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Why is my stepdad so mean to me

My real father left me when I was a baby. Ever since then, my twin sister and I have been raised 의해 our mother and other family members. I've always been a kinda problematic child, getting angry easily because I was bullied, and becoming depressed and scratching my skin until it bled.
When I was 7, my mother introduced him to my sister and me. He was nice, and we went out to eat, and he said how he wanted to our father and stuff, and I was was like, alright sure. I turned 8, he moved in with us. He would tell my sister and me about himself, so we got to know him more. And at school, I was still bullied, and I hurt myself. I moved to a different school, and I think that was around the time he became a total ass.
Later on when I was 9, he and my mother announced I would have a new sibling. We moved out. Things got worse. He would call me and my sister names, call us crazy, say we had problems, take away our things... He wouldn't let me watch TV for a year, so I started to take my mom's phone and computer to get my mind off of it and just became a person who was always in their room. I hurt myself more, and had thoughts of killing myself when I was 10 because all that verbal abuse was getting to me. Now I'm 12, we live away from him. He visits on weekends, still calls me crazy. Said he would change, but eventually, he was still hurting my sister and me. Now he says he doesn't want me near my little sister who is almost 3, because I had problems. Last 월 he hit me.
 Leo_Shiro posted over a year ago
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astigpinoy said:
Your stepdad probably has problems of his own and he doesn't have an outlet to release his <insert emotions>.
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posted over a year ago 
DanDan211985 said:
Wow just wow dose a man half to go low enuf to say things like that to a kid dose it made him feal biger to say mean things to 당신 and your sister I am so sorry for you. Dose 당신 mom know that he hits 당신 and if she dose dose she look past it and ignore you? I ondering stand ware 당신 and your sister stand in this battle. Because your a kid your ignored. I do believe that is child abuse!! If 당신 ever need anyone to talk to I will be right here always ready to talk to 당신
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posted over a year ago 
MarineHolocaust said:
That's horrible, I'm sorry that any of that happened to you.... I don't know why he's like that to you, unfortunately, that's just how some people are. Does your mother know about how he's been treating you? I can only say that 당신 didn't deserve it, and that I hope that it gets better for you.
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posted over a year ago 
True-Finn-Fan said:
he hit 당신 eh? why did 당신 not start with that? anyway. how did he hit you? like was it a spanking 또는 what? accident?
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posted over a year ago 
Sk8er__grl said:
I don't know much to say to you. It is just plan awful to go through so much at such a young age. I am around your age and I have never went through such a thing. I can tell 당신 that not a few months 이전 that my best friend went through sever depression and suicide in never the answer. Things got better for my friend when she started calling suicide hotlines and she was talked out of it. I suggest 당신 do the same. Just stay on 팬팝 and 당신 will always have 프렌즈 <3
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posted over a year ago 
Book-Freak said:
당신 need to 신고 him to an authority figure. Do 당신 have someone at school to talk to?
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posted over a year ago 
xXxJDloverxXx said:
신고 him to someone (authorities). That's abusive both verbally and physically, no one should have to go through that. Things will be okay!
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posted over a year ago 
summer2987 said:
okay, uhm, youre 12.

당신 are 12.

12.

당신 can go up to your mother, just walk right up to her, and say "dad hit me."

now, if its spanking thats not the same. because, thats not illegal to spank a child, unless it leaves a mark.

and make sure youre honest, this is a serious thing, 당신 have to be 100 percent sure that him taking away your tv, 또는 yelling at you, isnt what other fathers do as well.

because trust me, i have had a drunk, motherless, abusive father, and yours sounds like paradise to be honest.

but, i respect your problems, 당신 still have these situations that 당신 can solve 의해 going to the police, child services and just telling them.
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posted over a year ago 
324anna said:
That's so awful! 당신 should DEFINITELY call the authorities 또는 generally talk to someone (an adult) that 당신 really trust, like your teacher for example. We all support you.
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posted over a year ago 
ITF said:
What does your sister think? Maybe she can help. If possible, hide a camera somewhere and film him. Then after he leaves, show it to your mother 또는 some one else like a teacher. But don't let him see it, because he could 삭제 it. If all else fails, give him a piece of your mind. He has no right to treat 당신 또는 your sister like that. But be careful. If 당신 can talk to him kindly and still get your point across then that would be best. If not, 당신 might have to tell him what a pathetic excuse for a man and father he is. But get it on film.
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What does your sister think? Maybe she can help. If possible, hide a camera somewhere and film him. Then after he leaves, show it to your mother 또는 some one else like a teacher. But don't let him see it, because he could 삭제 it. If all else fails, give him a piece of your mind. He has no right to treat 당신 또는 your sister like that. But be careful. If 당신 can talk to him kindly and still get your point across then that would be best. If not, 당신 might have to tell him what a pathetic excuse for a man and father he is. But get it on film.
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