now
6. Nor did 당신 notice I skipped number three.
7. 당신 don't even feel like checking back this time. You'll take my word for it..
8. This is so stupid that 당신 silently chuckle to yourself.
9. Then 당신 realize that six isn't true because that doesn't make sense and that this is a rip off.
10. But 당신 remember that a fact is something that can be proven right 또는 wrong, so technically it was a fact.
11. 당신 wish 당신 never began to read this stupid stuff now but its still hard to stop.
13. I didn't catch 당신 with the missing number this time. 또는 did I?
14. 당신 wonder why I'm being such a smart butt.
15. But then again, my mind 읽기 powers amaze you.
16. 당신 totally forgot I was only supposed to tell 당신 ten facts.
Ring a Ring a Rosies,
a pocket full of posies
ATISHOO ATISHOO, we all fall down
Known to be a song about a ring of roses, little children 노래 in a row, then 당신 sneeze and 당신 fall down. Did 당신 ever play that game as a young child? Hold hands and dance in a circle?
Now for the reality.
This nursery rhyme is about the Black Plague.
Ring a ring a rosies - 당신 used to have large pinky red circles on your skin, this is how 당신 knew 당신 had the plague.
A pocket full of posies - People used to hold posies up to their nose to keep the smell of death away. They also believed that it would keep the plague away. (didn't work)
Atishoo Atishoo we all fall down - 당신 know what THAT means? if not that, people would sneeze and cough and you'd know that OHMYGOD WERE DYING! And you'd all fall down (basically, you've popped your clogs)
Some people think it is a very, haunting, creepy song if sung in a certain way other than the cheerful way.
Randomness lol.
a pocket full of posies
ATISHOO ATISHOO, we all fall down
Known to be a song about a ring of roses, little children 노래 in a row, then 당신 sneeze and 당신 fall down. Did 당신 ever play that game as a young child? Hold hands and dance in a circle?
Now for the reality.
This nursery rhyme is about the Black Plague.
Ring a ring a rosies - 당신 used to have large pinky red circles on your skin, this is how 당신 knew 당신 had the plague.
A pocket full of posies - People used to hold posies up to their nose to keep the smell of death away. They also believed that it would keep the plague away. (didn't work)
Atishoo Atishoo we all fall down - 당신 know what THAT means? if not that, people would sneeze and cough and you'd know that OHMYGOD WERE DYING! And you'd all fall down (basically, you've popped your clogs)
Some people think it is a very, haunting, creepy song if sung in a certain way other than the cheerful way.
Randomness lol.
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