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should I care/worry about my boyfriend's mother not liking me?

We're both 15, we both really 사랑 each other and we're very serious. I've been over to his house about 5 times and all of those times, his mom seemed fine. She told me she was upfront and she would say if I ever needed to talk to someone, I can talk to her and told me not to be shy around her. She even gave me gifts and such. I was incredibly sweet, polite, and I always have my manners. I gave her loads of respect and we would talk like normal. But recently, I found out that I can't ever come over to his house again because she doesn't "like" me -.- My bf told me that she doesn't like anyone and that it doesn't matter how 또는 who the person is, she just doesn't like them. He also said she hasn't liked any of his past girlfriends either. I'm just wondering is it's something to care about. My mother makes a big deal out of "getting along with the mother" but I'm not sure :/ what do 당신 guys think of this? I just need some ideas
 cuddly-pandas posted over a year ago
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kitsune-no-hime said:
It might be 더 많이 important if 당신 were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law 또는 one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For 당신 "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if 당신 still want to see each other 또는 more. If her trust isn't there, 당신 are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, 당신 are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes 당신 for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something 당신 can control. It would be nice if 당신 knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if 당신 are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! 당신 cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time.

Hopefully she can be won over.
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It might be 더 많이 important if 당신 were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law 또는 one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For 당신 "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if 당신 still want to see each other 또는 more. If her trust isn't there, 당신 are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, 당신 are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes 당신 for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something 당신 can control. It would be nice if 당신 knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if 당신 are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! 당신 cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time. Hopefully she can be won over.
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