I have been really obsessed with Damon and Elena since I saw the Vampire Diaries. I 사랑 everything about them. Every single scene with them in it, every word they say, every look they give to each other. Basically the 팬 of Vampire Diaries either root for Stefan and Elena 또는 Damon and Elena. I have to say I am a totall Delena fan. There are number of reasons why I am hoping that these two will end up being together. I gotta admit that at the beginning I was a Stelena fan. My friend suggested me to start watching this show. Before I started watching it, I went on 유튜브 to see short 비디오 from the Vampire diaries to get a better idea what the plot was like. I watched Stefan and Elena 사랑 scene and I loved it. I felt like oh, these two people are meant to be together... while watching those 비디오 I found out that there was another character called Damon who also was in 사랑 with Elena. Even though I thought Damon was hotter than Stefan, I was really annoyed to see that Elena had feelings towards Damon too. I was like, wait, Stefan and she are so cute together, I hope Damon doesn't ruin their relationship. As I started watching the show I absolutely hated Damon and I was convinced that he was a really bad guy who didn't deserve Elena's 사랑 and understanding. In short, I loved Stefan and Elena. The reason why I told 당신 my story is that Stelena 팬 often blame Delena shippers that they 사랑 Damon only because he's hotter. This isn't true. When I didn't know much about the plot and I briefly saw some parts of the show, I felt like yes, Damon is hot but Stefan is a better guy so I hope he will kick Damon's ass. I never chose Damon over Stefan based on his external appearence and because he had prettier eyes than Stefan. So the reason why I want Elena to pick Damon has nothing to do with the fact that Damon is so good-looking. No, not at all.

As I continued watching the show it seemed to me that when Elena and Stefan met each other they somehow convinced themselves that they were meant to be together. Elena had just 로스트 her parents and felt miserable, so Stefan was a person who came to her at a right time when she needed a new friend who she could talk to. Stefan did make her feel better so I think she kinda confused her gratitude towards Stefan with love. Stefan himself felt also happy, because he found the girl who looked exactly like Katherine (who he loved over a hundred year) but she was 더 많이 kind-hearted and less selfish.

But then something happened. Damon came across. Damon's appearance proved that Elena and Stefan's relationship was incomplete. They seemed to be a perfect couple at the beginning of the story. But when Damon came across, it changed things. Damon showed up and made us realize that Elena/Stefan 사랑 was kinda boring, lifeless...Elena and Stefan's relationship has been steady most of the time, no ups and downs, no excitement. They were like "Oh we believe in 사랑 from the first sight and we'll be together forever." Of course Stefan/Elena have been through a lot and Stefan has proved that he cares for Elena, but I have never seen him being in 사랑 in such a desperate, reckless way as Damon.

I 사랑 it how Damon took babysteps to get a better person, to bring out his humanity back, how he tried to deserve Elena's respect. He actually tried to change, Elena gave him a reason to stop being a cold-hearted killer vampire. The beginning of their relationship and the way it developed is so much 더 많이 complicated than Elena and Stefan's. Elena hated and liked Damon at the same time, she didn't believe him and trusted him at the same time, he was irritating her and attracting her at the same time. They teased each other, they argued, they laughed together, they fought and still managed to have fun. I have seen undeniable chemistry between these two. Somehow I came to conclusion that only one Delena scene with Damon doing his "eye thing" and Elena smiling cheerfully 또는 teasing him was so much enjoyable and cute to watch than ten other scenes of Stefan and Elena hugging and 키싱 each other. Elena always seems happier and perkier with Damon than with Stefan. Seeing so many fights, fun moments, understanding and a stronger connection between them makes me realize that there's a true 사랑 right there.

I don't blame Elena for pushing Damon away even though I am Damon fan. If I were Elena, I would have done the same. For a long time I wouldn't even let myself admit that I was inlove with my boyfriend's brother. Elena is falling for Damon harder and harder, her feelings for Damon are way stronger but she keeps convincing herself that "it's Stefan and it's always going to be Stefan" because she cannot just stop being with her boyfriend and 옮기기 on to his brother. Deep down Elena feels guilty for being attracted to Damon this is why she's desperately trying to push Damon away and repeats over and over again that she loves Stefan. I'd like to ask Stelena 팬 why do 당신 guys think that Elena and Stefan are so perfect together? 당신 can tell that Elena isn't sure about her feelings towards Stefan, if she was she wouldn't have to remind herself so often that Stefan is her only true love. In the third season we've seen how attached she's to Damon and how jealous she gets when she sees him flirting with Rebekah. If she was so in 사랑 with Stefan why did she start falling for Damon? Maybe the reason why she keeps trying to save Stefan from Klaus is not love? It seems that both Damon and Elena are trying to get Stefan back because they're feeling guilty. Stefan sacrificed himself to save his brother and Damon owes him his life . And Elena cannot just let herself be happy with Damon while she knows that Stefan is in danger and being used 의해 Klaus. If Damon and Elena forget about Stefan and admit what they feel towards each other that will be probably the most selfish thing to do in their lives.

I just found a really cool quote online: "If 당신 사랑 two people at the same time, choose the 초 one, because if 당신 really loved the first one 당신 wouldn't have fallen for the second." I do agree with this. If Elena really truly loved Stefan, why is she falling for Damon? Why isn't she sure about what she feels?

I have heard a lot of times that Stefan is a safer choice for Elena, that Stefan deserves her more. OK, let's say that it's true. Well, unfortunately 사랑 has nothing to do with logic, 당신 don't usually fall in 사랑 with someone because he deserves 당신 또는 슈츠 당신 more. 사랑 is the most unpredictable feeling of all. 당신 might actually end up dating a guy who is totally wrong for you. 당신 know that he isn't the best choice 또는 a safer choice, but he's the one 당신 need, he's the one who completes you. We cannot control who we should fall in 사랑 with. And 의해 the way other world famous 책 about 사랑 stories are full of characters who fell in 사랑 with someone who they weren't even supposed to look at. Forbidden love-that's what is so amazing....So if Elena actually ends up being with Damon, it's maybe not the safest and logical choice for her but 사랑 isn't about playing it safe. I 사랑 that episode when Elena talks about Rebekah: "She loves blindly and recklessly even if that consumes her." It's like she's talking about herself and Damon. Damon loves her blindly and recklessly too, and I am sure deep down Elena feels the same...This kind of 사랑 is 더 많이 real and natural to me than all that overrated sweet relationship between Elena and Stefan.

Somewhere online I read that Delena needs to happen, so Stelena is an endgame. Well, if the producers are actually gonna make this happen, I will probably end up hating this TV show. How's that gonna work out? Elena had sex with Stefan, now she decides to make out with Damon and at last she makes up her mind "Oh, guess what, Stefan was better.. screw Damon, I want my 이전 boyfriend back." That's disgusting I think... Either Delena needs to happen and be the endgame, 또는 it shouldn't happen at all.

As far as I know LJ Smith got fired because she was making too many Delena scenes. This is making it obvious that producers, publishers 또는 whoever they are want Stelena to be the endgame. If Stelena is really the endgame, that will make me really sad but honestly I cannot wait till the Vampire Diaries comes to an end. Don't get me wrong, I 사랑 it, but I am tired of waiting for years. Eventually 책 and the show need to come an end. This 사랑 삼각형 is killing me, because the 사랑 and relationships between Damon/Elena/Stefan is so painfuly slow...I know that Stelena has a lot of 팬 ( I used to be one of them once), but I am sure Delena has more. I don't know what's gonna happen to an end but I want the show creators to read carefully what 팬 think, what they want and then decide.

I am sorry I made 당신 read this, I had to get these thoughts out of my head. And sorry if my English wasn't that great... I learned English as my third language and I struggled for hours to write this... I'd appreciate to hear all your 답변 and thoughts. Thank you.