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Ive got 사랑 issues.. well 심장 break ones...

Ive loved the same guy for like.. 3 years now.. we went out twice and he turned out to be a massive asshole.. i really miss him.. but at the same time.. i hate him and dont wanna know him. He stopped talkin to me like a 월 ago.. and im loosing myself.. i really wanna be with him.. being with another guy made me hate myself.. i didnt last a 월 with another guy, It really hurts, i miss him.. but like.. i dnt know wether to belive that he really loved me.. 또는 that he was using me.. i feel so shit.. i 사랑 him, i hate him.. i wanna miss him.. but i like.. arrg! its so confusing.
what do i do.. letting him go is the hardest part..
Ive stopped talkin to him like hes stopped talkin to me.. but its not helping me. i miss him .. alot.. all these other people think im heartbroken over the gut i tried to replace him with.. but its a load of shit... but i realy dont know what to do..
 _Blackhearts_xx posted over a year ago
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amazondebs said:
woa woa woa whats all this talk about death?

i know it sucks to really like someone and have them turn out to be something else and such but (and not to sound really cliche here) but he really ain't worth it if he's so imature as to not to talk to you

my 조언 would be to have a night out (or in) with a group a 프렌즈 maybe watch some films, go for a meal, hang out at the park 또는 i dunno what ever makes 당신 happy (iceskating always cheers me up, hard work to take 당신 mind off things and lots of giggles when 당신 fall over) it won't be a magic over night cure but reminding yourself of the boys come and go and 프렌즈 are for life ideology is a great start
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Thanks (: thats really helpful! ;D
_Blackhearts_xx posted over a year ago
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welcome :)
amazondebs posted over a year ago
cuteinblack6 said:
I feel so sorry for you! i bet 당신 are just wanting to die.

well anyways i think 당신 should give him up. and 당신 dated 2 times? thats not good. i know its hard just to give him up, but look, 당신 have a life to 옮기기 on. i bet lots of guys will like you.and he is a massive asshole because he needs to make up his mind.

Just forget about him ok? its fine. its not like someone is going to hurt 당신 의해 the choice. just cheer up ok?


hope that helped!

~cuteinblack6~
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Yeah it hurts alot.. and i just wanna yea die.. Like i know, but its hard, we only broke up cause like i thought it was fallin apart.. but when we got back together agin. it was worse.. i just cant belive how stupid i was.. im tryin to let go... i guess (: thanks x
_Blackhearts_xx posted over a year ago
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If it wasn't any good when 당신 were together then either it's not going to work so I guess you'll have to accept. But I know it reeeeally sucks :( I feel for you.
snoznoodle posted over a year ago
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mm yeah..
_Blackhearts_xx posted over a year ago
JazzLover101 said:
I understand and your just waiting and wanting for death to come. And if 당신 really feel like that strong about him start off being his friend that will take the hole out of your 심장 and 당신 can still 날짜 other guys plus if 당신 get to know him while your 프렌즈 with him well maybe eventually maybe 당신 could start dating again but at least 당신 will have something to stand on while/if 당신 날짜 again 당신 know 더 많이 about eachother it will be though at first but its worth it. If this doesn't help just **sigh** just listen to your 심장 and think about your possible 답변 listen to your 가장 좋아하는 음악 while 당신 think it will help 당신 even 더 많이 {trust me!!!}. Give yourself a chance to think about him them for a while just forget about him {and just keep in mind he broke 당신 심장 twice ouch}
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He wont even tak to me, he completelyy ignores me... and if i do talk to h im.. hes just like.. hi.. yeah.. k.. ect..
_Blackhearts_xx posted over a year ago
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