4*01 When Damon Says "the 1st time we met is not all 당신 remeber" what is he talking about ? Elena's feeling for him ? 또는 something else he made her forget ??
Damon's talking about the scene at the end of Rose (2x08), Where he confessed he loved her and then compelled her to forget it. If I recall correctly he said, "It's because I 사랑 당신 that I can't be selfish with you." So in 4x01 "I am that selfish. the first time we met's not all that 당신 remember." is a remark to that memory. Hope it helped.
Damon speaks about his first 사랑 confession. But he at the same time indicates that he is not selfish, especially when it comes to Elena ("Because I am that selfish, but 당신 knew that already, the first night we met is not the only thing 당신 remember."). Check out the 기사 "The Truth About Love: Why Elena's Logic in 4x01 Doesn't Make Sense", where it is explained why Damon's choice to save Elena is not selfish, because he is willing to 곰 her hating him as long as she is 안전한, 안전 and alive.
Damon is referring to the scene in 2X08 ("Rose"), in which Damon tells Elena that he loves her and then compels her to forget. It is totally and 100% heart-breaking. The first episode of season 4 depicts Elena remembering that specific memory.
