I know this is weird but can someone give me advice? pleeze its urgent

my bff self harms and she has told me not to tell anyone which has put me in an awkward position as i want to do something i have no idea what to do pleeze help i have no idea what to do thank 당신 xx
 kayleebabee posted over a year ago
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jedigal1990 said:
wow this is a really urgent situation i would definitly talk to her about it and encourage her to tell someone because she really needs help if she doesn't tell her that 당신 will tell someone because 당신 care about her and then tell her parents 또는 even a guidence counciler 또는 당신 can tell your mom and have her talk to your 프렌즈 mom one thing is for sure 당신 can't stay quite your friend really needs help if 당신 tell she might be mad but at least shell get the help she needs and eventually she will see that the only reason 당신 told was because 당신 cared about her. But i would talk to her about it and let her know yu will tell if she doesn't that way it doesn't seem like 당신 completly went against her at least 당신 told her what 당신 were going to do. I really hope this helps and wish 당신 and your friend the best of luck
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sweet_n_silly said:
self harm is a dangerous and seriuos issue. it's fabulous that u want to stay true to ur promise not to tell, but it's also good that u realized that u need to do something. normally I wouldn't advise this, but u need to tell someome who can help, like ur parents 또는 her parents. if u don't, this could become much 더 많이 serious and u should try ur best to prevent it from getting worse any way u can.
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she just txted me saying she wants to kill herself i am going to tell her mum i think i just dont want to fall out with her as she is in a really difficult place at the 분 her dad was a soldier and he died last 월 she said she wants tro 가입하기 him
kayleebabee posted over a year ago
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wow i can really see that shes in a tough place but 당신 got to know that beng a good friend means letting people know so she gets the help she needs tell her that 당신 are there for her and don't want to go back on your promise but 당신 care for her and want to makes sure shes okay she might be mad for a little while but shell get over it and shell be okay
jedigal1990 posted over a year ago
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oh wow! I had a friend commit suicide last month. make sure her mom knows and, even though she might be mad for a little, at least she'll be alive
sweet_n_silly posted over a year ago
Free_Spirit said:
Wow this is tricky. But i think 당신 should tell someone. It would be better that she be mad at 당신 than her killing herself, cause this is what she will eventually end up doing. But if 당신 want to 당신 could talk to her first and ask why she is doing? What is provoking her? My sister is 프렌즈 with the daughter of the school counsellor and one 일 i had to go to their house after school. And he was talking to us and told us that one 일 a kid came and said they were going to kill himself. He had to breach his promise not to tell anyone this kids secret. I asked him why and he said sometimes to protect people 당신 have to tell their secrets. So iwould suggest, first 당신 go to someone 당신 trust and they can help 당신 with the situation.
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befferz said:
Right now the most important thing 당신 can do is be there for her, when i had that problem, i really counted on my friends, i needed them to understand. don't tell her she's stupid. but don't tell her it's right. she needs to know that your there for her. when she looks worried, 또는 on the edge of harming herself. just walk over to her speak to her in private, and talk it out. Ask her if there is anything 당신 can do. if she gets angry at you, take it. when it's over she'll understand. just look out for her. she will get over it. all she needs right now is a friend to help her along the way
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