death note is taking over our friendship....

well basically i found death note on 유튜브 and showed it my friends. it was great because we all enjoyed it and had fave characters etc. but now its the only thing Emily and Rachel (the two 프렌즈 i shared it with) want to talk about.
they zone me out and only talk to each other. i'm really sick of them only talking about it but i dont want to tell them because they will just say "so what! 당신 talk about stuff we dont care about" eventhough thats true i dont do it to the extent that people dont want to be around me!
my other friend, Lauren, agrees with me but we are too scared to talk to them. We've been avoiding them all 일 to get away from all the death note talk but we know that, that isnt the best way to deal with this.
so my 질문 is; how can i talk to them with out hurting them? should i tell them to just stop talking about this 또는 what? please help... XxXx
 annabethxchase posted over a year ago
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Liking something isn't ever a problem. That is, unless it goes to something called "obsession".

It's fine and all to talk about some show 또는 something that 당신 like and to have 가장 좋아하는 characters, but going completely crazy over it is another. As you've already experienced, it can get annoying. I can't say I know for sure what to suggest, but the only thing I can really tell 당신 is to try getting them to talk about something else. Something that EVERYONE likes to avoid such 코멘트 as the "so what" one 당신 mentioned; that statement was rude and a bit out of bounds anyway, and could have been said better.

당신 and your friend shouldn't even be scared talking to them; anyone can state their opinions. Those who don't listen to them and only take their own are just arrogant, and they definitely won't go very far 의해 listening to themselves all the time. I think that avoiding them, however, helps to some extent. If your other 프렌즈 are just too stubborn to stop talking about it, and 당신 can't possibly find another way, 당신 need to spend some time with other 프렌즈 and let it die down. Everything dies down eventually -- as I'm sure 당신 know, nothing lasts forever. Just be patient with your 프렌즈 and see what 당신 can do for now. If 당신 can even get a little further in getting them to calm down about this, that works too. You're not going to get dramatic results immediately. A lot of things take time.

This is all that I could offer 당신 for right now. Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other 질문 당신 may have.
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thank 당신 so much <33
annabethxchase posted over a year ago
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You're welcome
Chibi-Baka3 posted over a year ago
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