I'm not sure if I'm bisexual 또는 bi-curious and I can't ask anyone yet...help?

First of all, I just want to get the language right. Your friend didn't turn bisexual, she came out bisexual. Sexuality isn't something that 당신 turn into, 또는 choose, it's something that's always existed in 당신 that 당신 might discover 또는 explore, but it's not a sudden change 또는 a choice.

Next, nobody, least of all people on the internet who don't know you, can tell 당신 what your sexual orientation is. I know that might be frustrating for you, but keep in mind that we aren't you, we aren't inside your head, and we don't know how 당신 are feeling 또는 what you're thinking.

I do want to reassure 당신 that it's OK to be bisexual, normal even. Sexual diversity is a natural thing, despite what some people say. It exists in 동물 and humans, and has for millions of years. 당신 aren't the first person to be confused 의해 this either. I would suggest going to speak to your school counselor, who is bound 의해 confidentiality laws to keep your trust if you're concerned about judgment from other people.

If you're not ready to come out bisexual either because you're not sure if 당신 are, 또는 you're not sure how people will react, then the short answer is don't. Wait until 당신 know yourself better and it feels right to tell others. Focus on your interests in boys if that helps 당신 feel better. If 당신 meet a girl that 당신 find attractive, and if she reciprocates, go for it, see how it feels. Don't hide from your feelings. But it's no one else's business either, if 당신 don't want it to be. Heterosexuals never have to "come out" straight. They don't carry a sign with them everywhere that says that they're straight. Coming out is supposed to empower you, help 당신 define an identity. If it doesn't, then 당신 don't have to do it until it does.

This probably isn't much help. I still urge 당신 to discuss with your school counselor, who is trained in these matters.

Dont worry! Im 13 an i have a boyfriend but when i masterbate, i get really turned on 의해 lesbian porn. i didnt know if i was bi, but i learned that its normal in teen years. evenyually youll know what 당신 are but just relax an wait to find out what 당신 really are. :D