당신 don't. 당신 have to be able to put your self out there and if there is a spark...... Thats when 당신 start to explore your realtionship and know it the person who looks at 당신 with 사랑 and is willing to tell 당신 when your wrong and praise 당신 when your right! the one that is always there for 당신 and never gives up!!! That what i think anyway!!