Is this really too much to ask for??!!

당신 do' nt have to do anything 당신 do not want to .

if 당신 do ' nt want a boyfriend in high school , thats perfectly fine , 당신 should never try to rush these things because other people are doing it .

and i have the same needs for a man , as 당신 do .

just keep looking he will come around .

is it bad to have preferences? absolutely not.

there is no problem in looking for someone who 당신 want to 날짜 with your given preferences. however sometimes a dose of reality is in need. keep in mind that not everyone's gonna fit your image, and if they do they won't be the best of persons all the time. i suppose what people mean 의해 "unrealistic" is that 당신 won't find anyone looking for a set few characteristics. my choice would be to let things happen naturally, but of course that's my choice. you're free to take whatever path 당신 want

the only thing negative i find about what 당신 say is 당신 complaining about it. 당신 wanna find someone thats great good for 당신 but honestly those sorts of 코멘트 are better of kept between friends, not anonymous strangers on the internet who have far less nice things to say

당신 probably have someone like that in your life, in the friendzone. Poor guy.

Hmm, no it´s not. I think that it doesn´t necessarily have to be hot.I really don´t care if the boy is hot 또는 not, I just care that he respects people,to be honest, smart,kind and that he doesn´t brag stuff.

Nope

it is not! don't let anybody pressure 당신 into being something you're not! i mean, you're not a drone, everyone is "not" going to be the same, and high-school kids can't seem to understand that, in high-school, there are a lot of groups and possies and the 모토 is, be like us, 또는 get out of the club, but later on you'll see that all of that doesn't matter, but 당신 matter, and your hapiness matters, so i say follow your 심장 girl :) i think you'll be happier that way sweetie, than if 당신 follow somebody elses 심장 XD 또는 be who somebody else thinks 당신 should be, trust me, i've tried to please people, it DOESN'T work! for me at least, all 당신 can really so "is" be yourself, turns out, that's what works best, so good luck dearie, just relax, sit back and take life one step at a time because the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind :P LOL (this isn't always true though) anyways, good luck! :D