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I found something on my friend's 페이스북

My friend left her 페이스북 logged on on my laptop so I decided to have a quick snout through her messages with her and my friend who I recently fell out with (just to see if they said anything about me) And I found a heck of alot of messages slagging me off! From both of them!!! I couldn't help but cry! They were talking about how I'm such a bad friend and so annoying, they were 글쓰기 MASSIVE paragraphs full of hate, I couldn't help but cry. I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me! I've had sleepless night due to texting her all night when she had suicidal thoughts. I've never had a true friend and I thought she was, I give up on everyone! I've spent so much time on her! She's always come 1st. I just can't believe she would do this to me!:( I want to tell her about it to sort it out but it's kinda my fault for hacking her facebook.... what do I do?
HELP! :'(
 EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
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neonClouds said:
Find some new friends, no good can come from remaining 프렌즈 with someone who secretly hates you. Don't say anything to her either, no insults 또는 backlash, just settle things peacefully.
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Okay, thankyou :)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
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Sounds like a good idea.
Simmeh posted over a year ago
EgoMouse said:
Ouch, that sucks. I would make new 프렌즈 immediately. Ditch her. People don't really change easily. I don't feel really comfortable talking about people behind their backs, but most of my female 프렌즈 and gay male 프렌즈 do that. Even joking wise, its kinda hard. It takes a huge lack of respect to do something like that. Feel happy that you're a good friend that would help a friend through suicide, but don't ever feel bad about yourself because your friend is an asshole. Please don't give up on people because of her, not everyone's an arse, but a lot are.
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Thankyou so much! I went on her account again this morning and found 더 많이 messages slagging me off, I think I will ditch her tbh thank you:)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
Bridget_J said:
First off, 당신 did a good thing to save her life and 당신 should always remember that. 당신 are an amazing friend and that is most important.
Second, 당신 could try and talk to her, not even mention Facebook. Just start with something like "hey i feel like 당신 are not being a true friend, that 당신 have not been as nice to me, that we are not as close." Then see what she says and if 당신 still really want to talk to her just try and steer the conversation to her not being a good friend.
당신 are an amazing friend, and try to find a new friend maybe. I can tell 당신 are the kind of person everyone wants as a friend.
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That's a brilliant idea! I will do that right now thank 당신 so much and she doesn't think I'm a great friend but thankyou that really made me smile
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
SeeUV3 said:
I know the feeling I thought I finally found a good friend but once they got a boyfriend they showed their true colors.... She started ignoring me and moving away from me saying how her boyfriend is the only thing that counts and that I am nothing to her . She even rubbed the fact I had a crush on her in my face 의해 saying "ya know I have a bf so 당신 are JUST a friend " Meanwhile she said she liked me back ! I even kissed her once (she didn't 옮기기 away and she blushed and smiled and hugged me so I am assuming it was ok) And we got into two big fights calling each other name after nam screaming at each other I just wanted her to talk to me for once and to realize that I care I STAYED UP ALL NIGHT TALKING HER OUT OF SLITING HER WRIST and she says that I am a snobby know it all and that I never did anything to help her!!! Now we don't talk at all....
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Wow, that's horrible! 당신 seem like a lovely person, don't let her get 당신 down she obviously doesn't know what she's lost, message me if 당신 ever wanna talk? Looks like we have a lot in common....
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
sarabeara said:
I've saved her from suicide and this is how she repays me!

Erm, that's definitely not something to be mad about. 당신 saved a person's life and you're a great person for it, no need to be upset over her not repaying 당신 for it.

Anyways, like another person suggested, definitely find some new friends. 당신 sound like a great, dedicated person so I'm sure you'll find better 프렌즈 someday. Don't lose hope 또는 be hurt. Some people are just immature and don't understand what a great thing they have until it's gone. I'm sure they'll realize their mistake after 당신 find better friends.
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Okay thankyou
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
summermia_ said:
First of all, do not get her back, i know 당신 probably werent in the first place but still do not. Two wrongs don't make a right and it wont help anyone. 초 of all, its very honorable of 당신 to help her with her internal struggles(: Lastly just come up to her and talk to her about it, get her side of the story and then take action, 당신 never know what was going on, 당신 always have to be careful with these kind of things. I mean for example what if, like 당신 did, some one just hacked her account 또는 something. Good luck and I hope 당신 get amazing friends(:
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Good idea thanks
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
Zeppie said:
I relate to this so much (except for the 페이스북 snooping).

I had a so called best friend who I cared for so much, was the only one there for her, stayed up with her for hours talking to her when she was suicidal for 5 years when her own parents didn't even do shit, I had to be like a mother to her. Then she repays me 의해 slagging me off too, calling me a bad friend and always putting me down to make herself feel better.

All I can say is confront her, see where it goes, but ultimately 옮기기 on, hold your head up high, 당신 are an awesome person and they are not worth your time if they said such things. Don't let them walk over 당신 again because it will kill your self esteem. NEVER try to people-please. Learned that the hard way.
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I'm so sorry 당신 went through that, 당신 didn't deserve that! And thankyou very much, I'm gonna listen to your 조언 (as you've had experience) and confront her and find new 프렌즈 thanks again :)
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
kpop4everlover said:
You're an amazing friend , we should have 더 많이 people on earth like 당신 , your friend is not a true friend , if they talk behind your back 또는 hate 당신 secretly. 당신 saved her from suicide , wow what a friend she is to be doing that to you. She is just...wow , just leave her because she doesn't deserve 당신 helping her then talking behind your back , if she doesn't tell the truth just leave her. Find a new friend , since everyday is a new 일 and 당신 can have a fresh start! Don't let one person make 당신 really upset and sad. 당신 have lots of time to find a true friend , there are so many people in the world , not just her so be strong and 당신 will surely find a true friend like yourself!
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Awh that really made me smile thankyou so much :3 And okay good adivice, thanks! :D
EmLuvsSprinkles posted over a year ago
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