2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your 날짜 집 and they don’t let 당신 get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight 키스 isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips 또는 a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that 당신 can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a 옮기기 if 당신 feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight 키스 scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies show that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to 옮기기 in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your 날짜 steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first 키스 with your date. This means no tongue 또는 special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his 또는 her world! 당신 can place your hand on the small of their neck if 당신 wish.
If your 날짜 is enthusiastic, 당신 may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, 더 많이 involved kiss. However, only do this if 당신 feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of 키싱 too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting 더 많이 than to make them regret 키싱 당신 in the first place.
If 당신 get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, 또는 if 당신 feel your 날짜 getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your 날짜 is waiting for a while to go inside, 키스 her. She wants 당신 to.
-If 당신 feel your 날짜 trying to 옮기기 away 또는 say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" 또는 your 날짜 has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your 날짜 probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight 키스 on someone.
-Add 코멘트 such as "Tonight was amazing" 또는 "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and show her that 당신 mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching 당신 go.
-If 당신 want to be extra cute 당신 could even 키스 her hand 또는 forehead, but be wary of the forehead 키스 as some girls find it patronizing 또는 granddad-like.
Warning
-If your 날짜 is facing the other way, do not grab his 또는 her head and turn it to face 당신 for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) 키스 in front of friends, whether they’re yours 또는 your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around 키싱 anyone, anytime! 당신 may be charged with sexual assault if 당신 옮기기 too aggressively.
