How do I convince my parents for a dog?

I know that there are SO many Q&A's about this but my situation is WAY different! I really need some 조언 so anything and everything helps! Ok, so about 3 years 이전 my baby sister was born, a 년 later I was really into getting a dog and all that stuff and I talked to my mom-she was ok with it, but we all knew that my dad was the one to convince, he thinks they are waaaayyyyy to much work and we don't have the time. One night we had a discussion with all my "reasons" and all that stuff, and he said "in one 년 when your sister is 2, 당신 guys can, but I'm not doing anything, it's your responsibility". Ok got it? Now my sister is 3 yrs old and guess what? NO DOG! I forgot about it for a bit because I was relieved about him saying yes, then I realized that it wasn't happening, their excuse was that we are really busy and don't have time. Pls don't say oh make a presentation, write a letter, etc, I did all that and had no effect whatsoever! My dad thinks that I am responsible enough (I help out all the time, do the dishes, babysit, good grades, etc) but out neighbors daughter had a dog, went to college and now her parents are stuck with it, my dad doesn't want that with him and my mother. My idea was to get a senior dog but idk if that's a good idea 또는 how to bring it up.

I NEED ADVICE, ANYTHING BECAUSE I AM DESPERATE!

Thanks in ahead!
 mermaidgirl25 posted over a year ago
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LaughingHyena said:
Okay...this is what I would think about in the situation anyway...
My theory would be to be decisive about what kind of dog 당신 want. Ultimately all 개 are different, but the breed and age of the dog can potentially affect the personality. 당신 say a senior dog might be a good idea-this would certainly mean none of the puppyhood stage but if it is too senior then that could cause problems of its own, such as incontinence, age-related diseases, unwillingness in exercising etc. Maybe a good choice would be a young adult dog, well out of the 강아지 stage but still a long way off any age-related problems, though that all depends on what kind of dog you're looking for; personally I think a senior dog might be a bit tricky as a first pet judging from my own experience. The breed also plays a big part; 당신 say your dad thinks a dog would be too much hard work, maybe a dog that has the minimum of special requirements would be best. In which case I probably wouldn't recommend collies, greyhounds 또는 huskies for example; collies need to be kept busy and exercised and need a lot of space, and 개 such as greyhounds and Siberian Huskies often have strong hunting instincts. Don't be fooled 의해 small breeds either; they often need 더 많이 maintenance than big ones, especially in behaviour issues. Retrievers are lovely friendly pets, very gentle around children and people in general, though they are immensely greedy and will literally eat anything, so 당신 have to watch their weight. Poodles are often recommended as being the ideal companion dog in terms of personality, though if your dad kind of favours a 더 많이 'doggy' looking dog then the idea of a poodle might put him off, it depends on whether 당신 want its 모피 clipped in funny patterns 또는 not. I'd give terriers a miss around 아기 and small animals, with the exception of the Cairn Terrier, which I believe is supposed to be a bit 더 많이 gentle. Decide what kind of dog you're after, do lots of research until 당신 see the kind of dog 당신 think would fit your lifestyle. Get your mum to look into it with you; it's a good thing if your mum wants a dog too. Figure out what your 'ideal' dog is, take into account it's breed, age and where it has come from, and show your dad all the good things about having that kind of dog. Try to say it gently at first like 'Dad, would 당신 mind just looking at this a minute?' and try to give him no reason to complain. If you're decisive about what kind of dog would suit 당신 (and not just based on appearances) then 당신 might stand a better chance of convincing your dad that having a dog is a good idea.
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Thanks so much for the advice! I'm still weary about what to say to him about "the long term responsibility" hes still worried that he'll end up looking after it in 5/6 years....
mermaidgirl25 posted over a year ago
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No probs, yes that sounds like a good idea! :) She is chronically lazy, and greedy, and smelly...and it said in the dog breed book that her breed, Flat-Coated-Retriever, would need 'considerable exersize'...she's a big softie though.
LaughingHyena posted over a year ago
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I wil try that then, thanks for your help!
mermaidgirl25 posted over a year ago
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