The guy I have a major crush on has a girlfriend now. What should I do?

I have liked him since last summer. He is sweet and smart and cute and popular. He treats girls very well. But, just when I started to think he liked me, and just when I figured that I would have a chance, he gets a girlfriend. I cried to my friend when I found out. Plus, he is in a different grade, so in the school 년 we never have classes together. I never got a chance to tell him how much I care...IDK what I should do! Help!
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I have a similar case and IDK what to do 2...
Aglaia posted over a year ago
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me too. to Aglaia
summerlynn1978 posted over a year ago
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I would just tell him and see what he says 또는 I probally would just wait till they break up I do not even know even though I have to deal with 2 boyfriends but my 1st one had a girlfriend till the 일 he was new till the 3weeks till school was out then he asked me and I said yes so we are still dating but I do not really trust him because it is the summer but yeah I am so sorry if this does not help 당신 but that is all I had to say cause I do not want to talk about my 초 boyfriend so good luck and like I said I am sorry if this do not help 당신
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IsabellaAzuria said:
Well try to tell him what 당신 feel about him, don't try to force anything though. Just do it 의해 a letter, through the internet 또는 cellphone message. If he really likes you, he will tell 당신 and leave his current gf for 당신 BUT 당신 may not insist if he tells 당신 that he is happy with his girlfriend. In that case anything 당신 would try to do to wreck his relationship with the girl would make him dislike you. In a case in which he would betray his girlfriend with 당신 and tell 당신 he'll leave her soon, don't fall for that. Either he loves 당신 and leaves her 또는 he just doesn't. I wish 당신 the best of luck for that. Even if he doesn't like 당신 this way, I'm sure 당신 will find someone who will 사랑 you.
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that is a great ansewer and I agree with 당신
22478 posted over a year ago
xBellaxEwardx21 said:
Ok, My bestfriend has almost the same problem alittle diffrent thoguh. He has a girlfriend there is not to much 당신 can do about that. 당신 dont want to break them up even if 당신 like him alot. The first thing 당신 want to do is talk to this guy. Tell him that 당신 do have feelinfgs for him, tell him your willing to wait it out and see how he feels. 당신 never want to pressur someone cause then they totaly wont like 당신 back. After 당신 guys talk i would lay low and give him some 우주 to think. If he comes back and says he has feeling for 당신 to, then wait it out and see where things go with him and his gf. If he says that he dosnt like you, well let it go. But i know how hard it is to let it go, always keep a foot in. Becuase 당신 never know, he might be hiding his feelings cause he is scared. Most guys can not express thiuer feelings beacuse even though its hard to belive. Guys have feelings too! LOL so jsut see how things go! ZTell him 당신 ned 2 talk to hima bout it cause apprently 당신 both like eachother as freiends 또는 as 더 많이 then friends. 당신 two need to work things out. Cause mabye he dose like 당신 but he thinks 당신 dont like him and thats why he choose to go out with someone else. But i know how hard it can be to talk to a guy. Im a girl too! 당신 need to talk to him in person ,that is always the best way. It is the hardest but best way. 당신 ahve to startoff 의해 telling him how 당신 feel. Then ask him if he ever did have feeling for you. He might lie to ur face, being it is face to face conctat and guys can get pretty....ummmm how do 당신 say embarssed with that. But 당신 jsut have to come straight out and tell him how 당신 feel. He might not resepnd the way 당신 want him to but he will think your 메리다와 마법의 숲 and amaazing for talking to him in person and not over text 또는 이메일 ;) even on the phone will work after 당신 have worked things out. Add me and tell me how things go :)
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GOOD JOB
22478 posted over a year ago
Lunatic said:
Wait until his current relationship finishes, then tell him how 당신 feel.

DO NOT flirt while he is still with someone. Would 당신 like it if some girl started flirting with your boyfriend? (A: No. 당신 wouldn't.)

Obviously, since he is going out with her, he likes her. Even if it makes 당신 miserable, 당신 should respect that she makes him happy. (Isn't it just hell?)
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that is right
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LabraLege said:
인기 guys will never admire some girl crying for him :) don't bother.
But if 당신 want to have him 당신 need to be diffirent from his girlfriend. To get his attention. I don't know, maybe 당신 should just change your hair color to 담홍색, 핑크 (it helped my sister) 또는 do something that he would never dare to do...
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she shouldn't have to change herself for a guy. And she shouldn't have to be better then hia grilfriend. She should just beherself! He is 프렌즈 with her cause she is herself and apprently he likes her too!
xBellaxEwardx21 posted over a year ago
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It's not about changing for HIM!
LabraLege posted over a year ago
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yeah I agree with LabraLege it is not about changing yourself for a guy so just tell him how 당신 feel and don't do what anyone else tells 당신 just say what 당신 believe in and WHO 당신 believe in
22478 posted over a year ago
Eclipse said:
I would ask him if he knows that u like him 또는 if he likes u and hes just tryfing to make u jelous cause u no how ego centeric guys can be but anyway, i would ask him and go from that.
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That is very true 2, guys liek to make girls jelous! ALOT! haha
xBellaxEwardx21 posted over a year ago
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that is SOOOOOO true because my cousin told my boyfriend that I a dating NOW that I liked him and he said I know so we have been going out for about a 월 now I think I am not sure it was 3weeks before school was out but I 사랑 him with all my 심장 but on the other hand one of my brothers 프렌즈 asked me out so now I have to deal with both of them BUT I 사랑 my first baby first I don't rally like the other one but sorry I agree with 당신 Eclipse
22478 posted over a year ago
peterslover said:
How long 이전 did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do 당신 really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do 당신 now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that 당신 care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, 또는 anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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 How long 이전 did he get his new girlfriend? That can make a difference. If it's been months, then do 당신 really want to be the one who breaks up a relationship? If it hasn't been that long, then do 당신 now have the courage to stop him between classes and mention that 당신 care alot for him? Stay true to yourself-NEVER be something that your not just for a guy, 또는 anyone!! I hope I am of some help. ♥
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About 2/3 weeks ago...
DolphinLover97 posted over a year ago
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well 당신 could still go for it don't be scared if she gets mad it is ok because. I know someone who is going to go to 7th grade with me 다음 년 and she wants to fight me because I am dating my boyfriend and she use to like him so it is ok
22478 posted over a year ago
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GO FOR IT
22478 posted over a year ago
cheery_blossom said:
Wait it out, flirting nonstop (subtly) and catch him on the rebound.
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Why would 당신 want to just be the rebound chick while he is still getting over his ex?
Lunatic posted over a year ago
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no bad idea
22478 posted over a year ago
sweet_n_silly said:
That happens to me alot. I'm not sure if this is the best thing to do, but I just wait it out. I flirt a little bit, when his gf isn't around of course, and hope they breakup happily. Beware of the gf though!!!! If she even starts to get suspicious, pull back. other than that, don't try to be the one to throw a wrench in their relationship and be patient. When things go sour, which they most likely will, be ready to catch him. That's when the hook drives the deepest.
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저기요 me too want to be my 팬
22478 posted over a year ago
Black_cat_ said:
there are a few ways to deal with this, 1 is 2 tell him how u feel and dont expect anything from him, wait till he breaks up with her and tell him (is risky i did it and it turned out she liked me b4 she got a bf), 또는 hide ur feelings till they go away. all of the choices r hard and most of them dont lead to anything. ur best bet 2 me is 2 just tel him right now how u feel and just see what happenes hun, otherwise ul just be waiting and either hopeing 또는 not knowing
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ok????
22478 posted over a year ago
Twili12 said:
Hey, it's okay if this happens to you. You're not alone on this one. Well, what I would do is, just wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. It depends what age 당신 are at. Like, if 당신 are not in high school yet, them breaking up is HIGHLY likely. But, if 당신 do think this boy may have had 또는 does have feelings for you, he might realize that you're the one he truly likes. I'm sorry if this doesn't help you, but feel free to send me a message.For now, just try and talk to him nicely when ever 당신 see him. Act lady like, polite, smart, and ask him some questions, don't let yourself do all the talking lol! But I'm sure 당신 will be okay. Ask him how his relationship is doing. If he points out some of his girlfriends' flaws, (ex. so and so shops too much. So and so talks about herself too much. Etc.) then try to show him that you're not like that. Well, that's a summery about how I would try to go at this situation, but if 당신 still have some questions, feel free to message me. I'm sorry if this doesn't help. Good luck!
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