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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Yeah... Not too fun when someone migrates over to your 프렌즈 instead, eh?
I have that sort of problem, except this guy isn't annoying and he wasn't bothering me; it's my friend's ex, and he won't get away from her. Just being around him makes her feel bad, 또는 maybe I should say "worse" since she has some depression.
All in all, I understand how you're feeling and I go through things like that too.
I can understand that 당신 want him to leave your best 프렌즈 be, but I think that's 더 많이 of their decision. I say that because of two things: first off, if they don't mind him being around them, then that's fine. Second, when 당신 put down "making my 프렌즈 mad at me", it makes me think that they actually enjoy their company. If this is the case, then I don't believe 당신 should interfere. If this isn't, I still think that 당신 should talk to your 프렌즈 about this little "problem" and see what 당신 come up with. This doesn't mean "devise some plan" to ruin his life, embarrass him, etc. I mean actually sit down and talk about it, and then communicate with him and tell him how 당신 all feel.
Let's say that your 프렌즈 want to be around this guy. Seeing as 당신 don't like him so much, I think that 당신 should talk to your 프렌즈 and work something out. For an example, maybe they could hang out with him at a time where you're not around, so that 당신 don't feel so annoyed. If this still doesn't work out for you, think to yourself that he's at least not bothering you. And that he's not doing anything mean to your friends.
We'll go for another scenario here for the heck of it: let's say that your 프렌즈 got together and talked about it. 당신 all go and talk to this guy, but he still doesn't leave 당신 alone. What do 당신 do? I would suggest doing the same as 당신 did: just ignoring him. I wouldn't suggest anything like "getting even" with him; no one needs to stoop down to any levels. Deal with situations maturely and calmly, and remember to be patient. Let not a single person yell, complain, whine, etc. It sounds like something a parent would say, but it really does make things worse if 당신 do so.
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other 질문 that 당신 may have.
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