well, 사랑 is a feeling we can't help having. its like this big bright hole that 당신 suddenly find urself falling into.the light is blinding your eyes and 당신 can't see anything. 당신 feel like everything has changed. and then your eyes adapt and so do you. 당신 open your eyes and suddenly this whole new place pops out. everythings the same but different. suddenly the parking lot in front ur school looks like heaven. the stpid lamp post 당신 used to kick so often looks like an angel, the gods messenger. love, the slight touch of it changes everything.. 당신 find urself smiling alone, 백일몽 a lot even fantasizing.. it makes 당신 a better person.. although i'm not saying that 사랑 is a necessary boon for us. all i can say is 당신 need to drop into the hole to find the light...