I need help figuring out what to do with a guy? (please help I have no idea what i should do)

Ok so i'm going to write this as simply as possible if 당신 need any 더 많이 background stuff let me know.
ok so there is this guy that i am really good 프렌즈 with. I had like him for a little bit and then found out that he liked me making me like him 더 많이 but nothing ever came of it. and i eventually got over him. but a few months after we were talking a lot and had become much closer 프렌즈 but after a while i thought that he might like me again. and then he asked me if i would do the whole 프렌즈 with benefits thing with him. i said that i wasn't sure and that i would think about it. but now my 프렌즈 are telling me that he likes me and with all of this that has happened some of my feelings have kind of come back. but no one knows that i do now 또는 ever did have feelings for him. so i guess what i'm asking is does he want a relationship with me 또는 does he purely want something physical? and i really don't know what i should do because i don't want to get hurt and i don't want to loose our friendship if it goes badly.
well that's briefly what it is so please help and if 당신 need clarification let me know thanks
 s3l3nA93 posted over a year ago
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MRS-J0NAS said:
I dont think risking the whole friendship thing is really worth it. I've seen so many 프렌즈 that starting dating, and it ended badly. And myself. It was awkward after me and my guy friend went out. We couldnt get back the friendship we had.

BUT, if 당신 really 사랑 him. And i mean, 사랑 him. And he loves you, and 당신 KNOW that no matter what, 당신 will STILL be 프렌즈 after the relationship, go for it.

Also, if he's talking about a relationship, then yeah, if you's are in love, go for it.
But what 당신 said, the "physical" stuff. DONT do that. That will definatly destroy both the relationship AND friendship.

I hope i helped.
And good luck
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snZ_ladysamurai said:
don't loose a friend.
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BlackAngel369 said:
well if he still likes u, then i doubt he wants just a hit in run. he could be scared just lik u 또는 he could be just horny. so try not 2 think about wht he is thinking, cuz tht wont help. ask urself wht u want and need from him. u want the friendship and mayb more. see this is a sticky sitution. ur gonna have to chose basiced on a less emotion decsion. i was in the same spot u were 4 months 이전 and im telling u it was a messy, messy. im still w/ the guy, but the stuff tht happend bwt us changed us. here is one thing 2 think about, do u trust him enough 2 stick around 4 the right reasons. if 4 any reason u doubt this question, u need 2 remove the relationship idea from the table. is he worth the risk?
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