Enemies and haters can be annoying and their 코멘트 and insults can upset you. Learn how to deal with it...

1)If 당신 don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to 당신 또는 start swearing 또는 being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down 또는 until they talk to 당신 nicely. Some people can be given 초 chances to realize that 당신 aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate 당신 for. But some people just won’t like 당신 in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.

2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting 당신 because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend 당신 unless 당신 let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want 당신 to react. So pretend 당신 didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them 또는 give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting 당신 또는 bothering 당신 in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them 또는 talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of 당신 doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.

3)Surround yourself with 프렌즈 and people who like 당신 for who 당신 are. These people will make 당신 feel 더 많이 confident about yourself and 당신 should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as 당신 have good 프렌즈 의해 your side.

4)If they start being violent towards 당신 또는 continue offending 당신 또는 upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting 당신 and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, 당신 will have to learn to stop being upset 의해 their 코멘트 and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.

5)If 당신 know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only 당신 can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much 더 많이 당신 can do than ignore them.

6)Show them respect as 당신 show to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will show them that 당신 are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your 프렌즈 and they can cool 당신 down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, 또는 make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.

7)If 당신 follow the last piece of 조언 with people who are purportedly hostile, 당신 are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. 의해 helping anyone, especially enemies, 당신 may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)

8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When 당신 talk to them, think before 당신 talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.