Ok so on a deeper level... (if that’s ok) What are 당신 really afraid of?

I mean not like a ‘fear’ but as- well I don’t know... (does this make sense?) Like something Specific. I normally am very uncomfortable with these kinds of 질문 but I’m 더 많이 open here. If 당신 don’t want to (I get it) 당신 don’t have to say.
Ex: I have a friend who is afraid of physical contact (even normal things like a hug 또는 a pat on the back) because s/he was beaten as a kid.
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I’m afraid of... Killing people I love. I have these horrible vivid dreams where I kill my friends. I know that I wouldn’t but I’m terrified that I might because I could... I hate it so much
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
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Ah I relate to that. I've had experience with stuff like that, but while I know its hard to, when 당신 get thoughts like those that distress you, try to distract yourself and not linger on it. If 당신 wont, trust yourself. Having the thoughts doesnt make 당신 a bad person, its the action 당신 take
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zanhar1 said:
Change & responsibility. I have a lot of trouble coping with adulthood because I'm such a child at heart.
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That makes a lot of sense. I hate change and if I have responsibility I’m worried about what I might do
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
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I just worry that I won't be able to complete said responsibility.
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
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same
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
legend_of_roxas said:
Well, I am truly terrified of ghosts, but I don't think that is exactly what you're asking.
I am scared, 더 많이 specifically anxious and uncomfortable, with confrontation. If someone is mad at me 또는 I need confront someone I avoid them like the plague.
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That’s hard I bet
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
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confrontations suck
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
kingcesar67 said:
Either my own strength 또는 Abandonment
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Oh yes my own strength...
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
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I can relate. When I was little I was so scared of abandonment that I would have nightmares of my entire family leaving without warning and being left alone in the house.
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
Riku114 said:
I'm terrified of intimacy and attachment with people. Those two are probably the most. I still freak out a bit offline (Im fine online with it) when someone gets close to me to the point I actually get even slightly attached.

Its a work in progress though. I'm getting better at it I think.
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 I'm terrified of intimacy and attachment with people. Those two are probably the most. I still freak out a bit offline (Im fine online with it) when someone gets close to me to the point I actually get even slightly attached. Its a work in progress though. I'm getting better at it I think.
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I’m also like that. IRL I’m scared to become close to someone because I can’t 곰 to lose anyone anymore. I kind of get very protective and attached to people, which is a weird problem to have. Deep down I think that if I let myself 사랑 people, I’ll become to dependent on them and be crushed when once again they leave, like all humans do. Is that kinda like you?
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
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It used to be. As I said, I'm working on it. Back in the past I actually used to hate all humans outside of special ones I choose to be excluded and could not associate myself with people at all regardless of if I wanted to 또는 not cos I saw people as harmful and toxic to both everyone else they meet and to the world. I figured that I couldnt be vulnerable cos it would be stupid to let stupid things have that much of an affect on me. That being said, I kind of got out of that eventually and its just kind of at this point that its just an instinctual one.
Riku114 posted over a year ago
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Oh and between that I couldn't make 프렌즈 since I knew I was going to loose them anyways with time since college and all, so I didnt even bother as sad as it made me. That being said, now I do logically see why its alright to make 프렌즈 and all, but my brain still reacts poorly to being vulnerable.
Riku114 posted over a year ago
Makeupdiva said:
I am afraid of public speaking and speaking on the phone. I can't speak on the phone especially if I don't know the person 또는 they aren't family. I get very nervous and I start to shake. Same thing with public speaking, very nervous and I feel like I would pass out. I've never been good with public speaking. I hated giving oral presentations in High School and would always freak out when it was my turn.
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I start to shake as well when I have to speak publically 또는 use the phone
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
BlindBandit92 said:
Dancing and 노래 in public (when people are actively watching me) And the fear of losing loved ones are primarily my biggest fears.
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I have a fear of losing people too. You’re definitely not alone there. |-/
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
Mauserfan1910 said:
I've never really known how to describe what exactly I'm afraid of. I'm afraid of things like the ocean, outer space, the ranch at night, the future, and the sort of abyssal nature of these things.

I hate feeling stared down 의해 something I can't even look at fully

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That happens to me too.
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
SilentForce said:
I still have nightmares from this song:
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REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted over a year ago
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^I think 당신 mean WRYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY !!!!
SilentForce posted over a year ago
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^ MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted over a year ago
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^ORA ORA ORA ORA ORA ORA ORA ORA ORA ORA ORA DORA DORA DORA DORA DORA DORA THE EXPLOREEEER !!!!!!!!
SilentForce posted over a year ago
wantadog said:
We had a theme regarding this on the 아이콘 Contest and I had listed on there that I have a fear that when I need to speak up and it truly matters, I wouldnt be able to.

Ill go ahead and push that one level deeper and say that I’ve been pretty much pavlovian style conditioned to assume that if I do speak up and it goes against the grain, I will lose something important. Relationships. Privileges(when I was younger), trust, anything. So at this point I dont argue and its very rare to see it because its easier to give in and let the other party have their way rather than face the consequences of having my own view

*an image of something 아니메 but cant be uploaded cuz at work rn*
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I'm also scared of not being able to speak up when I should, because of the consequences that would follow. Not necessarily for the fear of losing something, though, but getting in trouble because it was expected for me to speak up (ex. telling a customer at work that what they want 또는 what they're doing is against our policy). I also have a fear of confrontation and getting yelled at so I would prefer just to let the person do what they want than to have them be angry with me. Having those two fears be applicable in a situation is a nightmare.
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
TheLefteris24 said:
There is a small bunch of things I could say I am afraid of. Some of them have been already mentioned 의해 others. Fearing my own power, losing those that I care about, not being able to express myself properly at a crucial point 또는 support others the way I should, etc.

One that I could particularly go about is the uncertainty over the Bonds I build over the years and how in touch with reality I really am. It is something that was affecting me in the Past for the most part and some of its after-effects are still lingering around. It concerns ''Human Relations''. Do I really know how they are really supposed to feel like? Can I actually reach out to others and have a mutual understanding with them? Do people really feel relating to me? Are people only nice to me just for the sake of making it seem like that? Would others really notice if I was gone? Perhaps, I will come out as boring 또는 end up being betrayed again if I let my guard down. These thoughts and 더 많이 similar ones come often to mind. In the end, I suppose it is the fear of being completely alone and that being something that will never change. The Past will just be repeating itself. Getting my hopes up just to end up getting Betrayed in the end again. That it is impossible to be understood 또는 belong anywhere regardless of how many I find to be around me. While I know that this does not hold true in many cases, these kind of worries are still rooted inside me because of all the negativity I have already experienced. That is the gist of it, pretty much. I guess, it feels like Paranoia / having a Complex about it. I'm working on it just like with other issues of mine and try not to let my stress 또는 depression take over me. Just like with everything else, it needs some time. A bit of readjustment. This is something that I don't usually talk about but at the same time, I do not see a reason why not to. After all, all this, is something that I had ended up speaking about again a while 이전 on this Club so I suppose, it is no shocker for those that have come to know me better and got close to me. Improvement is a vital part of our Lives. A constant strife. Only 의해 confronting and coming to terms with your Past 당신 can go beyond it. I truly believe that !!!!
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 There is a small bunch of things I could say I am afraid of. Some of them have been already mentioned 의해 others. Fearing my own power, losing those that I care about, not being able to express myself properly at a crucial point 또는 support others the way I should, etc. One that I could particularly go about is the uncertainty over the Bonds I build over the years and how in touch with reality I really am. It is something that was affecting me in the Past for the most part and some of its after-effects are still lingering around. It concerns ''Human Relations''. Do I really know how they are really supposed to feel like? Can I actually reach out to others and have a mutual understanding with them? Do people really feel relating to me? Are people only nice to me just for the sake of making it seem like that? Would others really notice if I was gone? Perhaps, I will come out as boring 또는 end up being betrayed again if I let my guard down. These thoughts and 더 많이 similar ones come often to mind. In the end, I suppose it is the fear of being completely alone and that being something that will never change. The Past will just be repeating itself. Getting my hopes up just to end up getting Betrayed in the end again. That it is impossible to be understood 또는 belong anywhere regardless of how many I find to be around me. While I know that this does not hold true in many cases, these kind of worries are still rooted inside me because of all the negativity I have already experienced. That is the gist of it, pretty much. I guess, it feels like Paranoia / having a Complex about it. I'm working on it just like with other issues of mine and try not to let my stress 또는 depression take over me. Just like with everything else, it needs some time. A bit of readjustment. This is something that I don't usually talk about but at the same time, I do not see a reason why not to. After all, all this, is something that I had ended up speaking about again a while 이전 on this Club so I suppose, it is no shocker for those that have come to know me better and got close to me. Improvement is a vital part of our Lives. A constant strife. Only 의해 confronting and coming to terms with your Past 당신 can go beyond it. I truly believe that !!!!
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Wow I’m truly amazed that I have found so many caring people who relate so closely to me! I never would have thought that anyone would go through the same stuff as me 또는 understand me. I 사랑 당신 guys
2ntyoneplts posted over a year ago
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^ That is quite the common feeling. Honestly, it still amazes me how close people have been brought in a Website like this. Being on the Web in general. It is 더 많이 like a small Community at this point. I have seen many other Members who feel the same way. I suppose, I could say that the person who feels like not being able to be understood is the most Relatable actually. 당신 realize this as 당신 go through Life and interact with those around you. Hard but it is something that could be truly embraced at some point. Anyway, same here XD As I have said, looking 앞으로 in getting to know 당신 even 더 많이 !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted over a year ago
CokeTheUmbreon said:
Change. Still coping with that.
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ArcticWolf said:
- Talking to anyone on the phone that isn't a friend/family member
- Talking to a customer and have them mentally reject future visits to my place of work 또는 giving it a bad review because of my awkwardness
- The idea of a paranormal creature being in my house
- Being assigned a front desk/phone shift at work someday
- Disappointing people 의해 not being as far/successful in life as they expected me to be
- Confronting a stranger/customer/my boss/etc. when I know they're wrong
- Getting in trouble for deliberately not confronting someone doing something against the rules/policy because I was too shy
- Having someone I don't know that well be angry with me because they didn't understand I was being sarcastic
- The knowledge that those I'm close to who are significantly older than me (ex. my parents) will most likely die long before me and I'll have to live without them
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Me: every single one of those. #relatable
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Scourgestar said:
1. Losing my loved ones
2. Tornadoes.
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Ah, I forgot about tornadoes.I'm scared of those too.
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
Nick3600 said:
falling asleep




and then waking up again
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