How do 당신 deal with this situation?

I was talking to my ex-boyfriend (and my love) today and he was getting pissy. He has been for a while to me and I've been going threw depression for months. During and after my relationship with him, I talked to him about committing suicide. Now, he said "He's done dealing with it anymore". He's called me a 암캐, 암 캐 the other day, too. He said we could be 프렌즈 after he broke up with me, but I don't know anymore. It's seems almost as if he hates me.

Also, this is serious, so no smart-ass comments.
 brittanyloves posted over a year ago
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Shadowmarioking said:
Hmm...
Well, suicide is actually a very serious topic to bring up in a conversation. I mean, think about it. Suicide is practically a person taking their life out of their choice. It's their choice that they want to die. Now, sometimes people will associate suicide as a plea for attention; to be noticed 의해 someone. There was a 질문 about suicide on here a couple days 이전 that a select few people thought was completely made up, so it's not a shock to see how your ex is reacting to this. Perhaps he thinks you're joking 또는 that you're too gloomy to speak to if you've talked about committing suicide. He's probably overreacting to the whole "Suicide and depression" thing. With the feelings he's showing to you, there is a possibility that 당신 will feel worse instead of better. Anger and hate can really disrupt a peaceful environment, and in your case with your depression, anger is not something 당신 want to receive, especially from someone 당신 love.

I encourage 당신 get better and perhaps speak with your ex about his attitude and how he needs to change it if he really cares about 당신 and wants 당신 to get better. If he continues to show his anger, there is no point in keeping him as a friend. And, even though I realize it might be hard, perhaps 당신 should 옮기기 on from him. If he wants to help you, he should then try to encourage some sort of happiness and joy into 당신 instead of showing 당신 anger.

All beings on this planet want happiness and not suffering. I hope that 당신 get through this alright and stronger than 당신 were before.
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Thank you, that helped a lot
brittanyloves posted over a year ago
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^You're welcome.
Shadowmarioking posted over a year ago
cassie-1-2-3 said:
It's very possible that he thought 당신 were trying to make him feel guilty for breaking up with you. Like 당신 were trying to trick him into getting back together just to stop 당신 from killing yourself.

It's a very tricky topic to talk about with someone. Especially if that someone is a large contributer to how you're feeling.

What 당신 can do to fix it is to take the time pull yourself together every time before 당신 try to talk to him so 당신 don't come accross as desperate 또는 out of control. Tell him you're sorry, not for being depressed but for saying things that may frighten him, and ask him if he's willing to talk to 당신 about it every once in a while. 당신 can understand why it would make him uncomfortable, right? Depression has a depressing effect on 당신 and your loved ones, unfortunately. As long as 당신 show him that you're willing to try to feel good around him, he probably won't be so upset about it.
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Thanks for the 조언
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cutie611 said:
forget abt it! k maybe u cant do it then try to turn positive!! k dont do what i just said maybe try im already trying to deal a little prob like that abt my cuzin....
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