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What about me? Why does it always seem that nobody cares about how I feel? :'(

Nobody listens to me. And 의해 nobody, I mean my family. They always ignore everything I say 또는 trying to say. And whenever they do listen to what I'm saying, they end up laughing at what I say. It's so annoying and irritatting. It makes me so angry. It makes me want to swear and I don't even swear because I know God won't like that. Every time I just so happen to say something 랜덤 my mom goes,"AHAHAHA Valerie said this and that!" and she goes telling other folks what stupid thing I say and they end up laughing at me too. I can't stand it when she does that. I'm always telling her in the nicest way and trying to be as calm as I could,"mama, please don't do that." and she says,"ok I won't." and 당신 know what? She doesn't listen. She does it anyway. She did it again today. And I told her the same thing," mama please I told 당신 I do NOT like it when 당신 do that!" but she wasn't listening. She kept telling on me anyways. And now she in there in the living room having a good time watching some movie with my niece and nephews while I'm sitting here all alone in my room just crying and crying my eyes out. Every time I try to tell her how much it bothers me, all she does is fuse at me about it. She doesn't even say sorry about it. She's not the only one who does this. As far as I know, my sister does it, maybe both of my sisters does, granny does it, my cousin use to, but not much anymore. Not because of how it makes me feel. It's because me and her grew up so she must've grown out of it. This has been going on for years. I hated this sense I was a little girl. I'm 20 years old now and they still won't stop. It's like they don't care how it makes me feel. Why does nobody listen to me?! I have feelings too! And family are suppose to understand each others feelings! I 사랑 my family very much but it just makes me sick! What about me, God? Please answer my prayers! Please make them stop laughing at me bacause of the 랜덤 things I say! >:'(
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I would've wrote this on the depression club but I doubt that the peaple from that club would pay any attention to this.
1012jackson posted over a year ago
 1012jackson posted over a year ago
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Carolinaproud26 said:
Well, they don't know 당신 like 당신 do. I mean I don't know you. But already I can tell 당신 are special. And I do care about your feelings. I care about everybody. Because I understand people's feelings truly. I've been through something major big! That some people won't understand. It was tough going through it I mean I blamed myself a while for it. Then I thought my family was going to ignore me for it. Because it was an akward situation. I thought after the situation, is people just using me? Do they even care if they hurt me? Abuse me? Harass me? Anything? If 당신 need anything we can talk send me message I be happy to talk to 당신 bout anything
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natalierg said:
Hmm. Well, first off, I am sorry for everything that has been going on because I know how it can feel to be ignored. Even if 당신 said the most ridiculous thing on the Earth that gives no one any right to make fun of 당신 for it. My mom is very similar to yours in the way that she will say she will stop but continues. What I think 당신 should do is have a family gathering, and make sure everyone who is guilty of teasing 당신 comes. Make everyone sit down and tell them your feelings.
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LGYCE said:
I'm very sorry about your mistreatment, but it says in the Bible that the world hates us. 예수님 is your truest friend, and is always there for you, whether your family is 또는 not. So I can't think anything drastic, but try asking them to read over the Bible. About how we should 사랑 one another as ourselves, and how we should treat others how we wish for them to treat us. Try to help them see that 당신 matter just as much as they do in the eyes of Jesus, and that they should not act that way toward 당신 unless that is how they wish to be treated, in which case, grant their wishes to your heart's desire. And if they still don't stop and apologize, maybe 당신 should start trying for a job, so 당신 can earn money, and live somewhere away from your family. Try making 프렌즈 who will treat 당신 as 당신 deserve and back 당신 up against anyone who doesn't. I hope this helped. Btw Swearing is not a sin, taking the name of the Lord in vain is, but words like shit and fuck and damn are nit sinful to say. So if they help 당신 vent your anger, feel free to swear.
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