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Now, let’s contrast the signs of abusive relationship with the signs of a healthy relationship. So, the following signs are signs of healthy relationships. Now, I’m going to prove that Stefan/Elena are indeed the healthy relationship between the two. Here are the signs of a healthy relationship.

1. Talking and 연기 so that your partner feels 안전한, 안전 and comfortable doing and saying things?

(CHECK. Stefan/Elena always communicate...

I’m so fucking disappointed in episode 3x19. Really.

No offense but, Elena is a bitch. She and Damon made out in the motel behind Stefan’s back! Like, who do 당신 think 당신 are playing with? We thought “It’s always gonna be Stefan.”

Turns out, Elena, 당신 broke our heart. 당신 broke Stefan’s heart.

It really hurts me when I see Stefan sad 또는 emotional. I just have a soft spot for him. That’s all. I think Stefan doesn’t deserve any of this.

For 3x20, 당신 said “I don’t know where we are, what we are, 또는 if we can ever make our way back to each other, but I’m going to the dance...

Stefan and Elena have a true 사랑 story, they have a buildup. From the beginning of the show they had passion and epic written all over them.

Delena 팬 say that they are "boring" because "all they do is 키스 and make out" oh well at least Elena can be true to herself around Stefan and tell him that she loves him, unlike with Damon when she's always scared.

This is what I 사랑 about SE, that they are always there for each other, they feel comfortable with each other, and look like they're two puzzle pieces that fit together perfectly.

If 당신 take Damon and Elena for example, they're two totally...

The argument that Damon is better for Elena because he’ll do anything to keep her alive, even sacrificing her loved ones etc, is quite sad. Elena isn’t an animal that’s going to be extinct. She’s a human being. She can’t have a bodyguard follow her around 24/7, she can’t live her life being told what to do and what decisions to make. She might as well go to prison, because that’s exactly how Damon treats her. Like an object/prisoner, like HIS toy. At the end of the 일 Elena is a grown woman, who’s had 더 많이 happen to her than a middle aged adult. She is capable of making her...