I really need help with this...

I'm currently in a relationship with a girl. However, we're going to completely different schools 다음 year, and I really don't want to break her heart, because she just doesn't deserve it. I want to stay together with her, but we won't even be able to see her anymore. So I really want help with this. Should I stay with her, 또는 should I just say goodbye to her? And If I do say goodbye, how should I do it?
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This 질문 shouldn't have been asked in here. Regardless if 당신 say that 당신 2 are lesbians, your problem tackles "relationship problems" rather than homosexuality 또는 anything that concerns the LGBT community. Try asking this in the "Advice" spot.
LOLerz25 posted over a year ago
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But if she goes to the 조언 spot, she risks getting stupid comments. Here, that shouldn't happen.
jester616 posted over a year ago
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저기요 there, thanks for all the help guys, it meant a lot. We broke up yesterday, but we're still close friends. :33
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r-pattz said:
Give it a go. If 당신 사랑 her and 당신 still live near each other 당신 should be able to make it work, 의해 seeing her after school and on weekends and holidays. I know several people who are dating people who go to different schools, and it works well and actually saves them a lot of drama.

I think 당신 should definitely talk to her about your feelings though, because she might be having the same sort of worries. You'd be better off if 당신 could work things out between 당신 two and 당신 should make sure she'd be as committed to the relationship as you.

And if school starts 다음 년 and 당신 do start to drift, if 당신 can't maintain your relationship well, then break it off. But for now, if 당신 do 사랑 her, stay with her.

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jester616 said:
Will 당신 two still have time together during the summer? If that's the case, I wouldn't break up just yet. Are your schools in the same general community? I guess I'm not sure why 당신 two wouldn't be able to see each other at all.

Have 당신 talked with her about 다음 년 yet? How does she feel about 당신 two being separated?

Based on what you've written, I wouldn't end the relationship just yet.
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Corgilover183 said:
I know a couple that is dating 더 많이 than 15 hours away from each other. If they can make it work, 당신 can make it work?
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