It's kind of a silly question, but here goes..

If you're worried that not self-penetrating will make your first time 더 많이 painful, I shouldn't be too concerned. Full disclosure, I masturbated frequently before I had sex for the first time, however my fingers (and vibrator) stuck to stimulating my clitoris rather than penetration. Penetration's great and all, but 당신 can bring yourself to orgasm with clitoral stimulation alone, no penetration necessary.

If 당신 are interested in masturbating, but are embarrassed 또는 grossed out 의해 juices on your finger, I would suggest finding a vibrator. 당신 don't need to buy an OFFICIAL one, 또는 anything, so no need to be embarrassed. Several things can function as a vibrator, even if it wasn't its original intended use. For example, those innocuous vibrating "back massagers" 당신 can find in the drug stores like Walgreen's. Cheap, easy, and shameless.

If you're not interested in masturbating, and really want to wait for your first time to experience what the whole thing is like, that's also a perfectly respectable choice. But be assured that not masturbating probably won't make your first time 더 많이 painful than it should be. Penetrating yourself just for the sake of preventing pain during your first time is probably not a good idea, as you'll be 더 많이 nervous and probably 더 많이 hesitant. When you're with someone 당신 really want to be with, 당신 think you'll be nervous - and 당신 are - but it's much easier to get caught up in the moment than 당신 think. I promise, if 당신 wait for the right person, and the right time, it will be a remarkable experience 당신 won't forget.

The best of luck to 당신 in everything 당신 do!

I mean, 당신 can have sex all the time and it won't really change anything. You're always gonna bounce back into a horny phase, especially since you're young still. I would think jacking off would be the same, its just not as fun a having sex for real.

The only thing that I can see that having masturbated would change for your future sex life is that you'd have a better idea of what 당신 like. 당신 can't expect your partner to know your body better than 당신 do. Having said that, 당신 can always explore together when the time is right.

I understand 당신 feel a little embarrassed, but your body is meant to give 당신 pleasure. Everyone masturbates. If they say they don't, they're lying!

It is not silly. It is a GOOD 질문 & a legitimate one. It's okay. It will not affect a thing.

You'll be fine, either way. I understand the no privacy thing certainly dissuades all of that, even if 당신 wanted to, it does not accentuate at all.

If ever 당신 should feel like though~ 당신 don't have to watch/look 또는 do anything too funny/weird 또는 complicated in figuring out what helps & what 당신 like if 당신 decide-go to the bathroom, lock the door, run water if 당신 feel the need, and don't be embarrassed alone 의해 yourself. It is your body.

Everyone has different questions, different shyness levels, different turn-ons, but we are all human and in that we share the basics so it's good to ask. ;)