PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

WOW! That is some trouble 당신 have there! Well it sounds to me as if 당신 still care about Adam alot! Do 당신 know if he feels the same way about you? If so 당신 should let Aiden go, it may brake his heart, but if he gets in the middle of it, finds out 또는 gets into fights with Adam 또는 something like that it would hurt all of you! But if 당신 prefer Aiden just stick to the friend level with Adam, he could be a friend for life. Hope this helps

whoever 당신 choose, maybe 당신 could somehow try to stay 프렌즈 with adam 또는 aiden 또는 hu u choose...

but make sure that who u pick will not break up with u again cz ure not gonna get another chance form the other one! :3


(hope i helped..probly didnt but... yh ^^)

Honestly, I don’t think 당신 should be with either of them if 당신 are this uncertain about who 당신 want to be with. I think 당신 should take a hiatus from dating and just focus on 당신 and try to find yourself and discover who 당신 are as a person first and foremost. Then if 당신 still feel strongly about Adam (or Aidan) and they are still available and they still like 당신 then pursue a relationship.

However, I think that 당신 should be upfront about your feelings for Adam and tell Aidan despite the fear of hurting him because 당신 will only be hurting him even 더 많이 in the long run with your dishonesty. Basically, 당신 need to tell Aidan the truth because the longer 당신 prolong this and give him false hope, the 더 많이 crush he’ll be down the line and 당신 might lose his friendship and he may come to resent you. Also, 당신 need to talk to Adam as well and see if he feels anything for 당신 too because , I hate to say it but, Adam might not feel the same way about 당신 that 당신 feel for him. Before 당신 decide to do anything, I think that 당신 should take a step back and reflect on how 당신 truly feel because 당신 might think that 당신 like Adam more, but maybe months from now 당신 might turn around and start liking Aidan more. 당신 need to make sure that what 당신 feel now is what you’ll feel a couple of months down the line because if 당신 are not certain there is a possibility 당신 might lose them both- 당신 might lose Aidan because 당신 lead him on even though 당신 wanted to protect his feelings and Adam because 당신 told him 당신 felt something for him, but 당신 remained with Aidan 또는 당신 ,eventually, stopped feeling the way 당신 feel about him now- and you, yourself, might be hurt in the process because 당신 might lose two people 당신 cared about and they might resent 당신 for it.

Anyway, I think that 당신 should be honest with both guys and yourself even if 당신 may have to hurt someone 또는 some ones. Honesty, in some cases, is the best policy is it not?
I hope that helps let me know if 당신 need anymore advice. :)