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TheLefteris24 said:
These are my Scores: 9 for Words of Affirmation Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your 사랑 language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I 사랑 you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that 사랑 sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave 당신 shattered and are not easily forgotten. 당신 thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build 당신 up. 6 both for Quality Time and Receiving Gifts a) In Quality Time, nothing says “I 사랑 you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and 칼, 나이프 down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes 당신 feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, 또는 the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else 또는 doing activities together, 당신 deepen your connection with others through sharing time. b) Don’t mistake this 사랑 language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If 당신 speak this language, the perfect gift 또는 gesture shows that 당신 are known, 당신 are cared for, and 당신 are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday 또는 a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to 당신 of someone else's 사랑 and affection for you. 5 for Acts of Service / Kindness Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything 당신 do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he 또는 she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making 더 많이 work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve 당신 out of 사랑 (and not obligation), 당신 feel truly valued and loved. 4 for Physical Touch A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect 또는 abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and 사랑 to you. That's it, pretty much. What I want to say is that it was an expected result but at the same time, I got myself surprised concerning the order of some since there are those that I personally feel myself placing on a higher value than the way these Scores indicate...
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