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Stuck in the middle... Please help me!

Ok so I have quite a few friends, but 2 very special ones. The only problem is that they dont like eachother and r very competitive. Over me I mean. Everyday they bribe me with stuff so I can like one them the most and they tug my arms so hard I could be ripped in half! I like them equally, I really do. I tried to explain this to them but they just acted as if they never heard me! They'll do ANYTHING to make me like one of them the most. Eventually, i got really sick of them and completely broke up with both of them in such a dramatic way. Now they r really sorry to me and have even tried to get along for my forgiveness! (Im just still not sure if they r REALLY 프렌즈 yet tho)... half of me wants to forgive them, half of me doesn't. So... All i wanna know is.. Should I forgive and forget 또는 just leave them for good?
 jamtart01 posted over a year ago
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gossipgirlstar2 said:
I think that first of all 당신 must learn if they are really 프렌즈 so as not to do this again to you...If 당신 see that they are pretending and they are doing this only for 당신 to forgive them and then start all over I think that 당신 should leave them for good because 당신 can't change two people tha dislike each other...But if they are really 프렌즈 and care about you, 당신 should forgive them... I think that it wouldn't be right if they
were pretending that they are 프렌즈 just to bring 당신 back and then start arguing again...

I hope I helped...

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well thank u ill see what happens on monday :)
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JustLikeSoul said:
I think 당신 should wait for a time likehalf 월 ,maybe it is too long,leave them alone and see their behaviors without 당신 and make your decision after that :)
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jamtart01 posted over a year ago
jedigal1990 said:
i personally think 당신 should forgive them but let them know that what they did before is not going to be tolerated 당신 can't make them be 프렌즈 and if their not thats still ok as long as they understand that they must respect that 당신 like both of them equally and fighting with each other will not help any and will cause 당신 not to want to be their friend but really it comes down to how much your friendship means to you. So forgive them but set limits to prevent yourself from the harm of the two of them fighting for 당신 because it is not fair for them to make 당신 chose between the two hope this helps and wish 당신 the best of luck
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sounds good
jamtart01 posted over a year ago
joebro521 said:
Well, what i think 당신 should do is make sure that they are 프렌즈 의해 talking to them and making sure. So if they don't work it out then mabey 당신 should just tell them that your not going to deal with it and just walk out and let them work it out before u get in the middle.
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babyjay said:
i think 당신 should sit them down and tell them that if they where both true 프렌즈 that they would have never made 당신 choose and that if it happens again it will hurt you. i dont think 당신 should leave them because true 프렌즈 are really worth some thing special. hold on to them but explain how 당신 feel to them. if 당신 need 더 많이 help let me know.
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