I’ve received a lot of messages about troubles with love, the gender one identifies as…
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in 사랑 with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess 당신 could say that I feel the same way 당신 do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in 사랑 with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view 또는 a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, 당신 end up feeling isolated 의해 different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your 심장 and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept 당신 for who 당신 are, so don’t change.
당신 should pay no attention to those around 당신 and take pride in who 당신 are. But if 당신 let yourself be affected 의해 what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if 당신 get all of those feelings out of 당신 that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that 당신 can’t come to 사랑 yourself for who 당신 are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for 당신 to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but 당신 can’t change for anyone because 당신 only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in 사랑 with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess 당신 could say that I feel the same way 당신 do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in 사랑 with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view 또는 a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, 당신 end up feeling isolated 의해 different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your 심장 and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept 당신 for who 당신 are, so don’t change.
당신 should pay no attention to those around 당신 and take pride in who 당신 are. But if 당신 let yourself be affected 의해 what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if 당신 get all of those feelings out of 당신 that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that 당신 can’t come to 사랑 yourself for who 당신 are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for 당신 to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but 당신 can’t change for anyone because 당신 only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.