“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Never a truer word has been said. But before 당신 can begin this transformation 당신 have to stop doing the things that have been holding 당신 back. Here's a guide to how 당신 can do this.
1.Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants 당신 in their life, they’ll make room for you. 당신 shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand 의해 your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside 당신 when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2.Stop running from your problems. Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling every 펀치 thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3.Stop lying to yourself. 당신 can lie to anyone else in the world, but 당신 can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves.
4.Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that 당신 are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5.Stop trying to be someone you’re not. One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make 당신 likeeveryone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will 사랑 the real you.
6.Stop trying to hold onto the past. 당신 can’t start the 다음 chapter of your life if 당신 keep re-reading your last one.
7.Stop being scared to make a mistake. Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times 더 많이 productive than doing nothing. Every success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. 당신 end up regretting the things 당신 did NOT do far 더 많이 than the things 당신 did.
8.Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. We may 사랑 the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But 당신 are not your mistakes, 당신 are not your struggles, and 당신 are here NOW with the power to shape your 일 and your future. Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing 당신 for a moment that is yet to come.
9.Stop trying to buy happiness. Many of the things we desire are expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and working on our passions.
10.Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. If you’re not happy with who 당신 are on the inside, 당신 won’t be happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. 당신 have to create stability in your own life first before 당신 can share it with someone else.
11.Stop being idle. Don’t think too much 또는 you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive action. 당신 cannot change what 당신 refuse to confront. Making progress involves risk. Period! 당신 can’t make it to 초 base with your foot on first.
12.Stop thinking you're not ready. Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
13.Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in 사랑 when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14.Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didn’t work. In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose for everyone 당신 meet. Some will test you, some will use 당신 and some will teach you. But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15.Stop trying to compete against everyone else. Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every day. Success is a battle between 당신 and YOURSELF only.
16.Stop being jealous of others. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone wants?”
17.Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a direction that is meant for you. 당신 may not see 또는 understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs thrown at 당신 in the past. You’ll often see that eventually they led 당신 to a better place, person, state of mind, 또는 situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today 당신 are a lot stronger than 당신 were yesterday, and 당신 will be.
18.Stop holding grudges. Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. 당신 will end up hurting yourself 더 많이 than the people 당신 hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What 당신 did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what 당신 did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for 당신 too. If 당신 must, forgive yourself, 옮기기 on and try to do better 다음 time.
19.Stop letting others bring 당신 down to their level. Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20.Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. Your 프렌즈 don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it anyway. Just do what 당신 know in your 심장 is right.
21.Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break. The time to take a deep breath is when 당신 don’t have time for it. If 당신 keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes 당신 need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22.Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. Enjoy the little things, because one 일 당신 may look back and discover they were the big things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments 당신 spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23.Stop trying to make things perfect. The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
24.Stop following the path of least resistance. Life is not easy, especially when 당신 plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25.Stop 연기 like everything is fine if it isn’t. It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. 당신 don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. 당신 shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if 당신 need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner 당신 do, the sooner 당신 will be able to smile again.
26.Stop blaming others for your troubles. The extent to which 당신 can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which 당신 take responsibility for your life. When 당신 blame others for what you’re going through, 당신 deny responsibility – 당신 give others power over that part of your life.
27.Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn 당신 out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.
28.Stop worrying so much. Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years?” If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
29.Stop focusing on what 당신 don’t want to happen. Focus on what 당신 do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If 당신 awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and 당신 pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30.Stop being ungrateful. No matter how good 또는 bad 당신 have it, wake up each 일 thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what you’re missing, try thinking about what 당신 have that everyone else is missing.