firstly, welcome to fanpop! that's how it works. 1Add someone 2Give a prop and say "hi i've added you!" 3this user will add you( he/she'll peobably give a prop back) in here, no one adds 당신 if 당신 ask for it.
I was actually going to earlier, but I have a strict rule of having to have 5 clubs in common with someone before I 팬 them. Sometimes I break the rule if people aren't in very many clubs in general, but even then we have to have at least one in common. And since 당신 haven't joined any clubs... I can't add you.