Okay to all the heterosexuals and homosexuals out there, serious 질문 from a bisexual / asexual

How are 당신 only attracted to one sex / gender? How do 당신 specify / differentiate? How do 당신 know? What does it feel like that makes 당신 know 당신 are attracted to one sex and not the other?

Its a concept that REALLY baffles me since I really see no difference between the two XD
 Riku114 posted over a year ago
next question »

랜덤 답변

Zeppie said:
Personally, sexual attraction is the main thing that causes my attraction to be just men and to consider myself straight.

I can look at a woman and be like damn she works out 또는 has a nice butt 또는 something. But the idea of having sex with her honestly makes me want to be sick. So I feel like I can appreciate a woman's mind and her body but translating it to sexual interaction my mind and body says no.

I can partake in flirtatious banter with men and women (obviously no longer as I'm happily taken) because words are fun and gender has nothing to do with it. But physical bodies change it. I just have no desire in having sex with a woman.

Tl;dr it's basically cos of sex. I have the desire to have sex with a man and his parts. I don't have any desire to do that with parts that match my own.
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
*
^Same
Rihanna312 posted over a year ago
*
^ Same here !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted over a year ago
*
Same 의해 me
SilentForce posted over a year ago
SilentForce said:
Sexual attraction isn't really something that can be explained
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
TheLefteris24 said:
As baffled as 당신 might be because of one's Heterosexuality, I am just as baffled 의해 one's Asexuality XD I can understand it but not experiencing it myself, it makes it a bit difficult to see things from your point of view. Likewise, I could ask how can one NOT feel attracted either to the same 또는 the opposite sex? I suppose, the lack of sexual drive plays a very important factor. Personally, I feel it. That particular drive. Sexual need, arousal and the promise of bliss / fulfilment that comes from accomplishing the act of intercourse. One's libido. Something that comes completely naturally. An inbuild mechanism 당신 could say. I consider myself Straight. I am attracted to Women. Thinking of contact with Men automaticallly repulses me. Pretty much, both Genders are like the poles of a Magnet for me. There might be aspects of other Males that I will point out, not because I feel drawn towards them but because I admire them as a fellow Member of the same Sex. I might make jokes of a 더 많이 sexual nature concerning them but that always comes as a form of simply playing along. I do not harbor feelings / desires of that nature.

As a little kid, the concept of intercourse is completely alien. Growing up, 당신 start to notice changes inside you. One of them is the need for mating. We are not different from Animals. Just like those, we thrive through reproduction. To ensure this comes to be, our organisms have been designed to act accordingly. Having no such need throughout one's entire Life could be considered an Anomaly. Hence why, compared to Heterosexuality, Asexuality finds itself in the minority just like Homosexuality and Bisexuality. Though the later two have 더 많이 to do with what separates us from the rest of living organisms that surround us. We can make our choices. Choose to decline from the common norm and differentiate with a variety of lifestyles. For better 또는 worse, Humans are complex like that. Thinking about it, that is an Anomaly of its own in contrast to Nature. We use the logic we have been provided with to set standards. What we consider right and wrong and our very own preferences. Those are slowly being shaped 의해 experiencing life. In the beginning, a person is devoid of everything. Akin to an empty cup. With time, this cup begins to fill. Various concepts will be instilled. People will eventually reach a point where they take into consideration each of their aspects and set them apart. Sort out things and make the necessary decisions. They possess now their own sense of self and the reality around them. Ideas, views, understanding of the World, etc.
select as best answer
 As baffled as 당신 might be because of one's Heterosexuality, I am just as baffled 의해 one's Asexuality XD I can understand it but not experiencing it myself, it makes it a bit difficult to see things from your point of view. Likewise, I could ask how can one NOT feel attracted either to the same 또는 the opposite sex? I suppose, the lack of sexual drive plays a very important factor. Personally, I feel it. That particular drive. Sexual need, arousal and the promise of bliss / fulfilment that comes from accomplishing the act of intercourse. One's libido. Something that comes completely naturally. An inbuild mechanism 당신 could say. I consider myself Straight. I am attracted to Women. Thinking of contact with Men automaticallly repulses me. Pretty much, both Genders are like the poles of a Magnet for me. There might be aspects of other Males that I will point out, not because I feel drawn towards them but because I admire them as a fellow Member of the same Sex. I might make jokes of a 더 많이 sexual nature concerning them but that always comes as a form of simply playing along. I do not harbor feelings / desires of that nature. As a little kid, the concept of intercourse is completely alien. Growing up, 당신 start to notice changes inside you. One of them is the need for mating. We are not different from Animals. Just like those, we thrive through reproduction. To ensure this comes to be, our organisms have been designed to act accordingly. Having no such need throughout one's entire Life could be considered an Anomaly. Hence why, compared to Heterosexuality, Asexuality finds itself in the minority just like Homosexuality and Bisexuality. Though the later two have 더 많이 to do with what separates us from the rest of living organisms that surround us. We can make our choices. Choose to decline from the common norm and differentiate with a variety of lifestyles. For better 또는 worse, Humans are complex like that. Thinking about it, that is an Anomaly of its own in contrast to Nature. We use the logic we have been provided with to set standards. What we consider right and wrong and our very own preferences. Those are slowly being shaped 의해 experiencing life. In the beginning, a person is devoid of everything. Akin to an empty cup. With time, this cup begins to fill. Various concepts will be instilled. People will eventually reach a point where they take into consideration each of their aspects and set them apart. Sort out things and make the necessary decisions. They possess now their own sense of self and the reality around them. Ideas, views, understanding of the World, etc.
posted over a year ago 
*
Depending on the matter, not everyone is bound to share the same mindset and feelings but a middle ground can still be reached between two opposite sides. The thing is that 당신 might still not be able to see things the exact same way because feeling them is the key.
TheLefteris24 posted over a year ago
*
For example, unless you're horny, there won't be the need to go through the process of differentiating between sexes in order to come into contact with them. It is the same for me. Normally, I see fellow humans all around me. I consider them of equal importance and upbringing. They are all the same in my eyes. However, the moment my arousal switch is turned on, men cease to exist and my lust for Tits and Booties takes over. The desire for the Woman body in general. The difference is being made apparent on its own. In overall, I guess I could say that Nature takes its course? My instincts are making things inside me clear XD My very guidance through the matters of Sexuality.
TheLefteris24 posted over a year ago
*
Huh thats pretty interesting
Riku114 posted over a year ago
Mauserfan1910 said:
As a certified pansexual (and I use that term to be inclusive to non binary people, I'm a dirty sjew I know) I've never really understood this either, but it's just like asexuality to me, I don't understand it and I doubt I ever will, so I'll just have to live and let live because I don't see why it matters who plays with your pussy as long as they do it well
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
BlueDopamine said:
Same to 당신 - from a straight
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
*
Good point
SilentForce posted over a year ago
*
I actually was talking about it with Zeppie cause the thing that made me ask this is cause I kinda realized I do have a type of person to which I am naturally repulsed from and lowkey gag in my mouth a little thinking myself being involved with and I was wondering if that not hate but "intercourse like that is kind of gross and unappealing to me" was kind of like the feeling people who are straight / gay feel when thinking about having sex with the type they arent attracted to.
Riku114 posted over a year ago
*
If anyone wants 더 많이 ask me in PM XD Im cool with talking about it but I dunno if I want it on public with some of the things I plan to do in the future XD
Riku114 posted over a year ago
Lavendergolden said:
I'm STRAIGHT and not as good at explaining sexual attraction...but still let me answer

I may compliment some woman like "Wow, you're looking so sexy babe" but I really don't feel secually about her. I often feel a strong emotion I don't yet know the name of. Like, if I like a person very much....I start to smile shyly, even if it's a woman.

But I don't wanna have sex with her. When I see some really hot guy, i do blush and swoon like "Whoa, he seems really sexy." But that does not mean I'm in love.

Men and women are equal, but still, I feel some passion when I 날짜 a man rather than when I have a 일 out with a woman. I cannot explain how I differentiate, but sexual attraction varies.

I mean, things change with age. I may really like a guy 또는 fantasive about him, but I know if I must have sex with him 또는 not
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
*
Interesting XD Im genuinely curious on this stuff
Riku114 posted over a year ago
*
Yea, I really wanna know 더 많이
Lavendergolden posted over a year ago
CokeTheUmbreon said:
It's hard to explain.
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
EgoMouse said:
Idk sexuality is weird.
I identified as bisexual. I was in 사랑 with two women in my life and I do sometimes show interest in women. Now all I think about is men and my bisexuality subsided 또는 something. When I think of women now, I feel grossed out. Idk, bisexuality is baffling to me lol.
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
BlindBandit92 said:
This is continued from the pm 당신 sent me Riku..

Honestly sexuality and libido always appeared to me as intensity. 당신 claim I was your most straight friend. I have a strong intensity to be sexually attracted to women and the opposite feel for men. like everyone else I can view the gender I am not attracted to as potential 프렌즈 but I never want to fuck a dude. Like ever.

But here's where it becomes tricky though. I have found certain transsexuals (mtf) to be gorgeous. And I questioned my sexuality for a while. I know I am attracted to feminine figures. I would never fuck a mtf transsexual. (I am pretty positive I wouldn't) but I would definitely fuck a biological female.

I can understand asexuality. You're just indifferent to having sex. Being a very indifferent person. It's easy for me to understand but however heterosexuality,homosexuality etc, is the lack of indifference. that is how I view it.

I would rather hold titties than slap a dude's 나귀, 엉덩이 또는 hold their dick. It wouldn't do anything for me at all.
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
Ranty-cat said:
How would 당신 feel about beastiality 또는 necrophilia? I mean what it feels like thinking about fucking 동물 또는 dead corpses? Same here. I feel the same when I think about fucking my same gender.
select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
next question »