This 기사 was written 의해 팬팝 guest contributor Trina G.
Every now and then we get into relationships that start out awesome but then dwindle into something less than perfect. While it’s perfectly normal to not be perfect, 당신 have to know when it’s time to let go and 옮기기 on.
Sometimes people change…and sometimes they drag 당신 into an endless abyss of whiney ooze and greedy goo, where 당신 trudge along desperately hoping to escape the insanity. Here are 10 signs the madness won’t end and that it’s time to dump that chump.
1. He Abuses You
If a man abuses you, either physically 또는 emotionally, 당신 have to dump him. Abusive men do not change (they don’t know how). Get rid of him now while 당신 still can. And if 당신 need help 또는 someone to talk to, the link is there for 당신 24/7.
2. He Never Has Any Money
It’s one thing to work your butt off for some whip-wielding boss, earning minimum wage and never having spare cash for a romantic restaurant, at least your man is working and putting in some effort. It’s another thing if he’s asking 당신 to pay his rent this 월 because he owed Smelly Lenny some funds from a bet gone sour. Ditch him.
3. He Cancels Your Dates to be With the Guys
Any time your guy spends 더 많이 time cancelling your dates to hang with his buddies than he does actually dating 당신 it’s time to get rid of him. He’s obviously dating his buddies, not you.
4. He Texts 당신 at 3AM
If every weekend you’re awoken 의해 a text that reads: “Are 당신 awake, babe? I’m kinda drunk and need a ride home/I’m in the mood” (in less than good grammar), it’s time to ditch him.
5. He Doesn’t Listen to You
Now, to clarify, there’s a difference between him tuning out your incessant nagging (which is normal relationship behavior) and him forgetting that your grandma is in the hospital so 당신 can’t cook 공식 만찬, 저녁 식사 for him tonight. If your guy forgets important events, your 가장 좋아하는 (and least favorite) foods, your dreams, hobbies, 또는 (especially) your name…dump him.
6. He’s Unsupportive of Your Dreams
Equally as bad as forgetting your dreams is the guy who couldn’t care less about them. If 당신 tell him that 당신 want to be an artist and he tells 당신 to do something useful with your life instead, then he’s not supportive and 당신 should dump him.
7. He Flirts With Everyone
I’ll admit, sometimes flirting is a natural habit that most people don’t even realize they have. Still, if every time 당신 go out he’s giving himself whiplash trying to watch a girl’s behind as she goes by, and then makes a 코멘트 about how hot she was, then he doesn’t respect 당신 enough to keep his eyes to himself and 당신 should get rid of him.
8. He’s Rude to Your Family
It’s a rare person that loves their partner’s parents. However, no matter how much your city dwelling guy can’t stand your 트랙터 driving redneck mom and dad, he has to be nice to them. There’s absolutely no excuse for being rude to your parents, it’s disrespectful and 당신 should get rid of him (or let your dad give him the boot).
9. He’s a Loafer
Did your guy stay the night one night and never leave? Have 당신 been dating three months and he’s living with 당신 rent free, eating all your chips and playing X-Box all 일 while you’re at work? Does he also leave the house a mess and invite his 프렌즈 over without telling you? If your guy is the “I just couldn’t get rid of him” guy, then 당신 need to send him on a 피자 run and change the locks while he’s gone.
10. He Cheated on You
If your man cheated on 당신 one night, regrets it immensely, and has felt horrible ever since, there’s nothing saying he’ll ever do it again. It is possible to 옮기기 past a one night stand, depending on the relationship. But, if he’s had a lover for a while, 또는 numerous affairs, then he’s a chronic cheater and you’re not going to be able to 옮기기 beyond that. Get rid of him.
There are plenty of guys out there who will be nice to you, so don’t waste your time on these kinds of guys. Ditch him now and be done!
Every now and then we get into relationships that start out awesome but then dwindle into something less than perfect. While it’s perfectly normal to not be perfect, 당신 have to know when it’s time to let go and 옮기기 on.
Sometimes people change…and sometimes they drag 당신 into an endless abyss of whiney ooze and greedy goo, where 당신 trudge along desperately hoping to escape the insanity. Here are 10 signs the madness won’t end and that it’s time to dump that chump.
1. He Abuses You
If a man abuses you, either physically 또는 emotionally, 당신 have to dump him. Abusive men do not change (they don’t know how). Get rid of him now while 당신 still can. And if 당신 need help 또는 someone to talk to, the link is there for 당신 24/7.
2. He Never Has Any Money
It’s one thing to work your butt off for some whip-wielding boss, earning minimum wage and never having spare cash for a romantic restaurant, at least your man is working and putting in some effort. It’s another thing if he’s asking 당신 to pay his rent this 월 because he owed Smelly Lenny some funds from a bet gone sour. Ditch him.
3. He Cancels Your Dates to be With the Guys
Any time your guy spends 더 많이 time cancelling your dates to hang with his buddies than he does actually dating 당신 it’s time to get rid of him. He’s obviously dating his buddies, not you.
4. He Texts 당신 at 3AM
If every weekend you’re awoken 의해 a text that reads: “Are 당신 awake, babe? I’m kinda drunk and need a ride home/I’m in the mood” (in less than good grammar), it’s time to ditch him.
5. He Doesn’t Listen to You
Now, to clarify, there’s a difference between him tuning out your incessant nagging (which is normal relationship behavior) and him forgetting that your grandma is in the hospital so 당신 can’t cook 공식 만찬, 저녁 식사 for him tonight. If your guy forgets important events, your 가장 좋아하는 (and least favorite) foods, your dreams, hobbies, 또는 (especially) your name…dump him.
6. He’s Unsupportive of Your Dreams
Equally as bad as forgetting your dreams is the guy who couldn’t care less about them. If 당신 tell him that 당신 want to be an artist and he tells 당신 to do something useful with your life instead, then he’s not supportive and 당신 should dump him.
7. He Flirts With Everyone
I’ll admit, sometimes flirting is a natural habit that most people don’t even realize they have. Still, if every time 당신 go out he’s giving himself whiplash trying to watch a girl’s behind as she goes by, and then makes a 코멘트 about how hot she was, then he doesn’t respect 당신 enough to keep his eyes to himself and 당신 should get rid of him.
8. He’s Rude to Your Family
It’s a rare person that loves their partner’s parents. However, no matter how much your city dwelling guy can’t stand your 트랙터 driving redneck mom and dad, he has to be nice to them. There’s absolutely no excuse for being rude to your parents, it’s disrespectful and 당신 should get rid of him (or let your dad give him the boot).
9. He’s a Loafer
Did your guy stay the night one night and never leave? Have 당신 been dating three months and he’s living with 당신 rent free, eating all your chips and playing X-Box all 일 while you’re at work? Does he also leave the house a mess and invite his 프렌즈 over without telling you? If your guy is the “I just couldn’t get rid of him” guy, then 당신 need to send him on a 피자 run and change the locks while he’s gone.
10. He Cheated on You
If your man cheated on 당신 one night, regrets it immensely, and has felt horrible ever since, there’s nothing saying he’ll ever do it again. It is possible to 옮기기 past a one night stand, depending on the relationship. But, if he’s had a lover for a while, 또는 numerous affairs, then he’s a chronic cheater and you’re not going to be able to 옮기기 beyond that. Get rid of him.
There are plenty of guys out there who will be nice to you, so don’t waste your time on these kinds of guys. Ditch him now and be done!
