How to 당신 feel about 질문 that ask 당신 to list your best 프렌즈 또는 who are your 가장 좋아하는 users?

I personally find them a bit unfair at times. I mean,for the first 질문 really,if your friend doesn't post you,it like hurts your feelings and it can upset many users. Same for the 초 question. A lot of users might not be on the lists people make and it can upset them greatly.