Of all of my peeves, this definitely bugs me the most. It's like if you're gonna pick a fight then at least have the decency to keep your original post. Don't call someone names, wait for them to fight back, and then 편집 your 코멘트 to subtract the insults so 당신 can look like 당신 didn't do anything wrong. It's just the most cowardly and kind of annoying thing to do. At least when I throw an insult I have the balls to leave it up and the respect to acknowledge that it may have not been the nicest thing to say and be up front about my snarkiness. People like that are why I have to screencap any debates, even the small ones I get into, in case they escalate and the person is puts on the victim act. It's like grow up and stop playing innocent. It's just the most annoying thing in the world to me when someone does that and then a third party person--who has no knowledge of the situation--comes in and starts chewing me out accusing me of being the only person being rude because someone just couldn't stick to the truth and hid behind the 편집 feature.
I know, I know, butthurt alert! The alarms are going off. Lengthy introduction rant aside I have a few reasons as to why I think people shouldn't abuse the 편집 button.
First and foremost, I always seen the 편집 button as a 'lord help me I made a typo!' button. I've always viewed it as a way to avoid embarrassing spelling and grammar mistakes 당신 made the first time around. Not as a malicious 'mu ha ha ha, I'm gonna make this guy look like a real douche' button. I feel like it's almost abusing the 편집 feature to go back to an argument 또는 an insult 당신 typed and 편집 it out for the sake of making yourself look good. I'm all cool with someone taking an insult out of a 코멘트 because they decided that didn't want to offend a person after an impulsive spur of the moment anger rant. I'm also all for going back and rewording something if it came off 더 많이 offensive than 당신 initially intended. But if your doing it just to make your opponent look bad, then isn't that kind of just weak?
Which brings me to point two. It's rather cowardly to pick a fight with someone and then back out in such a way, when things aren't looking to good for you. In real life 당신 can't suck the words back into your mouth, so I think people should grow up and realize that the same is true on the net. While yes, the insult may be gone in a physical sense, but it may 또는 may not still be burning in the other person's mind. Believe it 또는 not, the person typing back to 당신 has feelings too. I understand that arguments and debates get heated, but that's no reason to take the wimpy way out.
Point three; it is annoying as all heck when someone says something like "Liking *insert ship* is wrong and sick" and I (or anyone else) leave a such as "Making 코멘트 like that is rude and disrespectful" and then going back to the 투표 after a 분 또는 so to see that the 코멘트 now reads "I don't have anything against *insert ship* but I don't like it". And then beneath it I have two 또는 three other users telling me to "back off" and "leave leave him/her alone because he/she didn't do anything". That is a load of bull! And the editor knows it. It's like the third party people don't have the real and full story and now 당신 have a mess of people getting mad at you.
Not cool at all. If you're wrong, own up. Have the respect and take the initiative to say 'okay, I was wrong, we were both wrong, I'm sorry.' Don't 편집 your 코멘트 just to slander others 또는 get a user mobbed and bashed.
Last but not least; honestly, depending on the situation 당신 probably won't even have to resort to such a childish method. I personally am really forgiving and really easy to work with. It's easier to apologize 또는 civilly talk things out with me than it is to play silly games like the 'editing game'. Believe it 또는 not most people don't take kindly to being painted as the bad guy, it takes two to fight. I'm gonna be up front--I don't play around--if 당신 get into a heated argument with me, I probably have it screencapped (just because this has happened to me so much. Worry not, I 삭제 it when the issue has passed) and I am not above posting said screencap if I notice editing. I'm not going to let people make a fool of me. And I'm pretty sure there are others who do the same.
That said, it's way easier to just talk it out, unedited. Again, I can't speak for everyone, but I personally am willing to forgive and forget if 당신 just work with me. I think that talking things out with a person 당신 are in a conflict with is much 더 많이 sufficient than playing editing games. Just talking things out tends to revolve stuff and doesn't leave as many 쓴, 쓰라린 feelings. Speaking from experience; I have gotten into some pretty heated debates, the ones who talked it out with me actually ended up on my 프렌즈 list where as the ones who did the editing--while I don't fight with them, there's still tension. I feel discomforted around them, even just leaving my opinion beneath them (even when it has nothing to do with them) because I feel like it might spark something up.
I've also had users apologize to me and then pull that 코멘트 editing thing (or an out right removal of all the bad things they said to me) and it feels like a stab in the back. Like yeah, thanks for saying sorry, but are your really? Talk it out. Don't try to play innocent.
That's pretty much all I have for now. This has been a reoccurring issue I've seen it happen to others and myself. Yes something like this had happened again recently so this was kind of me venting. Maybe some of 당신 agree, maybe not. Feel free to leave a comment, I'm open to discussion.
I know, I know, butthurt alert! The alarms are going off. Lengthy introduction rant aside I have a few reasons as to why I think people shouldn't abuse the 편집 button.
First and foremost, I always seen the 편집 button as a 'lord help me I made a typo!' button. I've always viewed it as a way to avoid embarrassing spelling and grammar mistakes 당신 made the first time around. Not as a malicious 'mu ha ha ha, I'm gonna make this guy look like a real douche' button. I feel like it's almost abusing the 편집 feature to go back to an argument 또는 an insult 당신 typed and 편집 it out for the sake of making yourself look good. I'm all cool with someone taking an insult out of a 코멘트 because they decided that didn't want to offend a person after an impulsive spur of the moment anger rant. I'm also all for going back and rewording something if it came off 더 많이 offensive than 당신 initially intended. But if your doing it just to make your opponent look bad, then isn't that kind of just weak?
Which brings me to point two. It's rather cowardly to pick a fight with someone and then back out in such a way, when things aren't looking to good for you. In real life 당신 can't suck the words back into your mouth, so I think people should grow up and realize that the same is true on the net. While yes, the insult may be gone in a physical sense, but it may 또는 may not still be burning in the other person's mind. Believe it 또는 not, the person typing back to 당신 has feelings too. I understand that arguments and debates get heated, but that's no reason to take the wimpy way out.
Point three; it is annoying as all heck when someone says something like "Liking *insert ship* is wrong and sick" and I (or anyone else) leave a such as "Making 코멘트 like that is rude and disrespectful" and then going back to the 투표 after a 분 또는 so to see that the 코멘트 now reads "I don't have anything against *insert ship* but I don't like it". And then beneath it I have two 또는 three other users telling me to "back off" and "leave leave him/her alone because he/she didn't do anything". That is a load of bull! And the editor knows it. It's like the third party people don't have the real and full story and now 당신 have a mess of people getting mad at you.
Not cool at all. If you're wrong, own up. Have the respect and take the initiative to say 'okay, I was wrong, we were both wrong, I'm sorry.' Don't 편집 your 코멘트 just to slander others 또는 get a user mobbed and bashed.
Last but not least; honestly, depending on the situation 당신 probably won't even have to resort to such a childish method. I personally am really forgiving and really easy to work with. It's easier to apologize 또는 civilly talk things out with me than it is to play silly games like the 'editing game'. Believe it 또는 not most people don't take kindly to being painted as the bad guy, it takes two to fight. I'm gonna be up front--I don't play around--if 당신 get into a heated argument with me, I probably have it screencapped (just because this has happened to me so much. Worry not, I 삭제 it when the issue has passed) and I am not above posting said screencap if I notice editing. I'm not going to let people make a fool of me. And I'm pretty sure there are others who do the same.
That said, it's way easier to just talk it out, unedited. Again, I can't speak for everyone, but I personally am willing to forgive and forget if 당신 just work with me. I think that talking things out with a person 당신 are in a conflict with is much 더 많이 sufficient than playing editing games. Just talking things out tends to revolve stuff and doesn't leave as many 쓴, 쓰라린 feelings. Speaking from experience; I have gotten into some pretty heated debates, the ones who talked it out with me actually ended up on my 프렌즈 list where as the ones who did the editing--while I don't fight with them, there's still tension. I feel discomforted around them, even just leaving my opinion beneath them (even when it has nothing to do with them) because I feel like it might spark something up.
I've also had users apologize to me and then pull that 코멘트 editing thing (or an out right removal of all the bad things they said to me) and it feels like a stab in the back. Like yeah, thanks for saying sorry, but are your really? Talk it out. Don't try to play innocent.
That's pretty much all I have for now. This has been a reoccurring issue I've seen it happen to others and myself. Yes something like this had happened again recently so this was kind of me venting. Maybe some of 당신 agree, maybe not. Feel free to leave a comment, I'm open to discussion.
Ok so I'm sooo sorry If I waited to long to do the story I SWEAR! that i'm going to do it tomorrow i'm so sorry. I have to many problems and i'm very emotional the last couple of days and it's a big problem with my family and i'm very sad but i really will start the story I swear! I cant really tell u about my family issues but I need someone to talk to. But on the other hand if 당신 can be my co-writer i would 사랑 that but 당신 have to be good like not basic, 당신 know how when people push the story too fast...
Example for some of 당신 dumbass trifflin 나귀, 엉덩이 cunt 나귀, 엉덩이 bitches: Yolanda dated this boy named Prince then he bullied her then he liked her afterwards the got married had a baby named Rolanda and Prince got hit 의해 a car trying to see an old friend a 십자가, 크로스 the 거리 2 years later Yolanda sold Rolanda n got on crack,died, and lived happily ever after with Prince in heaven.
Example for some of 당신 dumbass trifflin 나귀, 엉덩이 cunt 나귀, 엉덩이 bitches: Yolanda dated this boy named Prince then he bullied her then he liked her afterwards the got married had a baby named Rolanda and Prince got hit 의해 a car trying to see an old friend a 십자가, 크로스 the 거리 2 years later Yolanda sold Rolanda n got on crack,died, and lived happily ever after with Prince in heaven.
ATTENTION: This is just a user opinion's on what could be cool for Fanpop.
1. Customize Profile: Everyone likes to have a nice 프로필 homepage, so my first idea is we have a chance of customize our own profile, with backgrounds, colors, fonts etc...
2. Medal Meter: I think every Fanpopers like to know how much are they far to get a medal on the spot, so my 2nd idea is FP give us the chance to see if we are far 또는 close to get our medal.
3. 프로필 Viewers: How many and what users did check our profile.
4. 코멘트 Reply Notice: Be notice in 당신 업데이트 when someone reply 당신 in a comment.
5. Possibility to Change User name: Sometimes people don't like their user names...a opportunity to change would be nice ;)
Hope 당신 Enjoy It
1. Customize Profile: Everyone likes to have a nice 프로필 homepage, so my first idea is we have a chance of customize our own profile, with backgrounds, colors, fonts etc...
2. Medal Meter: I think every Fanpopers like to know how much are they far to get a medal on the spot, so my 2nd idea is FP give us the chance to see if we are far 또는 close to get our medal.
3. 프로필 Viewers: How many and what users did check our profile.
4. 코멘트 Reply Notice: Be notice in 당신 업데이트 when someone reply 당신 in a comment.
5. Possibility to Change User name: Sometimes people don't like their user names...a opportunity to change would be nice ;)
Hope 당신 Enjoy It