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Help! I need 조언 on how to tell my non christian bf that I won't have sex until I'm married

Yes, I'm posting this in 더 많이 than one spot because I need some help. I don't expect to actually find real 조언 on this spot though, but it's worth a try... It doesn't matter whether you're christian 또는 not, I want as much 조언 as I can.

Hi, I'm a 20 years old christian and I've been dating a guy who's not christian for about a month. Whenever we're together we cuddle and 키스 and I can see that he wants us to go further and have sex (which is the most normal thing for a couple nowadays), but even if I also want to, I always stop it there because I don't want to have sex until I'm married.

How can I tell him in the smoothest possible way? I just don't want him to be mad at me. If he can't stand this and wants to break up, that's okay because this is important for my beliefs but I just don't want him to get angry... We haven't talked about religion at all yet.
 Vertigo42 posted over a year ago
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herpinaderpson said:
Just go ahead and tell him right away.
If he actually loves you, he will understand. If he pesters 당신 about having sex, maybe it's the time to find another guy.
I also am non-christian, and if I were a guy, I would respect my gf.
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posted over a year ago 
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That's almost exactly what I was going to say.
Hamuko posted over a year ago
summer2987 said:
just go up too him and say

"bitch 당신 aint getting non of dis till theres a damn ring on my finger . "

and if he starts with that " but babe i 사랑 당신 "

slap him , and slap him hard , because if he tries to stop 당신 from doing what 당신 think is right , 또는 what 당신 think is comfortable then he does'nt 사랑 당신 at all .


easy as pie .
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posted over a year ago 
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being an illiterate 암캐, 암 캐 101
polarwagon15 posted over a year ago
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summer2987 posted over a year ago
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no need to cuss .
summer2987 posted over a year ago
mish_mish said:
tell him 당신 dont wanna do it before marriage....and if he's only with u for sex...well then good riddance!
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posted over a year ago 
sarabeara said:
First off, I commend 당신 on your resolve and sticking to your beliefs.

Now for the 조언 part. Other than honesty and trust, communication is the most important thing in a relationship. Just be direct with him and tell him how you're feeling. If he doesn't respect your beliefs and gets angry then he's a douche and 당신 should be glad 당신 found out the type of person he is. 당신 should probably have this talk with him sooner rather than later, because 당신 don't want him to feel as if 당신 were leading him on 또는 anything.
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posted over a year ago 
MineTurtle said:
Just say 'no'! Yeah, I know it's easier said than done, but it will be worth it.
Any guy that truly loves you, will respect that wish and wait.
If he refuses to respect your wish, then the relationship's not worth it.
I know that sounds harsh, but if 당신 keep going, it could hurt the both of you. (Physically, spiritually and emotionally).
Hope that helps!
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posted over a year ago 
CameronLovesNny said:
dude if ur bf only wants sex than just wait until God works his mysterious ways to find a perfect bf for u so yeah pray tht ur bf will understand and tht he will not pressure u into having sex with him thts just wrong tht he keeps asking u n not understanding also i'm a satanist so yeah i am a satanist a good one
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posted over a year ago 
zanhar1 said:
Just tell him how 당신 feel. It's your body and your religion 당신 get to decide when you're ready. If he loves 당신 he will understand and respect your decision.
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posted over a year ago 
boytoy_84 said:
See my answer :
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See my answer : http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/sex-and-sexuality/answers/show/479251/help-how-tell-non-christian-boyfriend-dont-want-sex-until-im-married
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