Is talking behind other persons/individuals' backs basically considered a big no-no overall?

If so, is it basically because sooner 또는 later they are going to AND will find out what the others have said about them behind their backs?
 Mike88Al27 posted over a year ago
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TheLefteris24 said:
Are 당신 asking only because of the consequences that might be brought if 당신 get find out 또는 you're questioning the morality of those actions as well regardless of the outcome?
I believe it depends. Personally, if I happen to have an issue with people and talk about it with third parties, that means I have no problem saying it to the their faces as well. Otherwise, I won't bring it up at all as I don't see the need. Pretty much, it is all about the intent. What exactly are 당신 saying behind someone's back? First of all, did 당신 already attempted to talk to him/her and found it pointless? Are 당신 worried about said person and doing it because 당신 care? Are 당신 that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis 또는 not? Is it because 당신 want to harm that person 의해 creating unnecessary drama? When it comes to the last one, yes, it is considered a big no-no and shows a pretty negative side to your Character. Besides, if you're too caught up with others you'll never 옮기기 앞으로 yourself !!!!
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 Are 당신 asking only because of the consequences that might be brought if 당신 get find out 또는 you're questioning the morality of those actions as well regardless of the outcome? I believe it depends. Personally, if I happen to have an issue with people and talk about it with third parties, that means I have no problem saying it to the their faces as well. Otherwise, I won't bring it up at all as I don't see the need. Pretty much, it is all about the intent. What exactly are 당신 saying behind someone's back? First of all, did 당신 already attempted to talk to him/her and found it pointless? Are 당신 worried about said person and doing it because 당신 care? Are 당신 that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis 또는 not? Is it because 당신 want to harm that person 의해 creating unnecessary drama? When it comes to the last one, yes, it is considered a big no-no and shows a pretty negative side to your Character. Besides, if you're too caught up with others you'll never 옮기기 앞으로 yourself !!!!
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BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
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"Are 당신 that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis 또는 not? " I think that this is super important and isn't something a lot of people remember!
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
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^ Indeed. There can be various factors that people put aside. Consideration is needed !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted over a year ago
Riku114 said:
Its because doing so can easily create false rumors and/or perpetuate an issue to be something much bigger than what it originally was when it could have easily been cut short 의해 talking to the person directly / being honest.

Plus it makes 당신 super fake and, as 당신 said, they are likely going to find out sooner 또는 later.
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Mauserfan1910 said:
I've beat people up for that shit. If 당신 don't have the balls to say it to their face, don't say it at all
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Also if 당신 don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all
Mike88Al27 posted over a year ago
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I disagree with that one. Sometimes 당신 have to tell a 암캐, 암 캐 she's a bitch. Just do it to her face
Mauserfan1910 posted over a year ago
zanhar1 said:
I think it depends; if someone said something really rude to 당신 I think 당신 have the right to go 집 and vent about it to someone else. But when the gossip starts then there's a problem 또는 if the person did literally nothing to you.

Of course I prefer to either talk if out with the person 또는 say it to their face. If not I usually just keep it to myself.

As far as it getting back to the person, let me tell 당신 a thing; this asshole took an 기사 of mine from this site and trash talked it on a website I never even heard of. I found that shit and 당신 better believe I ripped that person a new one in a response 기사 and then linked them to it.

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BlindBandit92 said:
Case 의해 case thing honestly. Generally speaking if 당신 do that 당신 can seem fake but there are sometimes it's valid and/or useful for the situation. But being honest with 당신 if there's a shithead. I am not going to care if I talk behind them 또는 in front of them. Hell I'll talk on the side of them just to be funny. Unless I know doing such will have an effect I do not want. I wouldn't care in reference to a shithead. Otherwise if you're talking behind someone's back to be a shithead for no other reason than just being a shithead it is definitely a problem.
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I'll talk on the side of them lmao. I like that.
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
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BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
Nick3600 said:
it's completely ok if theyre deaf
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