i need 조언 from nice, considerate ppl here plz & DONT CRITISIZE MY TYPING its faster

srry im about 2 dump my problems on u ppl but i think my mom likes my lil sis 더 많이 we have this new stupid fucking attitude jar now & about 90% of them bother me & ive always had an attitude -cries-im srry im not the perfect daughter ik u want mom I H8T MY MOM SHE H8TS ME NOW JUST LOCK ME IN THE SHIT SMELLING alo smells like smoke cuz my dad smokes down there PIT KNOWN AS THE BASEMENT i wanna live with my grandma now but she wont let me shes within walking distance ive threatened 2 run away but i never did plz give me 조언 )'=>
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she thinks the attitude jar will improve my attitude but it just makes my attitude worse
animal_luva1234 posted over a year ago
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been there, done that. just sorta put yourself in icoaltion, shell catch on eventually.
Lennys_Girl posted over a year ago
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no she won't
animal_luva1234 posted over a year ago
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If 당신 decide to run away, don't go into the woods at night.
Simmeh posted over a year ago
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Max277 said:
She doesn't like/love your sister anymore than she loves/likes you. Yes. We all have attitudes, no one is perfect. And if she's looking for a "perfect" child, she is not going to get one, because (like I said before) no one is perfect, why wont she let 당신 live with your grandma? If 당신 feel uncomfortable there, then why doesn't she just let u stay with your grandma?
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BabyBlud said:
I know exactly what you're going through. My mum loved my little sister a lot 더 많이 then me, sometimes i think she still does. She would always stick up for her even when she was in the wrong, would never listen to me and always gave in to my sister when i was told no.
You're 14, don't run away. It will be the worst decision of your life. I ran away, i spent 2 years on the streets doing drugs, being dependent on alcohol to keep warm and doing things i am not proud of just to make a couple of quid to get something to eat. For the past 4 years i have had a steady relationship, have a 집 and a little boy of my very own who i adore. I do not want 당신 to go through the same shite i did back then, it was absolutely terrible and i fear i will go back there.
1. 당신 have nowhere to go indefinately, a friend may put 당신 up for a few days 또는 weeks, but after that what's your plan?
2. 당신 are still in school, 당신 have no grades, no experience, how will 당신 support yourself if 당신 can't get a job to earn money?
3. living on the streets 또는 with "friends" can be very dangerous business, 당신 could get hurt, mugged, even raped and killed. DO NOT RUN AWAY.

As i've gotten older and a mother myself i now understand what your mother is thinking. Your sister is younger than you, 당신 are the adult, 당신 are supposed to know what is what, what the rules are and how to adhere to them, to be teaching your younger sister 의해 example.

If 당신 feel the way 당신 do, 당신 should sit 당신 mum down and talk to her about it. She will listen, she will understand and 당신 can figure out a way to deal with it 의해 compromising with each other.


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i would never run away i packed a bag then i threatened 2 run away just 2 piss her off
animal_luva1234 posted over a year ago
egyptprincess7 said:
No offense but I am having a bit of a hard time understanding you. Okay,so your mom likes your younger sister 더 많이 and 당신 always had an attitude and 당신 feel sorry that 당신 aren't the perfect daughter. 당신 hate your mother and apparently she hates you. 당신 want to live with your grandma but she (I am assuming your mom) doesn't let 당신 even though she is walking distance from you.

I think 당신 need to talk to your mom and tell her your feelings. Also,you THINK she likes your little sister more. She might not. But really...talk to your mother.
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i won't actually run away when i threatened 2 do it 2 piss my mom off
animal_luva1234 posted over a year ago
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I don't think it's a good idea to threaten to do it just to annoy your mother. 당신 really need to talk to her.
egyptprincess7 posted over a year ago
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UGH....LOGIC & REASON I H8T IT -sighs-ur right tho
animal_luva1234 posted over a year ago
8theGreat said:
I think 당신 should try talking to her, openly and honestly, and listen to her. A lot of things can be settled through talking and trying to understand the other person.
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JaseKS said:
Eugh I feel your pain. My entire family practically worships my little sister and every time I even start to open my mouth I get shut down almost immediately. (and people wonder why I don't talk often).

The best 조언 I can give 당신 is either:

a. Try to approach your mother, taking extra special care to avoid sarcastic phrases and calmly state how 당신 feel. If she interrupts 당신 to argue, just listen -don't start yelling, just hear what she has to say, and respond as maturely as 당신 can manage (I know it's really difficult, trust me, I do, but if 당신 start screaming at her she's not going to listen and nine chances out of ten you'll cause her to respond childishly and then 당신 just have a big mess). Hopefully if you're able to communicate your feelings and explain that your sarcasm/attitude is just a part of who 당신 are, then maybe she'll be a bit 더 많이 lenient.

b. Just stop giving a damn about what she thinks altogether.

c. Talk to your grandmother and see if she's willing to let 당신 stay and maybe even get her to talk to your mother.
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-777- said:
I know 당신 probably don't want any religious answer, but I gotta put one. I don't have any siblings, but I can kinda sense how it feels for you. Things like these just communication with your mom and God. You're probably wondering, "What does God have to do with this?". Well, first off, He's involved with everything! Second, He can help 당신 with these any kind of situation. Just pray and ask for help with it. I can kinda sense others personality and their feelings, and I think 당신 just naturally have attitude. My mom has it, and it just brings out her angry/grumpy side most of the time. 당신 might have it but I don't know. Like I said, communication is most important in this certain situation. Just talk to you're mom and sister about it and they should realize what's up and hopefully it should slowly get better if 당신 just keep talking. God will help 당신 out, He helps everyone out.

Again, I'm sorry to be that one guy to get religious. I hope things get better with your family and I'll also pray for you.

God Bless!
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idc if u put a religious answer imma Christian i did pray last night quietly i pray 4 all my problems again imma Christian
animal_luva1234 posted over a year ago
Lennys_Girl said:
when I had to go through this stuff (I still am) its important to remember that even if your parents really don't like you, theres always gonna be someone out there who does. maybe its your best friend 또는 that guy 당신 have a thing for at school. and if 당신 were to run away, think about what 당신 would be doing to them. just stand your ground and fight your feelings! but whatever 당신 do, don't run away. just tell your mom. I know im going from one thing to another, but im just trying to make a point and doing a terrible job at it. yeah, but still. here, to make 당신 feel better, heres a picture of len.
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 when I had to go through this stuff (I still am) its important to remember that even if your parents really don't like you, theres always gonna be someone out there who does. maybe its your best friend 또는 that guy 당신 have a thing for at school. and if 당신 were to run away, think about what 당신 would be doing to them. just stand your ground and fight your feelings! but whatever 당신 do, don't run away. just tell your mom. I know im going from one thing to another, but im just trying to make a point and doing a terrible job at it. yeah, but still. here, to make 당신 feel better, heres a picture of len.
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cute
animal_luva1234 posted over a year ago
summer2987 said:
Well when I had a mom , she never particularly liked one of us 더 많이 . My dad also never did either . And I think that it's rude and disrespectful to your parents to want to 옮기기 with your grandma . 당신 parents 사랑 당신 and moving would just make them feel how 당신 feel right now .
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