First things first calm down, and don't hate me for just being honest with my opinion.

I'm sorry guys to break it to 당신 p, but we are the 팬 service not SE, and here's why SE whether we like 또는 not had a real reaplationship heavy on "real" but they did non the less this relationship went on for 3 YEARS, a relationship no matter how twisted, stuiped, cheesey, unrealistic it looked and felt like, is still was the main lasting "love" story (unlike caroline with Matt & Tyler 또는 Jeremy with Anna p & Bonnie) their relationship stayed strong no matter how much we didn't want it to be.

As...

"Stelena are the 심장 and soul of the show."
"Elena will always 사랑 Stefan and put him first."
"Elena will always choose Stefan, she said so herself."
"The 삼각형 isn't real, it's just a gimmick to sell the show."
"The producers have pretty much said that Damon will never be good enough for Elena."
"The writers have made it clear 의해 now that Elena will never 사랑 Damon."
"And that is why..."
"And that is why..."
"And that is why..."
"Delena will never be together."
"Delena will never be a reality."
"You're wrong to ship DE."
"Stelena are the one true 사랑 story of the show."

However passionate we are...

Maybe it was silly of me, but I expected a lot 더 많이 from Stelena in Season 3. I thought their relationship would finally graduate from the syrupy sweet high school romance which lacked dimension into something much darker. I honestly thought that with Stefan's ripper storyline, we would really see Stelena develop and change. However, I was VERY disappointed with the results we got.
Even after the most testing time of their relationship, Stelena has barely evolved at all. They went through a brief dark spell, yes, which culminated in Stefan holding Elena and the ones she loved to ransom in his...