1) The Hard man act - guys will put on an act of being hard for 2 reasons: a) They are with mates and having some banter. If ther is banter, there is Hard man acting. b) They fancy you. Some guys will try to give the impression that they are strong, athletic etc. But this is only one way of a guy trying to impress you. If a guy does not do this, it doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you. (see 2)
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around 당신 if he fancies you. He wants to show he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone 당신 can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking 당신 out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that 당신 like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, 또는 destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives 조언 to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has given him reason to believe 당신 like him, he is a lot 더 많이 likely to ask 당신 out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become 더 많이 confident and act 더 많이 freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers 당신 have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that 당신 like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what 당신 say could be interpreted in 더 많이 than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday 의해 making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when 당신 think that a girl might like 당신 but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with 당신 for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel 더 많이 comfortable if he's not surrounded 의해 girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way 더 많이 comfortable if we can have a conversation with 당신 alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your 프렌즈 watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into 당신 and telling you. We will play it 안전한, 안전 if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a 페이스북 또는 text chat? Will he approach 당신 when with your friends? Will he leave his group of 프렌즈 if he sees 당신 walking 의해 and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means 당신 are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts 당신 first may not start a conversation 의해 text for a while, to see if 당신 will. This gives him an idea of how well 당신 value his conversation, 또는 he may think 당신 need some 우주 또는 will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy 당신 fancy doesn't text 당신 for a while, text him.
9) Guys 사랑 compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep 당신 around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows 당신 value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase 당신 around the world. But 당신 tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, 또는 he may think you're not interested and let 당신 walk away.
11) a guy will often look at 당신 across a room 또는 from a distance if he likes you. If 당신 look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, 또는 tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help 당신 out. He wants to show he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to 당신 that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's showing an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If 당신 play COD, 또는 like football, 또는 horror films, then this will give 당신 a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want 당신 to make the first move. We might be too scared, 또는 unsure if 당신 like us, 또는 just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants 당신 to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close 프렌즈 regular updates, 또는 even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if 당신 start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that 당신 are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, 또는 doesn't ask 당신 out even if 당신 think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, 또는 just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask 당신 out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if 당신 become a girl's confidant, 당신 are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling 당신 the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and show they trust you, then 당신 are likely to do the same.
18) 조언 on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell 당신 for sure if the guy is into 당신 또는 not. If he asks 조언 on getting with an anonymous girl, 당신 might be that girl. If he asks 조언 on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting 당신 know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants 조언 on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical 질문 are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I 사랑 당신 do 당신 fancy me?" It's a way of telling 당신 he likes 당신 but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if 당신 say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've given him, imagining 당신 two together, ways to ask 당신 out, 또는 just thinking about how much he likes 당신 and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what 당신 say.
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around 당신 if he fancies you. He wants to show he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone 당신 can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking 당신 out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that 당신 like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, 또는 destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives 조언 to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has given him reason to believe 당신 like him, he is a lot 더 많이 likely to ask 당신 out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become 더 많이 confident and act 더 많이 freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers 당신 have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that 당신 like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what 당신 say could be interpreted in 더 많이 than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday 의해 making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when 당신 think that a girl might like 당신 but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with 당신 for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel 더 많이 comfortable if he's not surrounded 의해 girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way 더 많이 comfortable if we can have a conversation with 당신 alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your 프렌즈 watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into 당신 and telling you. We will play it 안전한, 안전 if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a 페이스북 또는 text chat? Will he approach 당신 when with your friends? Will he leave his group of 프렌즈 if he sees 당신 walking 의해 and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means 당신 are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts 당신 first may not start a conversation 의해 text for a while, to see if 당신 will. This gives him an idea of how well 당신 value his conversation, 또는 he may think 당신 need some 우주 또는 will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy 당신 fancy doesn't text 당신 for a while, text him.
9) Guys 사랑 compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep 당신 around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows 당신 value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase 당신 around the world. But 당신 tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, 또는 he may think you're not interested and let 당신 walk away.
11) a guy will often look at 당신 across a room 또는 from a distance if he likes you. If 당신 look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, 또는 tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help 당신 out. He wants to show he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to 당신 that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's showing an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If 당신 play COD, 또는 like football, 또는 horror films, then this will give 당신 a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want 당신 to make the first move. We might be too scared, 또는 unsure if 당신 like us, 또는 just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants 당신 to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close 프렌즈 regular updates, 또는 even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if 당신 start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that 당신 are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, 또는 doesn't ask 당신 out even if 당신 think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, 또는 just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask 당신 out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if 당신 become a girl's confidant, 당신 are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling 당신 the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and show they trust you, then 당신 are likely to do the same.
18) 조언 on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell 당신 for sure if the guy is into 당신 또는 not. If he asks 조언 on getting with an anonymous girl, 당신 might be that girl. If he asks 조언 on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting 당신 know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants 조언 on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical 질문 are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I 사랑 당신 do 당신 fancy me?" It's a way of telling 당신 he likes 당신 but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if 당신 say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've given him, imagining 당신 two together, ways to ask 당신 out, 또는 just thinking about how much he likes 당신 and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what 당신 say.
