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*sighs* So..lately, I'm starting to think 또는 maybe realize that I am bisexual; I'm attracted 의해 both boys and girls.

After thinking about it, there have been signs of this since I was at a young age, like around five years of age, but I never put these clues together until now....

Well...like I said, it all started at five. For some strange reason, a lot of the little kids in my kindergarten class already started having crushes on one another. There were little girls telling each other so-and-so likes 당신 and giggling about it, and there were boys who basically did the same thing. I can even...
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 Drinks can be spiked in two 초
Drinks can be spiked in two seconds
Inspired 의해 Cinders soapbox on this spot. This is to show 당신 why though.

I hail from Ireland- the unofficial drinking capital of the world. Therefore, most of my socialising centres around the pub, and the club.

Its not that I am a massive drinker, 당신 know, the kind that tries to suck up alcohol from the carpet following a spill, but I do drink. And I do go out.Which is why I know first hand the dangers of leaving a drink unattended.

It doesn't matter what 당신 are drinking, be it whiskey 또는 water,NEVER EVER LEAVE IT UNATTENDED.

Its really common to spike a drink with a Mickey Finn in Ireland,...
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So, these past couple months, I've picked up a few things. My story in a nutshell: I sat behind my crush in class, didn't start liking him until the last 월 또는 so of school, didn't get too many chances to talk to him due to the teacher's way of running the class, and I spent those last few weeks desperately trying to befriend him.

Anyways, here are some things I've learned from the whole experience.

1. Don't EVER pass up an opportunity to talk to ANYONE you're sitting near in class (doesn't matter if it's high school, college, work, whatever), and don't EVER take a conversation for granted....
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Travelling to different countries in Asia this 년 with my girlfriend and I’m considering if I should just book with a travel agency rather than making arrangements on my own. We’re both thinking about going to Singapore, Vietnam, Malaysia, Thailand, and Cambodia. I’ve seen Multiple city singles tours packages which are rather affordable. It already includes flight tickets, a 4-star accommodation for the whole trip, city tour in each country, and all-day meals. Should I just get this kind of package?
I’m honestly getting sick and tired of listening to my best friend who is constantly bragging about how a foreign surfer dude was hitting on her at the beach. During her visit to Australia, she was at that famous 바닷가, 비치 and apparently this “tall and muscular hunk” approached her and asked if she was single. They exchanged numbers but a few days after that, she flew back here. Since her arrival, she never heard from him again. I wish I could 헤로인 her in the face with the truth that there was never going to be anything between them ‘cause one, they’re in a long distance situation and two, she doesn’t even know his name!
Sorry for the rant, I just really needed to get this off my chest. But if 당신 guys have any suggestions and 조언 for me regarding this, that would be awesome. Thanks a bunch.
My good friend was convinced to 가입하기 this weird event thing called an a romance tour (i think it’s called?). He’s too shy to go alone so he’s asking me to accompany him. He said that he’ll take care of my expenses since he’s kind of excited about attending one. But in my opinion, this doesn't really seem like something I would consider spending money on. There are a couple of things that make me want to go, since it’s travelling to an international country, and hey, I might actually meet someone there. Is it a big waste of time and money 또는 should i just go for the hell of it? I got nothing better to do anyway.
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I'm a 15 년 old girl and I've been struggling with this for a couple years I've read so many 기사 about figuring out if your biography and taken a countless number of those stupid tests on the internet that are supposed to tell 당신 if 당신 gay straight bi 또는 anything in between and I just can't work it out so this is my last resort so I geuss I'll start at the beginning ..... when I was in 년 7 I was a bit of a loner I'd just moved school and I hated it there anyway towards the end of 년 7 I made 프렌즈 with this girl well call her sasha so anyway sasha...
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posted by Shakailicious
저기요 everyone! I have recently joined this site because I read an 기사 on a similar topic. This girl wrote about her inner fears that she might be bisexual, she said that she absolutely isn't against the gay community she is just unsure of what her sexuality might bring her (like me).
I have a somewhat similar situation concerning my sexual orientation, I 'think' that I am bisexual. As a kid I never had huge crushes on neither boys nor girls. True, the first guy that I liked was in kindergarten, after him I had only 2 'relevant' boy crushes (crushes that lasted somewhat long). However in the...
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When I was just six months old, my parents, who work for the State Department, moved to Washington DC to do their periodic check-in with Big Brother. They lived in a town called Reston, Virginia, which had plenty of swimming pools, one within walking distance of our house.

My brother, Steve, was about five years old at the time, and loved the water. So, it happened, did our neighbor's son, Mac. Mac was about a 년 older than Steve, and the two took to each other immediately. Steve even joined the swim team with Mac, and was over at his house often.

Eventually, though, my parents' job called...
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posted by IsabellaAzuria
I was born
though i shouldn't be
I should have died
I would have died
but i didn't

It would have been better for me to die
and leave this world behind me
it's full of liars and fear

I nearly died twice
Why didn't I?
I would feel so much better now

I would never have been betrayed
by three guys
I would never have seen my mom
lying on the floor and trying to kill herself
I would never have heard my parents
having huge arguments everyday
I would never have known what it's like
to live without money
I would never have been the daydreamer
everybody makes fun of

But then I thought god would have mercy
he sent me one...
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ok, this all started when my mum and i decided to watch a romantic comedy (not gonna mention the title), but before that she gave me "THE TALK" which i didnt happen to like. i kept my feelings to myself until i was playing truth 또는 dare with my friends, one of my 프렌즈 asked: "Roisín, truth... *creepy voice* 또는 dare?" "definately truth." "hmm... what do 당신 think about:
1. having a boyfriend?
2. first kisses?
3. 또는 a husband?"
i had to be honest so i said, "i dont want to have any!" they stared at me for a moment then asked, " whats wrong with it?" i was thinking, THE BRASS NECK OF HER! "i just...
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posted by ztara
 He had just snorted a line of Horlicks, (he was an idiot)
He had just snorted a line of Horlicks, (he was an idiot)
On the 21st of June 2007, my best friend killed himself. He shot himself in the head after suffering from depression for what he said was 'as long as i can remember'. I'd known the guy from when i was three and i miss him like the devil. He was called Joe Spencer Garrard. But for the last few years he dropped the spencer bit, (his bastard dads name). I grew up with the guy and was with him on the last day. Hence i feel almightly responcible, and i know people have told me there is nothing i could have done but i do. As we grew up together we used to play out in the woods alot, Joe was an out...
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I'm female. I have had girl crushes before, but I usually have boy crushes. I have had daydreams about being with girls I like, and I sometimes fantasize my first 키스 being with a girl. Most 퀴즈 I take say I'm bisexual. Me and my friend, who is a girl, almost kissed back in first grade but I decided that I couldn't do it. My 프렌즈 and family are very homophobic and I am also a Christian. I will never tell my family about these feelings because they would disown me if I did. Same with my friends. I also feel like I'm not a good Christian 또는 that I will go to Hell because I think I might be bisexual. I also think that I might be forming a crush on a girl now. What do I do guys?!
I started realizing that I had feelings for people, I have had boyfriends and they make me smile and feel happy and not alone. But every time I have a boyfriend I never feel right, I think that they are kind funny smart and many 더 많이 but I never actually like liked them, I always said that I did. I never knew why. Until I met this one guy, he was perfect I thought I really liked him, he was everything and we started talking a lot, we dated and then one 일 we broke up. I felt torn. But I still went on. I like watching things like Victoria's Secret shows and the live shows from them, and I always...
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posted by africachick
hi,

my boyfriend of almost 9 months broke up with me and he already has a girlfriend!!! I dont know what to do and i cant gat over him. i cry myself 2 sleep every ight cause i dont know what to do! He's pretending that nothing ever happened between us!!! I really 사랑 him! All my 프렌즈 tell me 2 옮기기 on but i just dont know how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really need advice... I would appreciate it if u could help me out. PLEASE help me out...

Sincerly,
Yvone Joubert
AKA: africachick
posted by key_ra
a rose,
to a person,
is that meaning something?

a gift,
to a person,
is that hiding anything?

a smile,
to a person,
it is 더 많이 that just a friend?

a laugh,
to a person,
is that teasing them?

a book,
to a person,
is that called insulting?

everything must have the negative thought 의해 people surround me.
they ask me, "is that just a friend?"
and i will say, "yes, why not?"
they again will ask, "are 당신 like him?"
and i will answer, "people always thinking in negative way. how if i give that to my best friend, is that still meaning something? is that still hiding anything? is that still 더 많이 than a best friend? is that still teasing? is that still insulting?"
and then, i will continue........."no, it is just a friend."

*my life full with untrusted friendship. i don't think they will assume me as their best friend, but if anyone seeking for a trustful friend, i'm here to help you.*
posted by 2annayjacob
BOY SEES GIRL,GIRL LEARNS ABOUT BOY, BOY AND GIRL FALL IN LOVE, BOY IS SWEET TO GIRL, GIRL NOTICES A PUPPY-LIKE QUALITY ABOUT BOY. BOY GOES OUT WITH GIRLS, OTHER GIRLS, GIRL MAKES BOY FALL FOR HER AGAIN, BOY BREAKS UP WITH OTHER GIRLS, ALWAYS.
ONE 일 GIRL SEES BOY, BUT SHE DOESN'T RECOGNIZE BOY, BOY IS DRESSED LIKE A GIRL..GIRL FALLS DOWN A HOLE, BOY HEARS GIRL TALKING SHIT ABOUT HIM, GIRL DOESN'T KNOW, BOY IS DEVASTATED, FOLLOWS GIRL DOWN THE HOLE. BOY TURNS TO DRUGS, GIRL TURNS TO COMMON, FUKING SENCE, AND NOW, GIRL KNOWS BOY HEAR. BOY TURNS TO JAY, GIRL GETS DEPRESSED. BOY DOESN'T RETURN...
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Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.

In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get 코멘트 like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?

What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad 또는 harmful.

Also, we are aware of the...
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posted by Sephisis17
저기요 everyone! Recently, A soap box was added to this spot. My black life 의해 user IsabellaAzuria, told us what she fells inside. Whoever, I think our problems can ne solved easly if we have help. So to help IsabellaAzuria AKA Vanessa, I'm going to dedicate this poem that I wrote about 2 months ago, to her. To show her that life has collors and it is not black.

Life
Life is a gift
A rare one    
I got to live every second
Since the time 당신 are born

당신 got to live it not to waste it
This is the only one 당신 have
There’s no re-born 또는 re-incarnation
If 당신 don’t know how to behave

Life is short
So live it good
Whatever is your mood

Don’t be shy have some fun
So your life will shine
As brighter as the sun

Sephisis17 AKA Vitor Martins
Dedicated to Vanessa
Many people feel that 사랑 hurts...that it's only gonna bring pain and sadness. But to tell 당신 the truth...love won't do that. 사랑 is when everything is perfect and no matter how bad your 일 is 당신 still find a reason to smile because 당신 feel like 당신 have the most amazing person in your life. Yeah 당신 may be going through some problems in this relationship but let me tell 당신 something...Love conquers all. No matter how bad the situation is 당신 can get through it together. Don't let a silly little argument 또는 what anyone says about your relationship go in front of your judgement on your own relationship. And I'm going to give 조언 to those people who 로스트 someone and sees that person with someone else...Listen if 당신 truly loved them 당신 would let them be happy with whoever. Don't interfere. 당신 will be happy and so will they. And plus it will give 당신 peace at mind. Dream Big. 사랑 Forever. Live like today is your last day