This crush has been annoying me for months now but last nights episode made me reach a boiling point!

I felt sorry for Finn! I didnt know it was possible!

Seriously what did Kurt expect from all the pushing and pushing to make Finn like him. Sharing rooms and decorating for him? Seriously? And then get upset because hes feeling extremely uncomfortable and then he pushes him further!

And then we see Finn apologise to Kurt!!!!!!!!!

I felt sorry for Finn until he used "faggy".
He crossed a line, he didn't need to try and purposefully throw that in Kurt's face..it was horrible. Kurt might have been pushing Finn far too much and not letting go, but he wasn't hurting Finn and Finn was doing just that.
Using the word "fag" like he used it was just so plain wrong. So yes Finn did deserve to be yelled at.

Dont get me wrong using that word is unbelievably wrong, but its Finn who doesn't know whats right half the time any ways, and to push a straight teenage boy to those limits i think thats the reaction you will get, which is why is was right for Burt to kick off on himj!

Nothing's going his way. At all.
... It's not Kurt's fault.

He wanted Quinn, but that didn't happen.
He wants Racheal, but she likes Jesse
He wants his father, but that will never happen.
His mother is moving on.
he's been moved into a new house without even being told.
His new roommate has a crush on him. That's got to be akward.
He's being teased by his old friends.

I do feel sorry for him.

I felt sorry for him, hell yeah. But there are various reasons and such.

I get that Kurt can be a little to much towards Finn, but there are TONS of way to talk to people.

He almost hit Kurt when he tried to help him with the Kiss make up. He yelled at him. He used the word "faggy". Okay, so maybe he's upset with life, but that's not reason to yell at Kurt like that! The truth is that Finn has been selfish (and not just with Kurt) these past episodes, and i'm tired of that attitude.

He deserved everything that Burt said to him. And i felt sorry for Kurt, not him.

Well I understand it from Finn's point. He's obviously aware of Kurt's crush on him. While I understand that it's impossible to simply forget about someone, Kurt should've started the process of moving on instead of this back and forth drama between their parents. First he wanted their parents to get close, then when Burt started getting close to Finn, he got jealous. Suddenly, he's on board with moving and so on. For a teenage boy like Finn, who is suddenly being bullied and pressured to suddenly changed after 16 years of routine life, he just lashed out at Kurt.

I was so proud of Burt when he defended Kurt, because even I was ready to hit Finn when he used "fag". But Kurt should accept some blame for making Finn uncomfortable.

Finn, he was wrong for indirectly calling Kurt a fag. Like Burt said, he doesnt use the N word or retard, so what makes calling someone a fag any different? Thats saying that being gay is wrong? Finn stepped over the line when he said that. Even though he doesnt live in that house and didnt want to live in that house, he still disrespected the ones that do call that place their home.

Kurt has been a little over the top lately I get that. But at least he was trying to compromise. Finn being a jackass and yelling at Kurt was definately the wrong way to handle the situation.

Burt did the right thing. He stood up for his son who hes had to accept for who he is and someone coming into his house and calling his son a fag would upset any parent.

I feel sorry for both of them. I didn't agree with... well, anything Finn did in this episode but I kind of understand why he reacted the way he did. I'm not defending him though.

I think Finn was way out of line, and I'm glad he got yelled at. I do think being annoyed at Kurt's crush and annoyed they were living together was understandable, but not the way he reacted at all. By reacting like he did, he directed his hate at Kurt's sexuality not the situation, which was out of line and lost him any sympathy I had. Like I said on another pick, what if it was Mercedes instead of Kurt with the unrequited crush and Finn had used the n word about her?

To be fair, I will say I do get frustrated with Kurt's crush on Finn (which for the record I think has been bizarrely inconsistently written lately). There are times when I want to just mute scenes till Kurt stops talking when it's a Kurt/Finn plot, because he embarrasses himself (and this is coming from a Kurt fan). He seemed to understand ages ago he had no chance with Finn, so why was he all of a sudden scheming to get them together? It was stupid, and made no sense. I don't think it made what Finn did ok, but I do wish they'd drop this plot, especially since they can't seem to make up their minds which way to take it (one minute Kurt's trying to set up their families, the next he's hurt his dad gets along with Finn, the next he's suddenly happy and scheming again. This plot really has been all over the place) I swear, there must be a rumour going around their school that Finn has a penis made of cake or something, because why else would diva characters like Kurt and Rachel always be so willing to humiliate themselves to try and get Finn?

I think i'm in the middle. While Finn definitely should not have used that word, I still think that Kurt hasn't ever really gotten what he deserves for always trying to manipulate Finn. Kurt should know better then anybody that you shouldn't try to change people. It's always been a problem I have with the show, that even though Kurt sometimes does bad things, because he's gay, he never really gets in trouble. (And i'm NOT trying to say that being gay is in any way wrong, just that it seems like Kurt gets treated a lot better then he deserves because he is.)

No way. Finn deserved it 100%. That's all I'll say.

Finn crossed the line when he said "faggy." I understand that he is annoyed at Kurt's crush on him, but saying it was still plain wrong, and I lost some respect for him as a character. I'm glad he came to his senses at the end of the episode, but he still was in the wrong before.

Kurt, however, crush on Finn is getting extremely annoying, and it's one of the reason's that a small part of me understands Finn's reacion (besides saying "faggy"). What exactly did Kurt expect out of all this? Finn makes it clear that he is not gay, but Kurt keeps pushing him. And with everything thats been going on with Finn's life, he was bound to snap, so I was kind of expecting it already. But they were both wrong in the situation equally.

Burt was the one in the right here.

And he didnt want to live there so he definately got what he wanted ^.^

I agree with you Sarah, Finn was wrong to say it, but Finn's not a smart guy and when friends use words like "fag" or "retard" all the time and it becomes a normalcy, it probably just slipped out and the regret on his face tells me that he wasn't aware how mean it was or what it even meant. He HAS been under alot of pressure, he has to move into these guy's house when he has no say and sharing a room with Kurt would be okay if Kurt didn't pressure Finn so much. Finn just wanted to be himself and it came out wrong.

I'm not good at writing out big explanations of my opinion, I tend to get a little confuzzling. Let's just say I agree with Cas_Cat, oldmovie, Mermaid-Tail, etc!

At first I was like okay Kurt you can't keep pushing him but what he said to Kurt was waaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy out of line and to use the word "Faggy" is horrible!!! But I liked what he did in the end!

Finn was wrong and totally out of line, but he's not a jerk. That's pretty much what the end of the episode proved.

I don't really like Kurt! I was totally team Finn

But I have to say Kurt was kinda too pushing the situation... all the time with Finn and talking about things he doesn't care and flirting with him... Although Finn reacted really bad.

I don't think Finn was a jerk, I think he was thoughtless. A lot of us let things slip out of our mouths in anger and we regret it the moment it's out. I know that being gay in high school is tough, especially when it seems you're the only one who is at least out at that school, but I do wish Kurt will get over his fixation with Finn, he'll only get hurt in the end. I think they should get a boyfriend for Kurt.

I don't think Finn's a jerk all the time, but this episode he was really pissing me off.

Of course he was somehow "cought by surprise" by this whole moving in with Hummel family, but come on - he'll never be ready to let his mother to move on & fine some well deserved happiness after all these years! And if one day he'll graciously let her be happy again, she'll be to old to build something from the scratch. So I'm not surprised she made the decision for both of them - Finn's answer was so obvious that askinghim wouldn't make sense.

Tonight episode made me think that inside Finn is gay, but he won't admit it... He can't stand even one look from gay guy? One normal touch? WTH - is he so totally unsure of his sexuality that he freaks out being in one room with gay guy? Is he afraid of being raped? Don't think so... His reactions were so ridiculous I suppose he was afraid of his own feelings :)

Faggot blanket? What makes you a man, Finn? Something you have in your something you were, or just who are, who you feel you are? This crazy need of Finn to prove to the whole world that he's a totally-manly-staraight-tough-guy makes me think he's really unsure of his sexual identity... again.

There is this rule - you don't have right to offend any person in his/her house. It doesn't metter Finn didn't want to be there. He was an invited guest & he behaved terribly. I get - 16, broken heart, family issues, hormns... But is doesn't relieve you from controlling your words & bahaviour. Not at all.

So, I really think Burt was amazing & Finn had hiss lesson. What he did at the end proves it. And I'm happy because of that :)

aww i felt bad for him he could burt could have been a little nicer even tho finn was mean for saying what he did. he did make up for it. ps. i dont like kurt that much either

I loved it. Finn is soo annoying and out of line ALL THE TIME. Burt OWNED HIM!

mermaid-tale, your cake joke made me ROFL ;D

BURT FTW the actor totally deserves an emmy for that scene it was amazing. i dont think finn should ever have used that word it was mean and thoughtless but then i can understand why he was so upset. i mean its not easy have all these sitautions springing up on you (surprise you're moving into someone else's home, decorate your room, you'll be okay with it? really? that's supposed to be acceptable? to me that was thoughtless on the mums part) and with kurt always pushing finn i wasn't surprised he snapped in the end.
this might be very wrong but i couldnt help laughing when burt asked finn if he said the f word to his son and finn mumbled, 'no. . .i was saying it to the. . .blanket.'

oh and i used to like kurt but all the scheming is getting on my nerves. he needs to get a boyfriend FAST.

Finn should never have used that word and kudos to Burt but I cannot blame Finn for reacting like that. Kurt is continually trying to push himself onto him even tho he's straight and been extremely selfish about it too. Hell if I had to share a room with someone I knew was attracted to me, I'd get changed in the bathroom too. So no I didn't really sorry for him, he needed to hear what Burt said and I think he's learnt his lesson. And to be honest, I see Finn's mum as being in the wrong here too. She can't just announce she's moving house like that and then suddenly they moved. She should give him some notice.

OK, I think I should defend Kurt a little bit. It was not all his fault his father and Finn's mom got together. He might have initially pushed them together, but it was their decision to ultimately start dating and fall in love and move in together, no matter how anyone can manipulate a situation, you can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do anyway.

And I think that Kurt was really trying to be nice trying to fix up his room for Finn, it's not his fault he doesn't know what a straight man likes in room decor. And it must get pretty lonely for him being the only gay boy he knows, and you can't help how you feel about someone, even if you know that person will never love you the same way.

As for Finn, he shouldn't have said what he said, but things slip out in anger and at least he appologized in the end. I don't think Finn is gay, but the thought might have crossed is mind, espercially after his first time with a girl wasn't as fulfilling for him as he thought it would be if you remember a few episodes back, and just the thought that he could be gay probably terrorized him and so he lashed out.

And I think that the point of this episode was missed. That it's OK to be different, to show your individuality and to be who you are and not what others perceive you to be.

That's just my oppinion.

this option totally summed up how i felt. finn deserved to get some sense talked into him. he was pretty out of line with the whole calling kurts things "faggy" cuz just like burt said, its such a derogatory word. but finn, well i can understand where he was coming from, he was put in a situation he did not want to be in. he was getting sick and tired of kurt crushing on him and putting him in uncomfortable situations, he didnt even want to move in in the first place and he was trying to figure out how to handle ridicule and judgment, something finn isn't use to. speaking subjectively here, i think Finn acted like every other teenager would, confused and frustrated. he was out of line, but i mean he's human, it doesn't make him a jerk, it just goes to show he has a lot to learn and a lot of growing up to do. that whole storyline with him kurt and burt made me love this show even more cuz seriously it shows real issues and characterizations, things kids really go through. and finn standing up for kurt in the end made me really love him. of course he was out of line, but deffo not a jerk, i think he's kind of awsome, as are burt and kurt ♥

i think he was a jerk in the "faggy" scene, but i don't think he was a jerk in the rest of it, particually at the end, and at least he knew that he was wrong, if anyone's a jerk and deserved to get screamed at it's those two incredibly annoying footballers that kept bullying everyone, they wern't even sorry, haha but they got owned at the end

It was way overreacted.

NOOO?

im sorry i did he was treated wrong !!

Think sorry for Finn? I DID cry! But that was because I felt sorry for Kurt! And some tears because I loved what Burt did!

Finn was way out of line with what he said BUT Kurt was in the wrong too!