Since watching the fantastic premiere f the 초 season of The Vampire Diaries (TVD), I’ve been mesmerized 의해 the beauty of how the storylines were weaved together, and especially the Stefan/Katherine and Damon/Elena scenes. However,I’ve heard my fair share of anti-Damon/Elena talk about the premiere and especially the last scene in Elena’s bedroom. I’ll just quote some of the statements that seemed the most provoking to me and answer them.
“Damon came to Elena’s room for the wrong reasons – after Katherine broke his heart.”
What does this exactly mean?! Does it mean that Damon came to see Elena and try things with her to replace Katherine?! Havent we who actually managed to SEE and HEAR what happens on this show already agreed on that Damon never saw Elena as a replacement to Katherine?! Damon is not a stupid man; he knew immediately that Elena was the polar opposite of Katherine, and it has been exactly those qualities in her than made Damon fall in 사랑 with her on the course of the whole first season. Her compassion for him, her empathy, the way she believed in the good inside of him, the way she thought he was worth saving.
Secondly, he came to Elena’s room because apparently, Stefan and Damon have agreed on taking shifts to watch over the Gilbert house 일 and night to protect them from Katherine. Since Stefan spends the whole 일 with Elena, he needs to rest at night, and Damon comes to watch over the Gilberts at night.
“I’m just doing my part of the neighbourhood watch.” – Damon
“Thank 당신 for looking out for us. For me.” – Elena.
So it is obvious 의해 now that Damon didn’t come to her room at 랜덤 just to try and make out with her because he was rejected 의해 Katherine.
Thirdly, IF anyone was anyone’s replacemnt in episode 2x01, I’d say Katherine was Damon’s replacement for Elena and not the other way around.
Since the start of the episode, Damon has been upset with the fact that it wasn’t Elena he kissed, and THEN after Katherine seeking HIM out in his house, and not the other way around, he made out with her; partly because he hasn’t seen her for such a long time and because he has REALLY loved for all those years and a reunion with her would naturally lead to some kind of release of passion, but also PARTLY because he wanted to forget about Elena and her rejection of him. The Damon/Katherine make-out scene happened after Elena told Damon “I’m surprised 당신 thought I’d 키스 당신 back” – a 코멘트 that really hurt him. So Katherine being there asking him to 키스 her, she was like “the Elena who WOULD actually 키스 him back” in a way. Like I said, partly this and partly that ;)
But it becomes even 더 많이 obvious in the scene between Damon and Elena at the Lockwood’s mansion where Damon said: “You’re scared. You’re worried Katherine will send me off the deep end. I don’t need HER for that.” That line alone makes it clear to me that even though Katherine’s words cut him deeply and hurt him badly, the only one who is capable of breaking Damon down completely was Elena, and that is exactly what happened in that bedroom scene. She rejected him, again, and that broke him and made him snap.
“Damon assaulted Elena sexually 의해 forcing kisses on her”
This one had me laughing at first, but then I realised that some people either have a twisted definition of sexual assault, 또는 they have a special super-strict measure for anything related to Damon/Elena. If I was a woman who has suffered a sexual assault I would be damn insulted if anyone compared THAT traumatic experience with what happened between Damon and Elena in that scene. From what I saw, what happened was light-years away from assault. Damon’s 키스 was a desperate attempt at making Elena understand what he’s saying, to prove something to her. What happened was a one-sided 키스 from Damon and not a case of using violence to get a 키스 또는 anything else sexual. When Elena pulled away from him, telling him to stop and listen, he DID stop and listened to her! Anyone who would try to assault a woman and force himself on her would not give a damn about what she had to say, he wouldn’t have stopped if that was his goal. Let alone, he took her hand and clasped it in his and he got a little hopeful smile on his face when she said “I care about you”. It was an emotional moment for him, not a moment where he was trying to get sex from her. It’s true that he kissed her against her wish, but he didn’t try to force her into anything 의해 actually being violent 또는 using force on her. He kissed her once, and tried another 키스 later, until she stopped him and took his hands in hers, and he STOPPED again!
Damon is a vampire on human blood and he could have pinned Elena to that 벽 and taken whatever he wanted from her. IF he wanted that.
This is like a guy who tries to make out with his girl friend and she goes “NO!” and he tries again “Oh come on!” and she goes “NO!” again, and he STOPS right there. Did this guy assault his girlfriend?! No, I didn’t think so either.
Talking about violence and assault in TVD, why do I not hear anyone calling what Stefan did to Elena in 1x19 (Miss Mystic Falls) a violent assault? Stefan actually SLAMMED Elena in to a wall, screamed at her and punched the 벽 RIGHT beside her face to scare her. I’ve never called this scene an assault even though I could have, easily. I understand that even though it’s not okay to slam your girlfriend in to a wall, Stefan was ADDICTED to human blood, which to him is like a human addicted to drugs. People on drugs do crazy things they don’t want to do, and that’s what happened with Stefan there. The 질문 is now why Damon/Elena 팬 can see these things, understand other characters and excuse some of their questionable actions while opposing fanbases cant do the same regarding Damon/Elena? God knows we’re no 천사 in the Damon/Elena camp, but I actually think that we understand other 팬 더 많이 than they even try to understand our point of view. So 다음 time, please try and look at the situation without your anti-Damon/Elena glasses on and try again ☺
“Damon would have raped Elena if Jeremy didn’t come in to the room”.
What could Jeremy have done to stop Damon from doing whatever he wanted to do? Jeremy doesn’t stand a chance against Damon as a human and he wouldn’t have stood a chance against him as a vampire. Damon was obviously not interested in sex, rape 또는 assault, because if he was, 당신 KNOW that he would have done it no matter what 또는 who walked in on him.
What the writers were trying to tell us with that scene is, that Damon is desperate for Elena to admit that there is something going on between them, even if that meant forcing a 키스 on her, because he thought that the first time he kissed “Elena”, it turned out to be Katherine so that’s why she kissed him back, and if he tried to 키스 the REAL Elena, maybe she WILL 키스 him back if given the chance, and THAT was his true goal from the attempts at 키싱 her. He was hoping that she would not be able to resist 키싱 him once he had his lips on hers because of the feelings he is convinced she has for him, and that’s why he tried so hard.
It seems to me that with thee powerful scenes the writers are trying to tell us all that Damon/Elena are not just an obstacle for Stefan/Elena to overcome, to make them stronger, no. Damon/Elena DO have at least just as much meaning as Stefan/Elena, and that they definitely are a huge part of the show, while some of the 팬 who are anti-D/E are just trying to spin what we’re told and shown on the show around to make Damon/Elena look like nothing deep 또는 meaningful, like nothing serious, as if they’re not really going to have a real 사랑 story.
And with that attitude towards the show and the pairing that is actually half the 삼각형 the show is based upon, 당신 will just stress and upset yourself 의해 watching the show and making a HUGE part of the TVD fandom upset and annoyed with your blind Damon/Elena hate.
Now to my dear Damon/Elena fans:
I know that a lot of 당신 feel broken hearted about those really heartbreaking scenes in the premiere, but believe me that these scenes and this start of the season is the BEST thing that could ever have happened to Damon/Elena and their relationship. Besides that I see a lot of Elena-hate around, not only from anti-Damon/Elena 팬 but also from Delena shippers, and that is NOT right! We 사랑 them both, 또는 else we have no right to ship them together. Elena is a fantastic girl and that is why Damon fell in 사랑 with her. Her hurting him in this episode doesn’t make her a bad person, because we have to try and see things from her perspective too. I always put myself in Damon’s shoes and then in Elena’s shoes. It doesn’t work any other way, friends. We need to understand them BOTH and 사랑 them BOTH. ☺
First of all; Damon has finally revealed to Elena that he feels for her 더 많이 than friendship, and she shot him down 의해 being honest with him, telling him that she wouldn’t 키스 him back and cheat on Stefan. What broke Damon was that he really is in 사랑 with Elena and when she said “I’m surprised 당신 thought I would 키스 당신 back”, she meant that she’s surprised he thought that she would ever cheat on her boyfriend, but he took it personally, he thought she was saying that she wouldn’t ever 키스 HIM because she wouldn’t ever have feelings for HIM. And it wasn’t what she meant.
Secondly, When Elena told him “It will always be Stefan” in her bedroom she told him what she thinks at that moment. We all know that no one knows what the future can bring, and neither does Elena. She just told hi the harsh truth, to make him listen to her, to get through to him, and make him stop trying to 키스 her, when she wants to tell him something. And I don’t blame her for telling him the truth simply because it is her right to be in 사랑 with who she is in 사랑 with at the moment. She cant control her emotions and feelings and her 사랑 for Stefan right now, like she wont be able to control her feelings and 사랑 for Damon LATER on. She’s still a human being with feelings, emotions and a 심장 she cant always control, and we need to understand that even though we know and are convinced that she belongs with Damon and no one else. ☺
Now to the hardest part of it all: Damon killed Jeremy!
No matter if Damon knew Jeremy was wearing that ring that brings him back to life 또는 if he thought Jeremy would turn in to a vampire, it is NOT OKAY for him to kill Jeremy! BUT I don understand how and WHY he did it at the same time. I will never try to excuse Damon for killing Jeremy 또는 anyone else innocent, but understand Damon’s character and how he reacts to emotional blows like the ones he got in the premiere makes me understand why he snapped Jeremy’s neck. First of all, Katherine told him she has never ever loved him, making his mere existence pointless, because he has only lived for her, for the hope of finding her and living forever with her and nothing else has been on his mind. And then we have Elena, who is the girl he’s falling in 사랑 with right now, who tells him that she can never 사랑 him, because she doesn’t know any better. And knowing Damon, if there is anything that can break him completely it is being rejected from the one he loves, especially if that rejection involved choosing Stefan over him. That is what he has experienced his whole life, and it HURTS! His father, Katherine and now Elena 사랑 Stefan 더 많이 than him. It really really hurts, and with Damon being a very emotional vampire who acts on his emotions, he will of course act on it. And the only defence mechanism he has to deflect hurt away from himself is death, destruction, blood and sarcasm. So with that in mind it is to be expected of him to do something terrible at that exact moment where he was not thinking at ALL. With him killing Jeremy he was trying to switch off that humanity switch that he has inside him to just stop hurting. It obviously didn’t work, so when he went 집 he wasn’t less upset 또는 numb, he was still hurting and he couldn’t believe that he had done what he just has done; i.e throwing the glass in to the fire, being angry and upset with everything and with himself.
Now to Elena, like I said before, she wasn’t trying to hurt his feelings, but only trying to tell him the truth in stead of leading him on and playing him like Katherine did. Isnt this why we all 사랑 Elena so much? Because she wouldn’t never play Damon and hurt him like Katherine did. But when he snapped her brother’s neck in front of her eyes, and she did NOT know that he was wearing that ring, was the WORST thing he could ever do to her. Worse than killing her. To experience that horror, that FEAR when 당신 see your brother lying there on the floor lifeless and limp, how can 당신 NOT hate the person who did this to him? Of course she hates him – for now . If 당신 notice, the writers made a big deal of Katherine telling Stefan that “hate is the beginning of a 사랑 story, not the end of it” – and then making Elena use the SAME word: HATE. This is a BLATANT, OBVIOUS 옮기기 from the writers to tell us all that: Damon/Elena are OFFICIALLY beginning now. Now they will SLOWLY, and REALISTICALLY, rebuild their friendship and their relationship, they will get the time to get over the heartbreak, all those negative feelings, and we are getting an AMAZING build-up, because remember; ALL fan-favourite EPIC AMAZING COUPLES have had a big amount of heartbreak and angst before they got together and people died of happiness. Believe me what happened is amazing for DE! The great and bigger the heartbreak, the sweeter and 더 많이 amazing the reunion will be. ☺
And I am a member of the Damon/Elena thread on Fanforum, and I swear to 당신 that we got 21 new Delena shippers ONLY after the premiere and because of those angsty heartbreaking scenes! That’s amazing! :D
Now, heads up, smile, and keep the faith and all the hope! Damon and Elena deserve it from us, to keep holding on to them. And 당신 will see that I’m right when the time for Damon/Elena is right. The writers will not disappoint over 60% of the fandom! They wont, and they know what they are doing. They are making this 삼각형 REAL, making Elena fall DEEPLY in 사랑 with BOTH guys, to make it a REAL triangle, and a REALLY fantastic 사랑 story – especially for Delena because their story has been deeper than anyone else.
I hope that helped ☺
“Damon came to Elena’s room for the wrong reasons – after Katherine broke his heart.”
What does this exactly mean?! Does it mean that Damon came to see Elena and try things with her to replace Katherine?! Havent we who actually managed to SEE and HEAR what happens on this show already agreed on that Damon never saw Elena as a replacement to Katherine?! Damon is not a stupid man; he knew immediately that Elena was the polar opposite of Katherine, and it has been exactly those qualities in her than made Damon fall in 사랑 with her on the course of the whole first season. Her compassion for him, her empathy, the way she believed in the good inside of him, the way she thought he was worth saving.
Secondly, he came to Elena’s room because apparently, Stefan and Damon have agreed on taking shifts to watch over the Gilbert house 일 and night to protect them from Katherine. Since Stefan spends the whole 일 with Elena, he needs to rest at night, and Damon comes to watch over the Gilberts at night.
“I’m just doing my part of the neighbourhood watch.” – Damon
“Thank 당신 for looking out for us. For me.” – Elena.
So it is obvious 의해 now that Damon didn’t come to her room at 랜덤 just to try and make out with her because he was rejected 의해 Katherine.
Thirdly, IF anyone was anyone’s replacemnt in episode 2x01, I’d say Katherine was Damon’s replacement for Elena and not the other way around.
Since the start of the episode, Damon has been upset with the fact that it wasn’t Elena he kissed, and THEN after Katherine seeking HIM out in his house, and not the other way around, he made out with her; partly because he hasn’t seen her for such a long time and because he has REALLY loved for all those years and a reunion with her would naturally lead to some kind of release of passion, but also PARTLY because he wanted to forget about Elena and her rejection of him. The Damon/Katherine make-out scene happened after Elena told Damon “I’m surprised 당신 thought I’d 키스 당신 back” – a 코멘트 that really hurt him. So Katherine being there asking him to 키스 her, she was like “the Elena who WOULD actually 키스 him back” in a way. Like I said, partly this and partly that ;)
But it becomes even 더 많이 obvious in the scene between Damon and Elena at the Lockwood’s mansion where Damon said: “You’re scared. You’re worried Katherine will send me off the deep end. I don’t need HER for that.” That line alone makes it clear to me that even though Katherine’s words cut him deeply and hurt him badly, the only one who is capable of breaking Damon down completely was Elena, and that is exactly what happened in that bedroom scene. She rejected him, again, and that broke him and made him snap.
“Damon assaulted Elena sexually 의해 forcing kisses on her”
This one had me laughing at first, but then I realised that some people either have a twisted definition of sexual assault, 또는 they have a special super-strict measure for anything related to Damon/Elena. If I was a woman who has suffered a sexual assault I would be damn insulted if anyone compared THAT traumatic experience with what happened between Damon and Elena in that scene. From what I saw, what happened was light-years away from assault. Damon’s 키스 was a desperate attempt at making Elena understand what he’s saying, to prove something to her. What happened was a one-sided 키스 from Damon and not a case of using violence to get a 키스 또는 anything else sexual. When Elena pulled away from him, telling him to stop and listen, he DID stop and listened to her! Anyone who would try to assault a woman and force himself on her would not give a damn about what she had to say, he wouldn’t have stopped if that was his goal. Let alone, he took her hand and clasped it in his and he got a little hopeful smile on his face when she said “I care about you”. It was an emotional moment for him, not a moment where he was trying to get sex from her. It’s true that he kissed her against her wish, but he didn’t try to force her into anything 의해 actually being violent 또는 using force on her. He kissed her once, and tried another 키스 later, until she stopped him and took his hands in hers, and he STOPPED again!
Damon is a vampire on human blood and he could have pinned Elena to that 벽 and taken whatever he wanted from her. IF he wanted that.
This is like a guy who tries to make out with his girl friend and she goes “NO!” and he tries again “Oh come on!” and she goes “NO!” again, and he STOPS right there. Did this guy assault his girlfriend?! No, I didn’t think so either.
Talking about violence and assault in TVD, why do I not hear anyone calling what Stefan did to Elena in 1x19 (Miss Mystic Falls) a violent assault? Stefan actually SLAMMED Elena in to a wall, screamed at her and punched the 벽 RIGHT beside her face to scare her. I’ve never called this scene an assault even though I could have, easily. I understand that even though it’s not okay to slam your girlfriend in to a wall, Stefan was ADDICTED to human blood, which to him is like a human addicted to drugs. People on drugs do crazy things they don’t want to do, and that’s what happened with Stefan there. The 질문 is now why Damon/Elena 팬 can see these things, understand other characters and excuse some of their questionable actions while opposing fanbases cant do the same regarding Damon/Elena? God knows we’re no 천사 in the Damon/Elena camp, but I actually think that we understand other 팬 더 많이 than they even try to understand our point of view. So 다음 time, please try and look at the situation without your anti-Damon/Elena glasses on and try again ☺
“Damon would have raped Elena if Jeremy didn’t come in to the room”.
What could Jeremy have done to stop Damon from doing whatever he wanted to do? Jeremy doesn’t stand a chance against Damon as a human and he wouldn’t have stood a chance against him as a vampire. Damon was obviously not interested in sex, rape 또는 assault, because if he was, 당신 KNOW that he would have done it no matter what 또는 who walked in on him.
What the writers were trying to tell us with that scene is, that Damon is desperate for Elena to admit that there is something going on between them, even if that meant forcing a 키스 on her, because he thought that the first time he kissed “Elena”, it turned out to be Katherine so that’s why she kissed him back, and if he tried to 키스 the REAL Elena, maybe she WILL 키스 him back if given the chance, and THAT was his true goal from the attempts at 키싱 her. He was hoping that she would not be able to resist 키싱 him once he had his lips on hers because of the feelings he is convinced she has for him, and that’s why he tried so hard.
It seems to me that with thee powerful scenes the writers are trying to tell us all that Damon/Elena are not just an obstacle for Stefan/Elena to overcome, to make them stronger, no. Damon/Elena DO have at least just as much meaning as Stefan/Elena, and that they definitely are a huge part of the show, while some of the 팬 who are anti-D/E are just trying to spin what we’re told and shown on the show around to make Damon/Elena look like nothing deep 또는 meaningful, like nothing serious, as if they’re not really going to have a real 사랑 story.
And with that attitude towards the show and the pairing that is actually half the 삼각형 the show is based upon, 당신 will just stress and upset yourself 의해 watching the show and making a HUGE part of the TVD fandom upset and annoyed with your blind Damon/Elena hate.
Now to my dear Damon/Elena fans:
I know that a lot of 당신 feel broken hearted about those really heartbreaking scenes in the premiere, but believe me that these scenes and this start of the season is the BEST thing that could ever have happened to Damon/Elena and their relationship. Besides that I see a lot of Elena-hate around, not only from anti-Damon/Elena 팬 but also from Delena shippers, and that is NOT right! We 사랑 them both, 또는 else we have no right to ship them together. Elena is a fantastic girl and that is why Damon fell in 사랑 with her. Her hurting him in this episode doesn’t make her a bad person, because we have to try and see things from her perspective too. I always put myself in Damon’s shoes and then in Elena’s shoes. It doesn’t work any other way, friends. We need to understand them BOTH and 사랑 them BOTH. ☺
First of all; Damon has finally revealed to Elena that he feels for her 더 많이 than friendship, and she shot him down 의해 being honest with him, telling him that she wouldn’t 키스 him back and cheat on Stefan. What broke Damon was that he really is in 사랑 with Elena and when she said “I’m surprised 당신 thought I would 키스 당신 back”, she meant that she’s surprised he thought that she would ever cheat on her boyfriend, but he took it personally, he thought she was saying that she wouldn’t ever 키스 HIM because she wouldn’t ever have feelings for HIM. And it wasn’t what she meant.
Secondly, When Elena told him “It will always be Stefan” in her bedroom she told him what she thinks at that moment. We all know that no one knows what the future can bring, and neither does Elena. She just told hi the harsh truth, to make him listen to her, to get through to him, and make him stop trying to 키스 her, when she wants to tell him something. And I don’t blame her for telling him the truth simply because it is her right to be in 사랑 with who she is in 사랑 with at the moment. She cant control her emotions and feelings and her 사랑 for Stefan right now, like she wont be able to control her feelings and 사랑 for Damon LATER on. She’s still a human being with feelings, emotions and a 심장 she cant always control, and we need to understand that even though we know and are convinced that she belongs with Damon and no one else. ☺
Now to the hardest part of it all: Damon killed Jeremy!
No matter if Damon knew Jeremy was wearing that ring that brings him back to life 또는 if he thought Jeremy would turn in to a vampire, it is NOT OKAY for him to kill Jeremy! BUT I don understand how and WHY he did it at the same time. I will never try to excuse Damon for killing Jeremy 또는 anyone else innocent, but understand Damon’s character and how he reacts to emotional blows like the ones he got in the premiere makes me understand why he snapped Jeremy’s neck. First of all, Katherine told him she has never ever loved him, making his mere existence pointless, because he has only lived for her, for the hope of finding her and living forever with her and nothing else has been on his mind. And then we have Elena, who is the girl he’s falling in 사랑 with right now, who tells him that she can never 사랑 him, because she doesn’t know any better. And knowing Damon, if there is anything that can break him completely it is being rejected from the one he loves, especially if that rejection involved choosing Stefan over him. That is what he has experienced his whole life, and it HURTS! His father, Katherine and now Elena 사랑 Stefan 더 많이 than him. It really really hurts, and with Damon being a very emotional vampire who acts on his emotions, he will of course act on it. And the only defence mechanism he has to deflect hurt away from himself is death, destruction, blood and sarcasm. So with that in mind it is to be expected of him to do something terrible at that exact moment where he was not thinking at ALL. With him killing Jeremy he was trying to switch off that humanity switch that he has inside him to just stop hurting. It obviously didn’t work, so when he went 집 he wasn’t less upset 또는 numb, he was still hurting and he couldn’t believe that he had done what he just has done; i.e throwing the glass in to the fire, being angry and upset with everything and with himself.
Now to Elena, like I said before, she wasn’t trying to hurt his feelings, but only trying to tell him the truth in stead of leading him on and playing him like Katherine did. Isnt this why we all 사랑 Elena so much? Because she wouldn’t never play Damon and hurt him like Katherine did. But when he snapped her brother’s neck in front of her eyes, and she did NOT know that he was wearing that ring, was the WORST thing he could ever do to her. Worse than killing her. To experience that horror, that FEAR when 당신 see your brother lying there on the floor lifeless and limp, how can 당신 NOT hate the person who did this to him? Of course she hates him – for now . If 당신 notice, the writers made a big deal of Katherine telling Stefan that “hate is the beginning of a 사랑 story, not the end of it” – and then making Elena use the SAME word: HATE. This is a BLATANT, OBVIOUS 옮기기 from the writers to tell us all that: Damon/Elena are OFFICIALLY beginning now. Now they will SLOWLY, and REALISTICALLY, rebuild their friendship and their relationship, they will get the time to get over the heartbreak, all those negative feelings, and we are getting an AMAZING build-up, because remember; ALL fan-favourite EPIC AMAZING COUPLES have had a big amount of heartbreak and angst before they got together and people died of happiness. Believe me what happened is amazing for DE! The great and bigger the heartbreak, the sweeter and 더 많이 amazing the reunion will be. ☺
And I am a member of the Damon/Elena thread on Fanforum, and I swear to 당신 that we got 21 new Delena shippers ONLY after the premiere and because of those angsty heartbreaking scenes! That’s amazing! :D
Now, heads up, smile, and keep the faith and all the hope! Damon and Elena deserve it from us, to keep holding on to them. And 당신 will see that I’m right when the time for Damon/Elena is right. The writers will not disappoint over 60% of the fandom! They wont, and they know what they are doing. They are making this 삼각형 REAL, making Elena fall DEEPLY in 사랑 with BOTH guys, to make it a REAL triangle, and a REALLY fantastic 사랑 story – especially for Delena because their story has been deeper than anyone else.
I hope that helped ☺
