Kinda Personal : My boyfriend told me he masturbated and I'm thinking that it's a reflection on how he finds me attractive..

It's normal, trust me. I do it too and so does my boyfriend, sometimes even when the other one is in the same room. Self pleasure is important and has no reflection on how attractive your boyfriend finds you. It's probably his way to either give himself a moment of pleasure to relax 또는 relieve some stress. He was honest enough to tell 당신 about it and I doubt it was his intention to hurt you.

I don"t think a lot of guys masturbation as a part of their sex life. If 당신 ask a guy who's not having sex about his sex life, he probably won't say "It's great, I masturbate at least three times a day"

Don't focus on whether he's masturbating 또는 not, but what he's thinking about when he does. If he was willing to tell 당신 he was masturbating, he should be ok with 당신 asking what he was thinking about. It's really sexy, actually. If he's thinking about you, there's no problem.
He could also have a 판타지 he's too nervous to tell 당신 about and this is his way to get 당신 to ask questions. I tried that with a girl once, but she didn't ask questions, so I dropped it.

i know youre nervous to ask him as 당신 said but seriously HOW do 당신 expect to have a good relationship with someone if 당신 cant talk to him aboot something thats worrying you? and can i also ask if 당신 are comfortable aboot the amount of sex 당신 guys have?
great answer,eh? two 질문 :P