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I'm crying so hard right now

Okay. So.... my stepdad and my mom were having this argument. Over the Grateful Dead. I was watching My Strange Addiction at 8 PM when my mom began yelling at my stepdad, Darrian, about how all the 음악 he listens to is for 'Stoners'. I got tired of hearing them fighting, so I slapped both of them on the back. Around eleven, while my mom had gone out to get my four 년 old sister from a week long babysitter and family friend, Diamond, I was watching Pretty Little Liars and my two brothers were watching 비디오 of 마인크래프트 on 유튜브 on my grandmother's desktop computer I am currently using. When my mom went upstairs to see if Darrian had fallen asleep, he wasn't there. That was it. He just.... vanished. I honestly think he tried to walk out 의해 killing himself, because he is schizophrenic and bipolar. When I found out, I cried until my eyes were sore, seeing as Darrian is Michael, my eight 년 old brother's biologic father. If he killed himself, which I'm certain he did, then Michael will never be able to see his dad again! They used to do everything together, from video games to watching Super Mario Bros and tickle fights while making 땅콩 버터 and 바나나 sandwiches. This is all my fault, just like when I told my mom in fourth grade about the rape of my stepdad, Jeff, causing to go through a major breakdown and depression on the entire family. Can someone please help me and talk to me? Thank you.<3
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*hugs you* It's Ok your step dad could be 100% alive is possible
rileyferguson posted over a year ago
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Go to the 조언 club. Notice a shitstorm began here because of some childish fool being a douchebag.. Won't happen on the 조언 spot, I assure you. 당신 already know what to do, call 911, 신고 him as missing, but if 당신 want to hear 더 많이 from people go to the 조언 club.
Bond_Of_Fury posted over a year ago
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Weasel1999 said:
I'm really sorry this has happened to you, it's so sad. I think your stepdad just ran away and none of this is your fault. Don't get yourself all worked up it isn't going to do 당신 any good. I can't really help 당신 with this but I wish 당신 luck and hope 당신 find your stepdad soon <3
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:)
Bond_Of_Fury posted over a year ago
sMCCarthyTV said:
Well Blossom, My answer to the information I gathered from this event 당신 had just explained is that I don't think any of this is your fault. 당신 didn't do anything that caused to your family to tear apart. All it is is probably just family drama. Because of the disappearance of this Darrian member and since 당신 don't know if whether 또는 not he did kill himself, I would recommend 당신 신고 him to missingpersonreport.org as an Endangered Runaway and maybe they might help 당신 find him and once 당신 do find him, 당신 should settle a time of family therapy to see if there would be an upside to all the drama that's been going on between Darrian, Jeff, Michael, everyone who was involved in all this. Even if Darrian really can't be found and if he really is dead, 당신 should maybe still check in with family therapy to have this mess straighten out. And if none of my 조언 works then I can't really help but best of luck :)
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Lol, I've been doing family therapy since I was in the seventh grade.
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prophet69 said:
Oh, don't worry dear! I'll find your dad and bring him back to your home. Please note the complete sarcasm.
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You're an ass.
Bond_Of_Fury posted over a year ago
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Cool story, bro. Say it again!
prophet69 posted over a year ago
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read it again.
101trx posted over a year ago
Bond_Of_Fury said:
Damn, that sounds tough... I can sort of relate to the things 당신 say. Only thing I can say about it is....you don't know if he's actually....you know. How could 당신 take this on yourself?

Tell 당신 what, go to the 조언 club and post this 질문 on there to. Most people on the 랜덤 spot sound hard and smart, but when it stuff gets serious most here don't have a lot to say. So....re-post this 질문 on the 조언 spot. Lots of people there can help 당신 out. ;)

Just don't put this all on yourself.
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polarwagon15 said:
What are 당신 doing here then? Call 911! There's a good chance that your brother just ran away.
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snakemanfan said:
Why do 당신 think people on here will know, he may have just run away call the cops 또는 something 999 또는 what ever
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The Internet can't solve all your problems, sometimes it's 당신 who needs to figure it out
snakemanfan posted over a year ago
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Yeah. That was my point. I would help if I could.
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I would reframe it better but it's kinda complicated to explain, we can't help her physically we can only give 조언 t
snakemanfan posted over a year ago
TheSpartan9000 said:
Well 당신 should think about how much 당신 사랑 him then, 당신 won't be too sad. If it's too unbearable, think of something that makes 당신 happy. For example rainbows make me happy.
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rileyferguson said:
Call 911 또는 999 and let them know that he has gone missing. It would take a while to find him, but if he has committed suicide, Your whole Family would be extremely devastated. If he is very injured, call an 구급차 straight away if 당신 have found him. I am very upset at what happened and I hope that your Step dad can be found.
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Call 911 또는 999 and let them know that he has gone missing. It would take a while to find him, but if he has committed suicide, Your whole Family would be extremely devastated. If he is very injured, call an 구급차 straight away if 당신 have found him. I am very upset at what happened and I hope that your Step dad can be found.
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misscrazel said:
Maybe 당신 should call the police.
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SaraFenix said:
First of all I'm really sorry.
초 of all 당신 shouldn't blame yourself, he made a choice 의해 leaving and that's not your fault. I doubt that he killed himself seeing most people who commit suicide leave a note behind. But 당신 probable should contact the police and tell them what happened and they'll do everything to bring him back home, don't worry he's going to be just fine and if 당신 need someone to talk to 당신 still have the people on 팬팝 to help 당신 :D
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