HELP!!!!!

Honestly? I know 당신 probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing 당신 can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true 프렌즈 and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like 당신 for who 당신 are and insults 당신 and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would 당신 want 또는 need a friend like that?

True 프렌즈 would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real 프렌즈 give 당신 a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give 당신 any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but 당신 can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but 당신 can get so many better 프렌즈 that treat 당신 well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause 당신 heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.

Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one 일 we were talking about what our favourite things were and I said I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason said that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better 프렌즈 then them. Pretend that 당신 don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing 당신 about something that 당신 don't care about. Good luck and i know 당신 will find better 프렌즈 if 당신 just keep smiling

Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose 또는 because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells 당신 off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help 당신 talk to your friend. If 당신 can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to 당신 than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as 당신 thought she was.

I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that 당신 can't show a little of that self-defense in you. 당신 can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is 더 많이 weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)

i think sara is right. 당신 need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: 다음 time she calls, make her listen to what 당신 think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS 당신 sound like a great friend:)