Why is it a big deal to ask if someone is a virgin?

Why do 당신 yell at and insult people who ask if you're a virgin here?
Why is it so personal and why does it have to be a secret?
Are people supposed to be ashamed of being a virgin, 또는 not being a virgin?

I think 당신 guys insulting anyone who asks is just showing that 당신 think people should be ashamed 또는 being 또는 not being a virgin. Is that what you're trying to do?

If you're going to start out 의해 saying "This isn't the seX spot!!!! blah blah blah you're stupid and inappropriate" then I'm not going to read your answer.
랜덤 is random. Virginity is random.
Discussing how to have sex in detail is inappropriate. Saying you've never had sex is not.
 youknowit101 posted over a year ago
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
I don't know, it's not a big deal.

If 당신 feel like it's too personal, just don't share. There's no reason for 당신 to prevent other people from sharing.
Same applies to ALL questions.
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posted over a year ago 
laura071197 said:
Its so private because noone has 2 know what I do 또는 don't. It isn't about beibg ashamed of something. And sometimes, its just the way its asked and who is asking.
I think the only person that should know that, is the person that's gonna do something about it.
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posted over a year ago 
BlindBandit92 said:
The way I see it. People are just embarrassed to admit they are a virgin. And in response to that they sometimes lash out at other people. They can clearly ignore the 질문 but some don't and want to put their "two cents" in to say the least. I don't think they are implying it's bad to be a virgin. There's quite a few people who don't mind being virgins.

I do disagree with insulting people who ask such a 질문 about virginity if they don't want to answer then they shouldn't.

But 당신 are correct if someone ask are 당신 a virgin they get insulted alot. I think it's somewhat equatable to the 질문 to some females "how old are you". I've never understood that. Quite a few girls get upset if 당신 even ask that and they start saying 당신 shouldn't ask that of a lady. I really think that's stupid. There's nothing wrong with that 질문 either yet people get offensive.

In short I believe the people who insulted the person asking that 질문 quite possibly might be insecure about themselves in that certain subject and they lash out. That could be the reason why they do that.
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posted over a year ago 
botchfromhell said:
Its none of your buisness?
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posted over a year ago 
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your right
coriann posted over a year ago
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Exactly!
sammers77 posted over a year ago
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Well yeah well its kind of impolite to ask but i agree its even ruder to insult the asker
botchfromhell posted over a year ago
8theGreat said:
Several people find it to be a personal matter that shouldn't be asked, while others don't. All of it is simply a matter of opinion.
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posted over a year ago 
coriann said:
i just don't feel comfortable with the question.
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posted over a year ago 
dracofan001 said:
omg nobody said it wasn't random! its just personal! i mean 당신 don't go around telling 랜덤 strangers these things! some people might be ashamed on here of themselves for something related to that and they feel bad about themselves when there asked so deal with it! 당신 wouldn't go up to some stranger and ask this! no that is wrong! SO FUCK OFF BRO!
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posted over a year ago 
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exactly
coriann posted over a year ago
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If 당신 feel that way, keep it to yourself. Don't lash out at the person asking, and don't lash out at the people who don't feel ashamed of answering.
cassie-1-2-3 posted over a year ago
dreamcatcher321 said:
well...it is your personal life. and strangers wanting to know about your personal life....thats called a stalker.
its my personal life. and i don't have to share it if i don't want too.
deal with it.
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LOL *a stalker*
coriann posted over a year ago
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:P
coriann posted over a year ago
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Indeed.
cassie-1-2-3 posted over a year ago
Lovehinagurl44 said:
Some people don't like to tell their personal business. I don't like that 질문 either. I don't care if people ask on here though.
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posted over a year ago 
InvaderStickly said:
I know I'm only 12 and I'm young, but if I were in school, I would be PROUD to be a virgin.
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so it doesen't matter if your proud, the 질문 still sucks :P
coriann posted over a year ago
adultswimperson said:
Because others don't need to know about people's sex life.

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posted over a year ago 
cre8tive2114 said:
cuz why would we share that infomation to some 랜덤 person... 또는 anyone if we dont want too
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